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Can you post a link of the inflatable dildo you use?

 

yes to uploading Ksucolt and Helena Lana. Thank you!

8 hours ago, Radeon said:

Thanks you my friend, but i want to ask you where you want it to be uploaded it's 37gb approx and zip isn't a good solution and after seeing past incident google drive is not a good solution, so can you suggest me what is the best place to uploading which was convenient to you all.

maybe you can use Mega?

Can you please reupload? The link no longer works.

Hey Nyrose, what you're describing was something I had to overcome myself and accept about myself. As much as we say that it is normal, quite frankly it's something we've hidden from others for such a long time that it's hard to unwire it once you do find someone who accepts this activity. It definitely took awhile to break down the walls for me but what helped me out was speaking with my wife and having her ask for it so it didn't feel like it was all coming from me. In my case, the feelings was rooted to this abnormal feeling you're talking about, and I was having a hard time relaxing because I was afraid that this wasn't something she truly accepted about me. 

Hope this helps

Out of curiosity, why do you not want to enter the sigmoid colon? I think most folks' rectum is about the 6-8 inch range.

While not everyone considers this, but I think deep play is when you enter the descending colon.

Has anyone ever tried inflating themselves with air? or another way to think of it, an air enema? I've been wondering if that could be a more 'clean' way for doing some stretching but I was also wondering if it could help for deeper insertions. I'm currently trying to take the slink but I seem to hit a wall, 2-3 inches from the widest part. 

Anyone ever tried this as a form of training?

I think Darthvin is saying that it doesn't fall out, rather he gets the sensation to push it out after his sessions. 

@Darthvin, I have this issue too and I have tried wearing a smaller one for it to be a little more comfortable but my body treats it like a foreign object and wants to evacuate anything and everything.

I'm in too

looks like you need to follow them in order to see it. I'm logged in but it says that their tweets are protected.

was anyone able to download the videos and could reup? or if anyone has links to mirrors?

 

I've been down this avenue a few times and to be honest, it gets easier every time. With my first relationship, I was terrified of saying it and I thought it would be best if I took her out for icecream and stuff. After I was sweating bullets, she broke the ice and asked if there was something on my mind. I told her I needed to tell her something but I wasn't sure I was ready. She was pretty understanding and waited until I decided to lay it all out and tell her what I was into. She laughed at first because she thought I was going to say I had a crippling addiction to drugs or alcohol. After her laughing fit she said that doesn't bother her at all. The relationship lasted quite awhile but ultimately we broke up. 

The next few relationships, I broke the news on our 4th or 5th date. They varied from me just sitting them down after a home cooked meal and telling them about it or just me beginning a conversation about what turns them on. I've only had one person who asked "Does that make you gay or are you bi" She was heavily religious but in the end she turned around. 

With my fiancee, I told her flat out on like our 3rd date and said "I totally understand if you don't get it but it's what feels good to me" She loved that I wasn't trying to hide anything and honestly, it helped build our relationship because I don't feel like I have to hold back now. 

Hope my anecdotes help you out and gives you some perspective. I find it helpful to be honest and upfront without sounding ashamed to work best. 

I'm going to add my own data point to this conversation. While I respect other people's choices of using poppers or drugs while they play, I have never used drugs or had alcohol while playing but I was able to stretch myself out to ~3.5in in diameter over the course of a year. As everyone will say, we are all built differently but I was able to play inconsistently for about once a month, twice if I was lucky. To Bigtoys420, buying good toys made with good materials is part of it.

I have also found that my butt is more accommodating if I stretch it out slowly with an inflatable plug, taking it in and out fully until I am comfortable with the size then I add a pump; rinse and repeat until I hit ~2.6in diameter. That is when I move on over to some of the larger plugs. One thing I learned about my body was the best position to be in and the direction I am pushing the toy. I find that pushing a large toy angled slightly towards the back helps. This was generally when I attempted to take in larger harder toys, the most recent one being an 80mm in diameter glass plug. 

7 hours ago, Glasg0wR0se said:

it doesnt get in the way, but I think you do change how you play... but that's the case with anything. there's always variation... you just do what feels good. for me it feels really good to be starting to prolapse. it's taken a really long time and a lot of effort but it's been worth it so far.

Do you see any impact on taking larger diameter or longer toys? Something I have been wondering about is if it will limit my max diameter or ability to take longer toys because now there is an added pressure where I want to push it out

Hi everyone, long time lurker and read a few past topics with similar questions but never got the answer from more than one individual. Recently, I’ve been thinking about getting a pump and attempting this after having stretched out to 3.5in diameter but had a few questions before taking the next step. For those of you who have a prolapse or trying to achieve one, how has it affected your play time and daily life?

• do you feel you can still stretch to the same diameter and depth? Or do you feel that sometimes the prolapse gets in the way or you’ve changed how you play?
• similarly, how has it affected you in the bathroom? I get constipated from time to time from my lactose intolerance and am sort of afraid of it popping out while I’m pushing and it causing a mess.

I’ve read the guide and the pros and cons but I would like to hear from a variety of people and their journey. 

Count me in as well.

I would also be interested in their other videos as well if your friend can upload them.

I don't use a telegram chat but I frequent this site often enough and can be reached via private message.

A little late to the party but I'm down for the group buy as well if possible.

 

can anyone upload it to a different file hosting site? Thank you!

When I started going out with my girlfriend, I made a huge leap by telling her I was into this sort of thing.

I was really nervous that day and she could see that. In her mind she thought it would be something really bad like I had a bad drug addiction but after I told her I was into this sort of play, she started laughing and said 'Was that it? you were nervous all day to tell me that?'

In the end, she plays with my ass whenever I ask or whenever she wants to and loves to stretch me out

Just so everyone's on the same page, here is a preview of the video I am talking about:
http://xhamster.com/movies/1651749/xo_speculum_and_40cm_deep_insertion_in_ass_hotkinkyjo.html#comments_title

I know the other speculum she uses is the xo speculum but that is discontinued. I'm hoping that the one she uses isn't and I can find some way of purchasing it

The one that I am thinking of isn't the horse speculum. It's one of her newer videos where she is wearing a blonde wig. The speculum blades looked extra wide but the blade length were really short.

Anyone have anymore info?

Hey Everyone,

I've been seeing more vids of speculum play recently and I've been wondering where are people getting these speculums from? There are pictures floating around of Hot Kinkyjo with a speculum that looks very similar to a collins speculum but the blades seem wider? The dimensions, from what I can tell do not match up with a large collins speculum.

I've bought a few speculums before, particularly the Miller and the Collins, but I can't find any that are larger than these, yet I see videos of girls using larger one like in Everythingbutt videos and Hot KinkyJo's videos.


Does anyone have any more information or know of a place where I can buy an extra large speculum?

The link I posted is a compilation from several people. Ass_man is in there but I the first few clips are from a different person

http://xhamster.com/movies/992454/anal_dilation_extrem_prolapse_gape.html

The first few clips, does anyone know who this is? or maybe a link to this person's profile?

Thanks

I'm probably going to just leave my ace of spade as is until I move up to a 3.25" dia plug and try again, though I don't know when that would be.

here's a link to the bed knob toy I was talking about:

http://www.sextoysex.com/prod_info.php?a=ouroffert&pnum=CNVTSX-21308011

when I inserted the bed knob buddy, I was surprised at how comfortable it was and after my session my butt was sore but no to the point of not being able to sit down.

Give the bed knob a try, it's my new favorite toy; though I wish they made them going all the way up to maybe 4" dia