Approaching partner about my fetish

[myownway06]

Hello everyone,

I'm Megan, 22. I am new to this forum and was hoping someone could share some advise. I love stretching my ass but have only done so by myself. I don't know how to get to this stage with a guy. It's not the easiest topic of discussion to start.

I've had "normal" anal sex with a guy but nothing beyond that. I enjoy stretching my ass when I masturbate but that only fulfills my desires so far. I want to reach a higher level of orgasm. I want someone to do it to me. And I'm not looking for a stranger to help me with this. I'd like to know how to approach this topic with a person I'm in a sexual relationship with without alarming them. "I want you to stretch my asshole out with this huge dildo" is enough to make most guys do a double take haha

All advise is welcome. If any women have gone through a similar experience I would love to hear how you approached the topic.

[meganuke40]

I would be happy to offer some insight privately, but would prefer not to discuss my real world experiences in public. Please send me a private message on here if you would like to chat about it.

[Kein_Mitleid]

Welcome to the board.

Let me tell you that if the guys who have girlfriends here were to hear them say ""I want you to stretch my asshole out with this huge dildo" - the majority of them would probably marry them right away. :-)

If your boyfriend already likes anal, then half the battle is won. If there is full trust between you two, it's a done deal, as trust is a prerequisite to truthful communication.

[Thick]

You should just be upfront about it I believe. I am a big on having no secrets from my partner especially when it comes to sex. Not knowing the guy myself I couldnt really make the call on whether he would be into it or not. Ask him what kind of porn he is into maybe that would be an indicator. Or just hand him a nice fat dildo and ask him where he wants to put it. Happy orgasms.

[Guest groovydude29m]

it really depends on gentlemen ,most guys i think would love to i would ,dont sacrafice anything though

[myownway06]

Thank you everyone for the advise. So a few nights ago we were looking through on demand movies and I suggested we get a porno just for fun. I picked out an anal one and portrayed it as a lighthearted and fun choice but I wanted to use it as my foundation to discuss this topic.

So we were kind of watching it, making fun of the actors, etc. but I brought up how the girls looked like they were really enjoying the anal. So I said let's try it and I rolled to my back and opened up for him. He was totally down for it and this is the first time we ever did anal when we were sober. I got really into it by asking him to go harder and by pulling him deeper into me. I wanted to see his reaction and he loved it. He came pretty quick so I asked him to keep going using my dildo. We never play with my toy so this was a first as well. I think this was a great first step to bigger and better things. I already ordered a large dildo online and when it comes in I feel pretty comfortable surprising him with it.

[Kein_Mitleid]

Your last post really made me smile. I wish more couples would advance to these stages of great comfort, communication, trust, and openness.