mickeysoffers

Hey there, thought I would weigh in since I too, being a major ass-whore, have taken myself to sexual extremes and come back to find the more 'vanilla' to seem different than before--after you've had two men's fists inside of you, just one cock can seem insignificant. That being said, regular sex (one cock) doesn't have to become mundane, boring, or obsolete. There is something about being with just one person, and connecting with them on a more intimate/spiritual level that can't (if properly appreciated) be overlooked. Riding a guy and watching him get off in your ass, finding different ways to get fucked--there are a number of aspects to one-on-one sex that are incredibly sexually fulfilling precisely because it's a one-on-one thing. There's nothing that can compare to having your hole spread as wide as can be, made sloppy and welcoming by one or two fists; however, the same can be said about regular sex. The way I look at it, there's no hierarchy to sex--therefore there is no "worst" and "best" act, but rather, there are a multitude of 'flavors,' let's say, and a truly sophisticated and experienced sexual pallet therefore takes into account and appreciates all the different varieties of sex individually and learns to enjoy them all. Hope this helps!

As far as prep goes, the most important factor is going to be the cleaning out--nobody likes a messy play session! Especially if it's a first time deal, you don't want an unfortunate accident ruining the potential for any future play. Find a manner of cleaning (douching, toys, etc) that you like, and take care of that post haste. Secondly, you'll want to do as much pre-stretching as close to the actual session with your wife as possible. If you have toys, use those, or even your own fingers will suffice. Slow and steady is key here, if you stretch too far too fast you won't be able to play for very long, so take it slowly and if it hurts too much don't go any further, or at least pause first. Again, and I can't stretch this enough, anal stretching is not a race, so don't try and run it like one! Hope this helps, good luck!

Agree with Gershi ~ 3in diameter is still pretty safe n' sane as far as most "extreme" stretchers go, once you get above 4" however, you're really getting into (IMHO) bragging territory. It requires a lot of time, patience, and practice, and all future progress from that point on has to be done in small increments.

Thank you very much