analfrk

This is a good idea...seeing your doc. I would be honest w/him/her, and let them know your kink, and pay attention to their advice. I think silicone toys are best as they are the most forgiving. If you give yourself some mental time, the psychological arousal aspect does not need to be diminished. Avoid any porn for a couple of months.

Hello, just wanted to say hi! new to the board, but not to anal play. I have been inserting larger and larger items into my ass for many years. I have a small rosebutt and large pillowy lips. Very interested in talking to others who share my fetish!"

This may be a combination of things. One, it’s common to cause anal nerve damage. This happens when we forcibly stretch the home w/out giving it time to adjust. I have some of this. 2”two, you sound like you are desensitizing to the behavior. This too is somewhat common. Take a break for 90 days, let it rest in your brain and then come back to it. The nerve damage is pretty permanent. Not much u can do there.

I really like the silicone toys from Mr Hankys. Especially the tapered ones. You can get them in the size you need, and work up to the thicker parts. I feel silicone is best, as if reduces the risk of nerve damage which can occur if you are too forcful, and don't allow your body to adjust to greater diameters.

8.9 Inch diameter is pretty good for most of the inflatables. I need more now. I can take at least 9.5 and like to feel fully stetched. I