[ Question to Polish members] How to convince my wife to our passion?

[paris18]

Hello,

 

and i am happy that it is back on line. Wonder the legal issue . and i wonder if our profile were safe. ...

 

I have a practical question... I do want to convince my wife to some serious dilatation. and i wonder if there is some cultural issue related to our interest, big anal rosebutt @ fisting.

 

She is a polish woman prude and i wonder if there is any advice you could give to present our topic of interest..

Could be some games, fantasy and story related that i could induce some interest.

And no showing this board is not a good start :-)

 

I wonder if there are some "polish culure" biase that i could  leverage.  

 

any hints,  advices  are welcome.

 

Many thanks to all

 

 

[cons]

in Poland people don't talk very much about sex, let alone fisting and so on

[paris18]

Ok,

thanks Cons,...

May be it should be better to start by the vagina, fingering, toying and huge toying... then switch to the backdoor...

 

any other observation welcome...

 

could put you posted, even picture if she agree Grin....

 

Edited May 20, 2019 by paris18

[xthorgal]

About legal issue - Poland is going crazy with all micro extremists groups who get to power. One of them is anty porn group what did pressure to change some part of one law here. We did need to be shure that one of regulations not apply to board. We got official documents from University of Law in Poland  and this law not apply so all is secure.

Thats all.

[paris18]

Hello friend,

 

Thanks for this update. 

On the political issue, i share your concert for Poland and europe...

 

Many thanks about the precision on the legal issue.

 

Take care.

Paris18

[paris18]

I do not know if it could interest you guys...

 

but wanted to share with you, mates, that the first step toward wide anal gap is set.

I did some search with our online retailer, that affected a bit of the generated suggestion.

 

have a nice day all

[TinyNutsTim]

On 5/20/2019 at 1:53 PM, paris18 said:

Ok,

thanks Cons,...

May be it should be better to start by the vagina, fingering, toying and huge toying... then switch to the backdoor...

 

any other observation welcome...

 

could put you posted, even picture if she agree Grin....

 

Sound hot and erotic, but too much, if she does not practice large penetration. I have been asked similar on another site and this is about what I suggest.

Wait for the right intimate, but erotic mood. Some naughty talk, but not about anal just yet. Keep it to something like how you like how the inside of her beautiful pussy hole feels and smells.

A little wine helps a lot, but don't get her drunk, you want to exhibit respect and patience. Then bring it up, not too eagerly like you have been planning it all along.

The shower is the best place to start, it represents cleanliness and warmth on the subconscious as well as the physical level. This is the other good time to approach her about it, but again, not too eagerly.

Your finger first, with trimmed and smoothed nails. You want it as personal and gentle as possible. A toy places a barrier between you and her. Again on a subconscious level, it says that her hole is too dirty for you to touch. If she lubricates well in her pussy, dip your fingers in her there first for lube, it also helps to get her more receptive to the approaching anal penetration. Maybe massage her a little inside while you are at it to get her horny. She of course will lubricate even more. If you do hard work with your hands and they are calloused, you might want to wait, use a glove or finger from one, or, maybe use a toy after all. She will understand.

If she asks you to go first, even playfully, fine, it's nothing new to you. But, be a little shy yourself, but not too much, it could appear you are mocking her, not shy enough and you may appear to have been keeping secrets. You know her best.

If it's "no" at any time, it's NO. Don't act rejected or disappointed, just gently point out if she ever changes her mind you will patiently wait. Then, have some good, old fashioned nasty sex with her. You never know, she might take you by the hand back to the shower and see if she can orgasm from anal penetration after all.

Good timing and common sense goes a long way. And good luck.

[HeyBaby]

My experience is that polish women usually are not that prude, but prude people can come from anywhere.

Although Polish women are usually conservative.

[paris18]

indeed...

Many thanks fro your answers all.