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  1. On 6/4/2009 at 3:14 PM, bigdil said:

    I experience the same. I think it has to do with relaxing the muscles around the anus. When these are relaxed during a big penetration the penis becomes flaccid.

    Conceptually, exactly how it was explained to me. Seems it turns on at the mid-forearm point somewhere. I interrupt it to being so focused on the happenings in that nether-in that mentally, how could there be?

  2. Go out and buy some puppy pads. Piss as much as you can before hand, (pun). Get on all fours and let her smash your guts. Yesplease said it best. If she is rocking your world and into it, It adds to the whole scene. I love it, precum, piss, grease, lube! If there is anything to pay particular attention too would be the "art of cleaning your ass out spic n spam" Shit does happen sometimes though!

  3. On 3/13/2020 at 7:01 PM, FredTheFister said:

    If a woman who fists you is absolutely what you want you need to find out as early you can. But the better you get to know a woman and the more she likes you, the more likely she is to say yes to the question. 

    So if you ask her on date #1 she'll say no, but after a few dates and she really likes you she might be more open to it.

    I got married recently and I had decided I didn't want to get married unless it was with a woman who would fist me. I told her after we had been dating for a while and it was clear we were planning a future together. Women I dated before here were not wife material and they never received the info I was into fisting, but I had fun with then nevertheless, just not fisting.

    We never really planned it in the beginning. We were at the Presidio SF in the early 90's when we met. After building a strong friendship, which is the most important part to me, not knowing was the most important part of it all. We had strong communication so nothing was of limits. We had been out on the town going to various cubs of Lombard, Tenderloin, Castro mainly for cultural experience as that both happen to be our thing being open minded and wanting to learn. Back then SF use to be the shit for night life. Places like the Mother Lode, Mitchel Bros's and various all nude no liquor, partial no liquor, clubs. I've heard it sucks now. So we were at Mitchell Bros and we watched a live stage show of two women going at each other with strapons, pegging the shit out of each other and it was so fucking hot! Now, I've always wanted to dominate a man, but never the right one appeared to me. I new him and trusted this one and on the drive home, so turned on by the show I simply asked in a mater of fact way, how it turned me on and that I wanted to try it. We had no idea what the fuck we were doing.We went to a local shop and got a harness and strapon together, which in itself was a great experience. Being both from medical backgrounds we new or guessed, hygiene and the idea of enemas and cleaning  out was a given.

    At first it was like typing with all thumbs. I had no idea and he was excited and terrified at the same time. I actually used a couple fingers and just took the time to get him comfortable which was the hardest part of all. This is 1993 when there was absolutely no info available. We just stumbled through it and had a fucking blast! After about 2-3 weeks from what I remember I slipped my fist in his ass for the first time. I was scared for him and he was terrified cause he clamped down and didn't think I would be able to get my hand out!

    Here we are 27 years later and well, you be the judge!

    https://xhamster.com/photos/gallery/12280581/297583173

  4. On 5/6/2010 at 11:41 AM, allapologies said:

    What I was wondering more is if anyone made a lube with a muscle relaxer in it? Cyclobenzaprine (or Flexeril) compounded into a lube would probably work wonders. It would in theory relax your anus but not the rest of your muscles. But who knows, its just a theory.

    It works wonders! Not to use it as a sole lubricant, but as an additive and less is better to start. Too much will desensitize the area and you will lose a great dell of effect. as with lanocane, benzocane, menthol, clove extract, jagermeister, phenol.

    The best coating and incidental lube desensitize r combination available without risk and worrying about too much effect and side effects, IMO would be Bag-balm. The little green can that does all in one. It is oil based and  understand the limitations the oil lubed bases bring to the table.

    If I had to only choose one lube. No other for the rest of time, regardless of what my current preference is, Bag-balm would be what I would want to be the only thing I hand on a deserted island with my husband! 

     

    The Little Green Can that Can! 

  5. On 11/29/2019 at 7:07 PM, AzFrNick said:

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    The accident described here happened for multiple reasons:

    • They were going too far with something that is rather hard and will not bend or adapt in shape (arms and hands) and they were obviously overdoing it
    • They were super high (clouded judgement)
    • The injured was surprised that they went elbow deep on him the time before and basically could not believe it (hint that something way beyond enjoyable and beyond extreme happened and that he should not have accepted to do extreme deep play like this again)

    There have been cases of death, such as:

    • The infamous Enumclaw incident (google it)
    • Some guy who impaled himself on a broomstick after slipping: there was evidence of him going around his house and sitting in different areas until he bled out instead of calling 911

    I also read of one case where the bottom was high on Ketamine while some guy was trying to break a world record on how deep you can go until he ripped the duodenum open. The injured was saved with surgery but large amount of J-Lube spilled over into his abdomen and that wreaked havoc. He apparently suffered extremely for weeks and even opiates could not help relieve the pain.

    Read the J-Lube label: the warning about it being toxic to your innards is there for folks who use their product for extreme anal penetration. They know who they also sell their product to. It's not just used for animal husbandry, it's also used by special effects specialist when they make goo or slime (they used it in all the Aliens movie, it's obvious), extreme soap bubble competitions (yes, it's a thing) and people who take toys and hands up their butt. J-Lube is very aware that when they sell to shops in downtown New York or San Francisco, it's not used by cow boys (except maybe that guy from the Village People).

    Here is a medical article with several incidents (note: heavy drug use always involved)

    https://sti.bmj.com/content/80/6/469

    I have been injured once by a top who kept on insisting on going too far. I had to tell him to stop and then I stopped playing with him altogether. No bleeding right away but a few days later I passed blood but nothing extreme. A sexual confident of mine insisted on me going to the hospital but I saw the bleeding happened once and that was it, therefore I did not go.

    Why I threw away all my old school toys: they were either made of a material that was too hard or had a shape designed by someone who is not a player or were made of toxic plastic.

    Why I only use the expensive higher-end toys: they are made of a softer material and designed by people who are also aware of safety as well as what really works. 

    I recommend against large butt plugs, because once inside, they tend to want to stay in and not come out. Some folks ended up in the ER because the base of the plug tore off after they tried to pull on it. I've almost found myself in that situation and managed to pull the largest butt plug I ever took (4.5" in diameter) after a lot of effort. I have since thrown it away. 

    I also believe that you should not do drugs beyond a bit of cannabis and poppers. Cannabis can make you really high, though, so be careful. I have seen some videos of a guy continuously inhaling copious amount of weed smoked from a bong while being pegged with a huge and very long dildo. Errr... I don't see the enjoyment. But he did, apparently. Poppers, well, we talked about it. They can cause eye damage, lower your O2 sat, etc... etc... so use in small amount.

    So here are my recommendations for extreme anal play (from someone who is not a medical doctor but has been playing for 35 years):

    • Don't use hard drugs (although cannabis can almost be considered a hard drug nowadays)
    • Don't play with a top who is high (if you take turns, then read the above: he should not be high on anything that clouds his judgement) or doesn't know what he's doing (I swear I am also a great top, if you're in the Phoenix area, PM me)
    • Don't go too deep. If you take a fist or too, stay in the lower portion of the rectum. Seriously, the "alien trick" played by HKJ and DGG is just weird (my opinion) and freaks me out. If you still enjoy deep play, use a softer toy like the Slink. 
    • Don't use hard or poorly designed toys or anything hard in that matter, beyond maybe the experimenting phase when you discover that butt play can be fun, you're 15 and live at your parents and all you have is a can of spray
    • If you get injured, swallow your pride, go to the ER (read AMAs on Reddit, tons of nurses and ER doctors have had to deal with rectal foreign objects and they don't care, you're just a patient to them)

     

    I'll second that!

  6. Not sure if you can use anal sanity in the same sentence for what we all do or would like to do. However, it does appear that it is agreed by the sane the it takes MUCH time, meaning years! The greatest obstacle that I had was getting into the transverse colon. Research and study of anatomy helped more that anything else for us. Oh! Did I mention that time thing?

  7. I first cover my arm in BagBalm to the shoulder and then I mix jlube with clover oil and a touch of coconut oil with a splash of vodka. But into dispenser bottle and all good. Have a water spray bottle to activate. Only way I can get up to my shoulder.

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