how to relax sphincter?

[Radeon]

does anyone know any cream, gel, pills etc. which can relax my sphincter during play. except poppers

[Jarred]

There are lubes on the market that numbs the muscles. I use the extreme lube from Mr. B which relaxes and desensitizes as they describe it. It does work but pretty lite, which is enough for me as I can do the same with a normal lube but takes a bit more time to get there.

[TheMadPi]

Jojoba oil works rather well to help stretching and relaxing.  I apply it before play though. I can tell you with confidence that marijuana helps immensely with getting in the "mindset" and allows good sphincter relaxing.

[cuckmouse]

4 hours ago, TheMadPi said:

Jojoba oil works rather well to help stretching and relaxing.  I apply it before play though. I can tell you with confidence that marijuana helps immensely with getting in the "mindset" and allows good sphincter relaxing.

Oh yeah. A bit o' weed does wonders

[dpsims]

I find it's usually just all mental preparation. For some solo sessions, my sphincter is tighter than others to begin with. I may not be fully into wanting to do a session while at the same time craving my hole to filled, so it would be tighter than when I'm just fully into wanting to cram a huge toy or fist in.

Starting off, Jojoba oil worked wonders, now I've just learned how to get my mind ready when I'm wanting a session. Patience also goes a long way and pain is usually a sign that you're not quite ready yet, especially if you're working on something big. 

[Darthvin]

I find a hot tub session really does wonders - for me anyway. Helps you wind down and relax and also soften/loosen the muscles and skin etc. No hot tub - then perhaps a good soak in a hot bath. to be honest its not really a good idea to go past when your body says no, but if you really want to stretch beyond then smear a load of emla cream over. But that comes with a massive warning of NO