Periwinkle_Rose

What do you think is the best technique? Keeping it inside (if so, for how long?) Or pushing it in and out? I personally keep the soap inside for 15 minutes and feel the urge to push it out, but once it's out, that feeling completely disappears almost instantly. I don't even feel a burning sensation either, like some have mentioned. I've use LeChat soap, as well as Dove soap, as recommended by some, but it doesn't really seem to do much for me.. Should i keep it inside even longer, or do you have any other recommendations?

Could someone please give an example of a good soap for that kinda stuff... I've tried a few different ones I had at home and felt almost nothing... I'm barely irritated at best.. I've also bought liquid glycerin, but I don't think it's doing much either...

Grrrr, that's what I thought... I'll have to be patient and wait until I move away then. Good things come to those who wait, as the saying goes... Thanks so much, Darthvin <3

Would you say the Hismith is still worth buying as a first fucking machine? The Kong one sounds amazing, but 1500€ is a big investment for a first purchase. Even though it's less powerful, I believe the Hismith can be stored in a bag which would be great considering I live with my dad atm. I think the Kong is a bit bulkier and less easy to store, isn't it? Here's the model I found: https://www.amazon.de/-/en/gp/product/B07433S7ZG/ref=ewc_pr_img_3?smid=A2AIPK79Z6BJUB&th=1 . 500 € is still an investment so I wanna make sure I won't buy a worthless machine - I'd prefer buying the Kong then, even if it's more expensive.

I swear it's the first thing I'm gonna buy as soon as I live alone; @Darthvin's descriptions always got me dreaming *-*

Thanks again for all your recommendations! I ended up buying this awesome plug: https://www.amazon.de/gp/product/B001GHJ8LI/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_image_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1 I can barely take it in and it's a bit harder than my WAD toys, which is exactly what I was looking for! It's 7,8 cm in diameter and has a nice ace-of-spade-like shape, it really pops when it gets in, I love it!!

Thanks for your recommendation! I think I found a good one on their website. It's not in stock atm, but once it is I might order it with medium firmness. I might actually try that in the meantime, that sounds like a good idea.. thanks for the tip! I bought an eggplant yesterday, but I just realized it's way too small xD

Hi guys, I'd like some help to find a new toy with a maximum diameter of 7.6-7.9 cm (3-3.1 inches). My favorite plug is currently Oblivion by WAD with a diameter of 7.5 cm and I'm looking for an upgrade. I believe my limit is 7.9 cm: anything bigger won't enter, no matter how much I try, so keep that in mind. I'd like to make some good progress on my rose so I'm looking for a toy that'd really wreck my ass, which is why I thought of buying plugs like the Ace of spades (but it's discontinued) or Ream & Scream (but it's too big) since there's a big decrement between the head and the neck of the toy. I don't intend on wearing it, but rather popping it in and out (while bearing down, of course) for maximum wreckage, however I'm not so good with length yet (still working on it), which is why I'd prefer a plug rather than a dildo (or at least a toy under 21 cm in length). I'm sure a dildo with a nice mushroom head could be fun to play with, though ^^ I haven't really found anything that matches my criteria yet... the closest thing I've found was the Magical Orb from WAD, which has a diameter of 7.8 cm, but I already have 2 plugs of the same brand and I'd like to mix things up a bit. Any recommendations? I've already searched on Amazon.fr, Amazon.de and Gaymegastore.eu, but feel free to recommend any other online store that offers delivery in Belgium/Europe. <3

@Darthvin: May I ask you where you bought it? You might have just convinced me to buy it as well :p

Actually, some suppositories contain glycerine because it is a mild irritant which increases the frequency of bowel movement by stimulating the bowel muscles to contract.

I doubt it, tbh. First of because glycerin isn't the main ingredient and also because I've tried to use liquid soap myself, to no avail.. But you might as well try it, who knows...

@rusty648oh ok, that might do the trick. How much of it do you think would be the right amount? Like a full pipette?

That'd be wonderful! I hope you're right :-D In that case, I'll be training even harder! I thought all progress was hopeless because of my bone structure, but maybe I can manage to shift it little by little with soft toys after all... One thing's for sure: we'll be popping champagne if you're correct, haha

I'm not sure I understood the article correctly, but it says here : "The transverse diameter, between the ischial tuberosities, is generally between 8 to 11 cm." If I'm not mistaken, the ischial tuberosities are like your sitting bones and I think they are those that determine your limit

I doubt it. I'm pretty sure my limit is 3.14 inches (8 cm). Above that, no matter how much I try, nothing seems to get in.

Update : tried figging and got a pleasant burning sensation going on, but still no straining feeling On the other hand, I tried leaving my biggest plug in for a longer time plus bearing down while playing with it and actually got quite nice results. I feel like my rose is starting to bloom

Try this and thank me later :p I'm clean for almost 2 full days when I do it like that.

I tried soaping with 2 different soaps, but didn't have this "straining feeling"... any idea why? Am I doing something wrong? I just kept the soap inside of me for 10/15 minutes and even rubbed it a little bit, but...nothing. Maybe I'm immune, lol I might give figging a try if still doesn't work

I currently live with my dad and everytime I get a "special delivery" I just pretend like it's a gift for one of my friends and I say I don't wanna open the box so my friends can open it themselves when they get the present

Thanks for your great answers, guys! @Tractor: That makes complete sense to me, that's what I had in mind as well. That's great news @Upthebutt: Thanks for the advice! I'll still have to decide between soft or medium. I see a lot of people say soft is better, because it's a really textured toy, but when I see comparisons (like here), medium looks pretty flexible to me already. Anyways, I just realized Bad Dragon doesn't take new orders at the moment due to covid, so I'll have to wait a bit before I can finally buy one of their toys, but I'm really excited!! Meanwhile, I'm gonna train my ass even more; this way, it shouldn't be a problem when it ultimately arrives!

Hi guys I was window shopping on Bad dragon's website and was thinking of buying a large Nova : https://bad-dragon.com/products/nova. The thing is I can take round plugs (such as this one) up to 3.15 inches in diameter, but then I feel like I'm reaching my limit pelvic-wise... :'( Since Nova is actually flatter on one side compared to the other, do you think I'd be able to take it, even though the diameter of the knot is 3.2"? Would it fit if I placed the longer side this way | rather than this way —? I'd probably buy it in medium softness, so I guess it could also compress a bit. Nova truly is the one that caught my eye, but I've never spent so much money on a toy, so I really wanna make sure I get it right. I've also considered getting either Spritz or Terra in large or Dexter in medium. Those might actually be safer bets, but I'll have to think about it (feel free to share your opinion, though). Even if I end up not buying anything, I'm still curious to know wether it'd be possible or not; that might be helpful for a future purchase <3 Thx for reading (and possibly answering) and have a great day!

I think there are many factors at play, but first of all you should ask yourself : How have your BM been throughout the day? If your feel that your fiber intake has shown to be sufficient that day, you should probably be fine. One little trick I discovered is that after wearing a plug for 1-2 hours, I often get an urge to use the restroom, even though I douched right before (I use a bulb syringe). After that, I'm always squeaky clean and I know I can start my play session with no risk at all.

Towels, towels, towels everywhere! It's the easiest solution. Plus, when you're done, just wrap all your toys in one of them, it's so convenient! I personally always use 2 towels: one on the floor to catch all the excess lube dripping down my toys (I play on the ground, lol)) and one to wipe my hands, that I keep nearby. Just like Subwhore said, prepare everything you'll need in advance and it should do the trick :-)

Oh, I see what you mean. Wow, I would have never thought about that, thanks for letting me know :-o As for the toy I got, the size seems to be correct, like you explained. I’ll definitely keep that in mind for my next purchases. Who knows... I might choose a toy with a freakier shape next time ^^

I ended up getting this one in large. It was delivered to me yesterday and I’ve already tried it, of course! It’s actually a great soft toy, I’m already able to take it ‘til the third bump (8cm). One more to go I also ordered the Crusader from WAD: https://www.amazon.de/dp/B07F89LT8S/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_Q9QP660J0TNZVMCZVRHZ?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 it should arrive on Tuesday... I can’t wait to try it!!