Sydfist

I'm old school. J Lube and Crisco, but with this proviso: Generous squirt on JLube deep inside (mixed to a nice viscous consistency). Anything going in is well covered with Crisco. Shoulder deep each time. The crisco and the JLube slide off each other. JLUBE recipe Use an intermediary (I use vaseline moisturiser). Pour about 100ml of moisturiser into a bowl. Add 4 table spoons of J Lube. Mix until you get a nice paste Add 2 litres of water Stir. For those that cook it is like making a roux - flour mixed with melted butter and the liquid resolves with no lumps. Am working on a coconut oil/crisco combination. think that has great possibilities.

Patience, Persistence and Practice are the three Ps of fisting and stretching. I am one of the fortunate ones whose arse has always loved to stretch. I wish this had been around 40 years ago when I was starting out: https://www.invinciblerubber.com/Stretch-Range It's a very well thought out range of dildos going from about 3cm to a life sized double fist. Well priced, too. Brainspace is the most essential element - not cringing and going 'something really big is pushing in' but rather going 'ohh let me gently wrap myself around this'. The joy of the first sink to the bottom of a new larger toy never dies off. Just gets larger and more expensive!

Great thread ... shame we are all in different parts of the world. After I had the cauterisation, the down time was two months to allow it all to heal. That might be a guide for the polyp removal. The big issue with anal bleeds is that they do not coagulate easily because of the environment and of course you can't apply pressure or pop on a band aid!

Well - at least you had a bonus stretch!! I had something similar, - about six potatoes - and only four wanted to drop. About 2 hours later the fifth dropped. But also have a horse speculum in the toy kit. Got the play partner to use that ... and that widened things enough for it to drop. It was a lot of fun solving the issue, but did not want to repeat it. After that, I now make sure anything that goes up can be pulled out. I have a huge set of anal beads ... think that will give you the same sensation as the apples ... more so when the partner has pushed them way up inside, left them there, and then brings them out again. Have you ever tried chaining? If you like deep filling sensations, then chaining is your game.

Have been fisting for decades. I am always open and straightforward about it, especially when dealing with medical issues and treating doctors. They need to know what happens and what they need to look out for. Story 1: First colonoscopy at 35 because my then proctologist was very aware that I fist (that's why I had the check). As I went under, he said - it's really a waste of anaesthetic. He doesn't need it .. Story 2: My GP and I have a frank relationship about my fisting. I have a sigmoidoscopy every 6 months just to see all is ok. Once he said: "It's really easy doing this with you - absolutely no hassles and everything is wide open and easy to see ... and you are always superbly prepped " Story 3 - Regular GP away, booked in for prostate check. Young female Dr who started the whole "relax" prep talk. I looked her straight in the eye and said - don't bother, you won't have any trouble with this examination. She asked me to lie on my side, gloved and lubed and there was a definite pause of surprise. "Yes, I see. I was told about this, but frankly didn't believe it". We chatted for a while about it. Story 4. Had to have a fissure cauterised (too much embarassing blood after heavy sessions) and was in the ward for a week under observation and being fed intravenously so nothing irritated the healing. Young Asian Dr let it subtlely be known there was some empathy to my plight. "I know you have a regular doctor, but I think I would be able to give you a fuller and deeper examination." We examine each other very regularly now! By being open about it, there is no pushback. Most of the medical staff I have dealt with are interested and sometimes the conversations are quite incredible.