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I have to agree with everybody that has posted comments about this topic. Do NOT let the gay / straight / bi orientation cause confusion when looking for a fuck buddy. To avoid problems and complications you need to be very up front with what you are looking for, into, wants, desires etc.... I am a gay male and when I connect with straight men or bisexuals I make sure we have an open and honest discussion about play. When you meet have a glass of wine or beer and take for 15-20 mins with each other to discuss experience, fisting preferences, do's and don't, and whatever else is on your mind. Once you and your buddy have talked, get to it. Once things are clear it makes the session go much smoother. Also, once you start playing with a regular buddy (regardless of orientation) the play gets better and better each time and you learn what each other likes and how you both respond to the play.