Question about anal and large dildo

[someone33]

I have recently become more in touch with my anal side. It has always been an interest, and something I liked, but I want to take it to the next level. I can do about 9-10 inches, at about 1.5 inches wide. I dont think I am interested in going much deeper. But I am VERY interested in going wider. It hasnt shipped yet, but I purchased an inflatable dildo after some research. It starts out near my current level, and apparently gets quite bigger, but I am really only looking for another inch to start out.

But my general question.. Is a prolapse inevitable? I think it looks interesting. If I was in a situation where I had a prolapse, I might try to play with it. But for the most part, I do NOT NOT NOT want a prolapse. Anal play is not an every day occurence, maybe once or twice every couple months.. But when I do, I usually like to sit around with the toy in my ass while going about my daily activities. I will do stuff like that for several days in a row. When I do break down and have to masturbate, It is not very rough at all, mainly just small moves up or down.. I dont have anything with a suction cup to the floor and my body does not angle the right way to get it right, so I would usually be laying on my side, moving my body more than the toy.

Given all that, is prolapse inevitable?

Another question... is it inevitable to have a large open hanging ass? Some of the videos I have watched recently show people easily using toys that are 5 or 6 inches wide or more, but when they stand up, You can see all the skin sagging, hole just hangin out. I really dont even want a pout, but would be ok with a pout. But I dont want huge hole with hanging skin all over the place, and i dont want a prolapse.

A third question.. anyone have any links to a story or story board that would have a story of someone graphically explaining the sensations s/he feels?

Thanks yall

[Kein_Mitleid]

Sis, do not worry one bit. At the levels of frequency and widths that you're describing, absolutely nothing will happen. Short of an unrelated and severe medical condition, no prolapse will occur.

Tons of people practice fairly frequent anal sex and play around with 2.5" toys (diameter), and their assholes are entirely indistinguishable from those who are anal virgins - in relaxed, normal states. Google the names of any mainstream anal porn actress, and see them at the beginning of their scenes. They look totally normal.

Even in those videos you've seen with prolapses hanging out - oftentimes it's controllable and their asses don't look like that 24/7.

[baldybits1]

yeah i agree with the above but i practice nearly everyday using upto 4 inch dia, ive been doing it for years and i do not prolapse, yes i gape and i have some huge lips but at rest i have decent pout and my hole is oversize but with no problems whatsever, you will be ine, just take it nice and easy

[Thick]

I dont think that the size and frequency that you currently are using would give any permanent noticeable changes to your anal aesthetics. For example my wife absolutely loves the popping sensation of dildos and in a typical session (2-3 times a week) she likes to have large bumpy toys (2.75"-3.00") pushed as far as they will go in (she is comfortable with about 7-8") then taken all the way out. She likes it fast and hard, typically for over an hour sometimes two or until my arms tire. By the end of the session her ass is puffy, hot, reddened and very loosely gaping in its relaxed state, a similar effect to what a pump can achieve. But after a couple of hours her ass is normal again, the heat stays for a while but she tells me she loves the feelings it enhances and quite often wants me to fuck her again using no toys a couple hours later. This has been a usual practice in our bedroom for 22 years and she has no prolapse. She does a kegel kind of exercise daily, tightening and relaxing her ass until she fatigues and maybe this is why she has no changes to her aesthetics either. That said I think that some people are genetically more prone to a prolapse, so i suppose stay within what is your comfortable limits, use lots of good lube (thick mix of jlube is good for us), and enjoy yourself.

[Rosebutt]

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I dont think that the size and frequency that you currently are using would give any permanent noticeable changes to your anal aesthetics. For example my wife absolutely loves the popping sensation of dildos and in a typical session (2-3 times a week) she likes to have large bumpy toys (2.75"-3.00") pushed as far as they will go in (she is comfortable with about 7-8") then taken all the way out. She likes it fast and hard, typically for over an hour sometimes two or until my arms tire. By the end of the session her ass is puffy, hot, reddened and very loosely gaping in its relaxed state, a similar effect to what a pump can achieve. But after a couple of hours her ass is normal again, the heat stays for a while but she tells me she loves the feelings it enhances and quite often wants me to fuck her again using no toys a couple hours later. This has been a usual practice in our bedroom for 22 years and she has no prolapse. She does a kegel kind of exercise daily, tightening and relaxing her ass until she fatigues and maybe this is why she has no changes to her aesthetics either. That said I think that some people are genetically more prone to a prolapse, so i suppose stay within what is your comfortable limits, use lots of good lube (thick mix of jlube is good for us), and enjoy yourself.
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[Golfrog]

I think you should also make sure to use lots of lube. Many toys are a bit sticky, and with less lube, they will tend to "drag out" your insides when you push hard. Nothing too bad, but I think it helps in creating a prolapse.