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I'll follow this topic too. I have pretty much the same problem but worse! From what I feel and understand is I can take huge toys to about 200mm (10") which seems to be the start of the first bend. I can take up to about 40mm (1.5") around the first bend to about 300mm (12") where I hit a ring, I'm assuming this is the second ring? I can get under 22mm (0.75") through this ring and as far as about 500mm (18") with no trouble at all. But try as I might over a few years now, even with really gently tapered dildos it hurts to push anything bigger than 22mm. I drew blood once so gave up trying pretty much. I don't have a really soft toy like a slinky which I think is my only hope to stretch without damage. I know we're all different, but does this sound about right?

As you say the banks & CC companies don't want to play any more, but xhamster took my new credit card this week OK. I also just became aware of a new (to me) payment sceme called paysafe card. You can pay cash at loads of local outlets and get a voucher with a PIN, then use the PIN to pay your porn habit. Doesn't need name, address, email, phone or anything as far as I'm aware. Not sure by what means the sites get the money from paysafe though, hard to imagine it doesn't involve a bank somewhere! I bought one, then couldn't use it with xhamster as it seems only new subscriptions got the option, my renewal only offered CC. Doesn't seem to be common around the sites though...

I found this link: https://www.lovehoney.com.au/product.cfm?p=40237&ReviewPage=1

One thing I've found is giving them all a good coating of talcum powder after cleaning them, it seems to stop them interacting. I do try and keep mine apart, but sometimes they touch and since doing this I haven't had any damage. It's good with the silicone toys as it stops them feeling sticky (sticky probably isn't quite the right word) and picking up fluff etc as well, probably doesn't do much for the PVC ones though. I wipe the talc off with a wet cloth before use, if it causes trouble in womens pussys it's probably not good for rosebutts either! just a suggestion that seems to work for me. I have heard of people wrapping them in cling-wrap, but can't comment on how effective this is.

I use Video DownloadHelper extension with Firefox mostly, works with pervertium but it doesn't work well with xhamster where youtube-dl does. I haven't found one extension that works for all the different sites yet!

I'm also wonderring which are the better / more used "tube" sites by members here? I've used xhamster & premium xhamster for ages and recently uploaded a few vids, but since the Pornhub thing, xhamster has been changing rapidly and I'm not sure I like the changes. I liked it because there was lots of stretching, plugging, pegging, fisting, roses and easy downloads. There's no download link anymore and my browser extensions don't work very well with all the content. In another thread cons said - you can use youtube-dl with xhamster - which I've now installed and it works fine. I did stumble across pervertium.com a few days ago, it has a wide range of stuff (lots of siswet). I'm not sure about the origin of a lot of their stuff, it seems a lot of it might be "borrowed"? It seems to offer upload but I haven't found much true amateur stuff there yet. Downloads seem to work OK using a browser extension. Any suggestions please?

Thanks, I had been using a browser extension which worked for most things, but youtube-dl is great, seems to get the file every time.

Wow, this is not good news! I discovered yesterday that the Download button has dissapeared on the movies at xhamster, it was there earlier this week, I uploaded a vid or 2 and had a prowl around some cool vids. Are others seeing the same thing? I tried a download helper and was able to get low res downloads of some but not all I tried. I've tended to stick to xhamster because it had good range of content and easy downloads but note sure now. Does anyone know if this is related to the Pornhub changes?

I have office/workshop room downstairs and my wife likes to go to bed early. It's very rare for her to come down once she'e gone to bed. I get about 20-30 seconds warning if I hear get up, one day I'll get sprung! I only have out what I'm using that session and stay mostly dressed. Much more fun when no-one is home, but that's rare.

I got some Vagisil last night & gave it a go. I put some around the outside of my hole and some on my finger inside around the muscle about a hour before play. Did the same about 15 mins before play and have to say it worked great for me! I didn't use a real lot just about a 1/2 inch squirt on my finger each time. As other have said, I still felt everything, I didn't go any bigger than I have been before, but got there much faster. As the session went on where I would normally get quite tender and stop being fun, I was able to keep playing. My ring was a little tender first thing in the morning, so I put a small amount on the outside & all good, job done! Will definately be buying a few more tubes of that!

I have a similar problem, I can get big diameters up the first 8" or so, a max of about 1.5" from there around the first bend to about 12" deep, then from there nothing bigger than about 3/4 inch diameter. Under that diameter I can go about 20" deep using 1/2 inch soft, thickwall silicone tubing with a moulded knob on the end. At that 12" distance it seems to be more about a restriction than the bend, I tapered a nice soft 16" dong right down to about 1/2 inch on one end with a real gradual taper and it will go further in, but when I measure how far, it's just to the point where it's 3/4 inch dia is 12" along! If it was about getting around the bend, 3 to 4" of the dong has gone around so the rest should be able to follow. Giving it a lot of time, lube and pushing over many sessions just doesn't make any difference, nothing over 3/4" goes past. Anything under 3/4" goes in with little effort at all. I've pretty much come to accept thats how I'm built! A couple of things I have found, some days are much easier than others, if it won't go easily give up and try another day. You've got almost no nerves in there, so you won't feel pain until you're really rough and maybe doing damage, you feel almost all the pleasure from your asshole, so be carefull ! (You can confirm this for yourself by putting a hollow plug in your ass then then shove a dong in through it, you'll hardly feel a thing!) Watching videos of men & women pushing 2" dia 18" long dongs (or a forearm) straight up into the belly, it seems their colon must be able to move in the body cavity (those things aren't doing an "S" bend) where mine does not seem to move at all, maybe yours doesn't either? Maybe someone else is similar or has other suggestions?

1- Inserted something up your ass - Yes 2- Got fingered by someone else - No 3- Got fucked by someone else (strap on counts) - No 4- Got fisted by someone else - No 5- Got double fisted - No 6- Got triple fisted - No 7- Fisted yourself - No 8- Inserted a dildo/toy deeper than 10 inches (or 25cm) - Yes 9- Inserted a dildo/toy deeper than 20 inches (or 50cm) - Yes 10- Got fisted elbow deep - No 11- Got fisted shoulder deep - No 12- Inserted a plug/toy wider than 2 inches (or 5cm) - Yes 13- Inserted a plug/toy wider than 3 inches (or 7.5cm) - Yes 14- Inserted a plug/toy wider than 4 inches (or 10cm) - So close... up to 9.9cm now 15- Prolapsed up to about an inch long (2.5cm) - No 16- Prolapsed clearly more than an inch long (>2.5cm) - No 17- Prolapsed clearly more than 2 inches long (>5cm) - No 18- Inserted your own penis in your ass - Yes 19- Inserted your own penis in your ass and came inside - Yes 20- Had a whole foot up your ass - No Well, I still have lots to look forward to, but it'll be a bit hard as a single player. Wish I'd found this board years ago!