Jarred

Haven't seen the toy, but I can also insert a 10,5 cm toy and have trouble fisting myself. Unfortunately my arms are to short to really get some strength behind it to push in. I can get it in by placing my elbow against a wall and push my body against my elbow so my fist will get in but it's to much hustle to really enjoy it so I never do it. My fist is also to small for my liking, I'de rather be double or triple fisted.

I always take a few enemas and if all goes well I go watch some porn to get me in the mood. Usually I start 30 minutes after the last enema, I'm usually very wet and dripping mucus about that time. So I pick my biggest toy (about 11 cm across buttplug), lube up and lower myself onto it, it slips in quite fast and then it is just bouncing up and down until I come which takes me about 10 minutes. I feel great afterwards, it indeed relieves stress. Other times I pick a few smaller toys and lay on my bed and just fuck hell out of my ass, but usually I get bored and pick the big buttplug again and bounce on that. The best sessions I have the next morning, I wake up extremely horny and erect like most men and I can go straight to fingering an fucking my hole without doing an enema because my hole is still completely empty from the day before. Most of the time I also do ass to mouth because I know I'm very clean up there, I come so damn hard, I can shoot my load right in my face, love that!

It all has to do with training and learning. If your toy falls out you need to probably use a bigger one or at least one that doesn't fall out. Start by being comfortable around the house, then do things inside that you also might do outside and if all goes well you should be able to go out without any issues. I once went to the store with a big buttplug in, it didn't feel comfortable at all but I did it and I was horny as fuck afterwards. So yeah, just work yourself up to it.

I always wash the outside, because the skin around my hole is so loose it wrinkles up when I wipe so there is always stuff left behind. I don't care about the inside, only when I'm horny and want to fuck my hole. In that case I don't even take a dump but go straight to a few enemas.

There are lubes on the market that numbs the muscles. I use the extreme lube from Mr. B which relaxes and desensitizes as they describe it. It does work but pretty lite, which is enough for me as I can do the same with a normal lube but takes a bit more time to get there.

I have the one on pic number 5, I believe it’s close to 8 cm across. I have slept with it a couple of times but it’s far from comfortable. The glass helmet head plugs are better in my opinion because the neck is longer which gives more movement freedom, which is more comfortable.

I think the most important is, only do it if you are able to being fisted at least till the elbow and if you are able to do that always have someone around to get it out of you when it's stuck, because you will not be able to get it out yourself when it gets stuck inside your colon.

I always like it when a girl is squirting in a casual porn movie and you see her prolapse come out, even just a little.

Not sure if it counts as an anal orgasm but I was fucking my ass with a big steel plug a few weeks back and I came by also stroking my dick, normally as a male you are done right after coming but this time I stayed horny and fucking my ass and stroking my dick until I came again. I even ate my own sperm, wanted to do that for a while but after I come I don't feel like it anymore. It was one hell of a good time!

I can agree with that although I can't speak for others who might be able to do it. I think a rubber/silicone plug literally becomes a pain in the ass because the lube dries out over time, so if you want to wear it overnight you have to wake up every few hours to get some new lube. I think it's better to use a glass or metal plug, it's less comfortable at first but once you get used to it you can wear it 24/7 without re-lubing, well at least I can because my ass can get really wet when I'm horny, but I never had trouble getting it out after some time. I also want to point out that you have to be really relaxed for the plug to be comfortable inside.

If the pain goes away after then it shouldn't be a big deal. The cramps are most likely caused by a lot of air that is stuck in your intestines, because of the anal play air is being pushed in and because of all the lube being stuck in there with it the air is unable to escape which can cause cramps. Try using a thinner lube, because air bubbles flow more easily through thin lubes. I used to get cramps on and off too, using a different lube helped a lot but also going to the toilet 30 to 60 minutes after playing and pushing as if you are taking a dump, this helps release the lube and gets the air flowing again.

I have this buttplug in large which is 8cm across, I can fit that one quite easily even without any lube when I’m in the shower. I also have a glass ball of 9cm across which I can fit but I hardly ever use it because I’m afraid it becomes stuck in there. I think you can fit more than you think but your hole might not be as stretched as you may think because of the toys you use. Most toys are soft, especially silicon toys, you can put a 9cm toy in but it compresses a lot because of the softness, it only decompress when it has passed your anal ring. I only play with toys that hardly compress because I like the stretch and it’s easier to keep track of the size of my hole.

There are a lot of people still having fears about wearing diapers because of anal stretching and stuff like that, also when you search the internet you can find some nasty shit being said about anal stretching. Of course you have to be careful and take a lot of time, but there is no harm in stretching your hole whatsoever, for the people that had doubts. Yesterday, after not stretching my hole for over 4 months easily (I sometimes have those periods when I just don't feel like it), I cleaned my hole and watched some porn after and I got so horny that I just wanted to stretch my ass. I picked the biggest dildo from my collection (the Super Lance Dildo, 11cm across), I figured I wouldn't be able to get it in beyond the head but I just wanted something big in my ass so I lowered myself on it. To my happy surprise it took me less then 2 minutes to get beyond the head and I don't think I ever fucked this dildo so hard, I bounced on it getting the dildo in and out completely getting a bit deeper every time. I think I lasted 5 minutes before I came and almost fainted by the sensation. after 30 minutes of relaxing on the bed I headed for the shower to clean and noticed my hole had already closed again being as tight as it was before. I think this is so beautiful, from an 11cm wide hole to barely able to stick a finger inside after just 30 minutes is incredible. Of course my mind now and then wants my hole to be gaping forever, but that's just not how your sphincter is build, it will always close again. So yeah, long story short. if you still have any scary thoughts about stretching your own hole, just know that when you build it up slow (it took me over ten years to get where I am, so don't rush anything!) you will have the most fantastic orgasms and sensations you won't get from anything else in the world. Your hole is capable of more than you think. Maybe other members also might want to share their experiences to take away any left over doubts.

I have my turds stuck in the toilet every time, I have to flush a few times before it goes through. I think my turds are usually about 7 to 9 centimeters in diameter and it actually feels amazing feeling my hole stretch when I’m on the toilet.

I think it's a good question, I think it's possible for your colon/rectum to absorb crisco because it becomes very fluid at body temperature and I don't think your ass is able to tell if it's water or something else that is being absorbed.

To me, being gay, bi or straight doesn't define who you have sex with but who you fall in love with. I mean why do you have to have sex with only one gender when you feel you are straight. A lot of women have sex with each other just for fun, why can't guys do the same.

Never experienced that and from my experience, going out is much easier than going in.

What worked for me was standing near a wall with my hand in my ass (the same way as in FistBi's profile picture but standing up) and positioning my elbow against the wall and push with my whole body against my elbow.

Unfortunately not possible for me, I can only do it when my cock is soft and my cock is always rock hard when I cum. If I direct my hard cock to my ass it doesn't even come close, I feel I would break it if I push any further.

If I'm thinking in a logical way, Fisting without any lube would stretch your anal walls more because it sticks to the surface of the fist and get a little stretch everytime before it lets loose. This is also the reason why it is dangerous to do so because those little stretches can cause to break and can be deadly if not treated fast.

It's because of the bloodflow to your cock is being cut by the huge toy in your ass pushing against your bloodvessels, this is completely normal and happens to all of us. I hardly ever play longer then at least 5 minutes with my big toys because I came already but if I have long plays it's indeed harder to come because I won't be getting a hard-on.

1- Inserted something up your ass - Yes 2- Got fingered by someone else - No 3- Got fucked by someone else (strap on counts) - No 4- Got fisted by someone else - No 5- Got double fisted - No 6- Got triple fisted - No 7- Fisted yourself - Yes 8- Inserted a dildo/toy deeper than 10 inches (or 25cm) - Yes 9- Inserted a dildo/toy deeper than 20 inches (or 50cm) - Yes 10- Got fisted elbow deep - No 11- Got fisted shoulder deep - No 12- Inserted a plug/toy wider than 2 inches (or 5cm) - Yes 13- Inserted a plug/toy wider than 3 inches (or 7.5cm) - Yes 14- Inserted a plug/toy wider than 4 inches (or 10cm) - Yes 15- Prolapsed up to about an inch long (2.5cm) - No 16- Prolapsed clearly more than an inch long (>2.5cm) - No 17- Prolapsed clearly more than 2 inches long (>5cm) - No 18- Inserted your own penis in your ass - Yes 19- Inserted your own penis in your ass and came inside - No 20- Had a whole foot up your ass - No

We all have bought over a dozen of toys that we didn't enjoy, didn't fit or weren't comfortable enough to use. You just have to deal with that. The only thing you can do is ask the company to send you some samples with the different firmness they provide and make your choice on that.

I believe I was 13 or 14 years old when I discovered anal play and I was 15 or 16 when I managed to fist myself for the first time. I was able to take dildos and plugs over 10 cm in diameter before my twentieth. I regret it that I took things way slower after that, if I kept playing with my hole multiple times a week I guess I would have one of the biggest holes right now. I just picked up the extreme assplay again this week after at least 5 months and I was surprised I could take my 10 cm buttplug in right away, I guess my hole was happy to be stretched like that again. Now I have to keep going and take that thing a few times a week so I can finally take the XXXL red boy plug. Edit: This is the toy I'm using at the moment, I love it when I bounce up and down so it gets completely in and then completely out, again and again at a rapid speed. https://www.amazon.de/-/en/Knob-Buddy-Butt-Shaped-Diameter/dp/B01K1L008O

Your rectum (the first thing you reach when entering your anus) is a holding place for when it's time to take a shit, every time you take a shit your rectum should in theory be empty. But because we have stretched out our rectums, and muscles in the rectum, indeed the small bits of stool won't be able to come out the normal way. I have the same thing as you describe and I have never stretched out my second sphincter (I did have some long dildo's entering my colon but no bigger then the size of a regular stool) so I don't believe it have anything to do with your second sphincter being loose. What helps for me is taking psyllium husk fibers daily, these help keep your stool sturdy so it comes out in one piece and after taking a shit your rectum will be empty.