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Fingerplay and fisting, when done by a partner who is into that sort of thing is way, WAY better than a partner using a plug, vibrator or dildo. This is my personal experience anyway. I'm hetro so I have no experience of a penis in my ass.

How long have you been able to retain a coke bottle when you have been awake? I am thinking, while at home, watching TV etc.

I guess that you want lube, that doesn't look like anal lube, and a sex toy, that doesn't look like a dildo or anal plug.... For lube, try Vaseline. It is a bit messy, but once warm it does a good job. Other people have tried margerine. For a starter "toy" try a roll on deodorant bottle. Other "toys" could be screwdrivers, the handgrip from a bicycle.... I'm thinking here....

Internet Explorer 7 - I like the tabs for quick flicking back and forth between different nettsites.

QUOTE(nixxoff @ Jun 6 2007, 05:58 AM) [snapback]28103[/snapback] I've also read an account of first try at depth-play at Redright's, where the writer had help by an experienced top to help 'straighten out the plumbing'. Taking advice from the experienced is always a good idea. Be advised, this is a gay site. Are you sure that this is at Redright? It is a good while since I have been to Redright, but I cant find the piece you mention. Could you post the URL?

QUOTE(analease @ Jun 8 2007, 09:38 AM) [snapback]28628[/snapback] I remember a thread from the old board which showed details of your insides, can't remember who posted it but it was very informative. Maybe the author could post it again. This is from the Redright nettsite: http://www.winternet.com/~redright/ffanatomy/ffanatomy.htm Redright is an english language site about gay fisting, but there is a lot of good hints and tips there stuff for we hetro folk.

Eros bodyglide is really nice, but the locally made "RSFU Glid" can be bought cheaply at the pharmacists.

I've had a "large" Kong for a while now. As you said it is a lot of "bang for the buck". I can insert mine completely. It is also fun to press it over the head of a dildo in order to feel large inside and have an open anus. There are a couple of minus points, compared to purpose built plugs. The rubber is not as smooth or as slippery as the material used on other toys so use PLENTY of lube. The toy is hollow which makes it a bit more difficult to clean. I too have looked around for the "Extra large" version but have yet to find it.

The whole thing about body hair has mainly to do with culture. In Britain and particularly in the US women are expected to have hairless legs and armpits. I was surprised the first time my then girlfriend (from Germany) pulled off her t-shirt to reveal a mop of hair under each armpit! Apparently in Germany, it was not expected that women shave their armpits.... Som blokes find shaved pubes a terrific turn on. I remember an impromtu discussion at my sports club around this theme. The younger blokes (in their 20's) all preferred women with shaved pubes. One young man even went so far as to say that he found hairy pubes such a turn off that he couldn't have sex with a women who didn't shave. The older blokes (40 years and over) seemed to be indifferent as to whether their women had hairy pubes or not. This might have to do with porn. I remember the porn magazines I sneekily read in my misspent youth showing very few models with shaved pubes. Today there are hardly any women porn models with hairy pubes. As for myself - I am one of the over 40 years old indifferent types, though I do have my limits. I remember a girlfriend who was very hairy, she liked me to do oral on her, but the undergrowth was in the way. She is the only women I have asked to shave. I also find facial hair on a woman a turn off. As said this is my personal taste and every man is different.

I can't prove it one way or the other, but I doubt that surgery is involved in the gapes we see in porn. If someone wants to gape, they just have to train with a partner, after a while they know which muscles to relax, and which to push.

Does anyone here have a prolapse? I don't have one and don't want one, but do enjoy fisting and large insertions. Is there anything one does to get one (just so I can avoid doing it).

How small a hole (not an ass-hole) can you get your hand into. Try out by cutting the base off some plastic bottles. It will probably be a diameter of about 7 - 8 cm, or 2 1/2" - 3". Buy a toy which has that diameter, a conical plug is the best to start off with. Let your man play with that until he can get it in. If he can't get it in buy someting a bit smaller in diameter. GO EASY and use PLENTY of lube! Then buy a dildo with the same diameter and continue the games. By then he should be able to accommodate your hand. Good luck, have fun and play safe!

Double posting - Sorry!

It seems to be a common misconception among non-practitioners that anal fisting and the insertion of large objects into the anus will permanently damage the anus and rectum and cause incontinence. I can only speak for myself, but it isn't a problem. Obviously insertion has to be done with a degree of care, and it can take years of streaching before a person can take an entire hand, but it is posseble to do without causing permanent damage.

I hope my attempts to make a signature arn't irritating people....

Hope this board lasts!

Nice one Xthorgal! - Bigdil