shannaluvsit

I'm a now 30-something woman in Northern Cali and still only seeking the company of other women. I joined this site nearly a decade ago when I was much younger and very eager to learn. I found that the easiest way to "scratch my itch," if you will, was through the BDSM community and through this journey my desire to receive made me a natural submissive. Being in the Bay Area, exploring ass play (even more extreme ass play) in the BDSM setting wasn't difficult, though I found it challenging to find deeper, intimate connections with the Dominant women I gravitated towards and who seemed to gravitate towards me. I found, though, establishing more intimate relationships was a challenge as, frankly, my anal infatuation for a lot of the women I've explored with was exciting at first and perhaps something of a novelty, but in the long term perhaps became tiresome. I also find strictly defined roles as Domme and sub to be confining, especially outside of the bedroom, and as I hit my thirties, I sought relationships based more on equal footing, if you will. 

In many other ways, I'm still very much the same girl that first joined this site a long time ago. I'm always busy and always active; I'm still kind and outgoing, and while I used to be the sweet "everybody's little sister" type, I've morphed into more of a nurturing, lovey big sister type. I certainly still have a very dark, very filthy side. I'm still interested in connecting with female friends for chat, to share common interests, and perhaps even meet someday.