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I’m just trying to play with and have nice big puffy ass lips. I’ve used the anal suction pump toy off Amazon and it works well enough, but I’d like something better. 
 

however the only other thing I can find is the rosebud pump with a piece of material that goes inside you. 
 

Anyone know if that alone is going to promote rosebutt/prolapse over just big puffy lips? Nothing wrong with people who want the full thing I’m just not ready to commit that fully to the fetish

Anyone else get this? Seems my ass may be leaking like mucus or something. 

I have a suspicion I may have fucked up my hole haha 

6 hours ago, SizeMatters said:

Nice hole & cock baldybits 1 ;-)

My hole has definitely changed (for the better) over the years. Like you say, kind of a longish slit style. I've been into anal play since I was 11. I like where I'm at now at 56. My wife fucks me with the Bad Dragon Bruiser XL and I like to ride the Bad Dragon Flint XL. I can have a good long ride on a 4 1/2" dia. cock and carry on with my day like no problem. In fact, I've found regular fuckings make for a happy bum. If I go too long (14 days) without, problems crop up.

What kind of problems? 

Only regret is doing extreme sessions l night before something important. 

If youre taking something massive it will take a bit of time to totally tighten back up. In the mean time you may leak a bit of gas/mucus. 

Ever have wet underwear? It smells more to other than it does to you. 

I am in no way dicouraging anal, but I personally avoid going huge the night a big day at work 

 

On 10/16/2018 at 9:43 PM, Rosebutt said:

Back when I began my journey, I was easily able to gape. However, as I progresed to fisting, pumping and prolapsing, the combination of my increasingly wrecked lips and growing rose pretty much did away with my gaping ability. 

So how do gaping stars like hotkinkyjo do it? Massive prolapse still able to gape. 

Such a mystery haha 

 

 

Despite being able to take decently large toys 3” wide plugs and dildos, I can’t seem to get much of a game. 

I have more of a loose flappy coin purse looking thing going on. 

Is my hole just too wrecked to gape or am I doing it wrong? 

 

Already tried doggy with a dildo to get air in there. I can feel my rosebud sometimes slipping back into my body and that should cause a gape but it just doesn’t seem to work 

i have a small gape, but considering how big my toys are I was expecting more by now. Also yes I know my name is somewhat ironic lol

Is it better to clench your hole to “tire it out” push to allow for bigger things, or just keep it relaxed? 

 

I seem to be sorta stuck in the 2.6” diameter/8” circumference range for some reason so I’m focusing on my dildo skills for the time being

So two questions either of which I'd be overjoyed to have answered. 

1) saline infusions. any help would be great. I know you gotta keep it sterile. And that it will burn a bit going in. Anything else? does it last a day? Two? More? 

 

2) Pumping: just bought one and plan on making my ass lips pucker and my rosebud bloom. Any advice on how to avoid injuring myself? With anal stretching I definitely over did it. Have numerous tears to the point every doctor I see mentions it during physicals lol. 

On January 24, 2018 at 5:18 PM, matthew.winterbottom said:

yeah. it's something I've thought for a while, that a prolapse is more similar to extreme body modifications than to anything else.

I stretched both my earlobes to 1". I can take the tunnels I wear out and the holes will shrink, but they can very easily stretch back to 1" after being 'rested' for a week or so. they will never shrink back into the way they were before I stretched them beyond the 'point of no return', which most people agree is somewhere between 8 and 10mm. an inch is 26mm.

so the anus? well the anus is a muscle, and the earlobe is not. the anus comes with a hole, the earlobe must have a hole put into it. so we're clearly talking about different things, but when you stretch an earlobe, at a certain point, you change the structure so much that it will not revert to its prior form. I think there's a point like this with the asshole. my asshole will never be like it was before I started stretching it because once it was stretched so as it would take a 4" diameter ball or dildo, I started working on my prolapse. so yeah, now it's totally ruined - in a good way - and it's ruined for life.

So I'm only at like 3" and a very mild prolapse. Kink aside: does it interfere with your daily life. I know this board is all about how hot it is to have your ass as loose as possible. I'm all for that. I just want to go into this with my eyes as wide open as my ass.

This is the point of the website so I’m right at home here yeah?

i don’t know if my profile says it but I’ve had a bud for 4 years.stuck at 2.75. Can fit a 3” but I feel a pop which I think is a ligament that just isn’t ready for this level. Am I right? I want a loose saggy ass with fat lips, but I don’t want to break anything. 

So here’s my actual question: does a prolapse hurt? I remember reading an interview with some anal queen who said she missed when it hurt. Like it did at first then it stopped. I’m assuming she meant that at least initially this rather extreme thing was...well unusual and now it’s just her life. Or she’s just high al the time  or everything she says in interviews is marketing lol.

Second question: sneezing. Does that force your prolapse out? I have a job where suddenly having ass meat hanging out would probably be bad... I’ve already had a few sneezes where I feel something sqeeuce out a bit. 

 

Im just looking for honest input. I recognize that this lifestyle likely has some health risks. I’ve weighed those risks and decided they are overcome by my desire to live like this  anyway. 

So I am a total novice (only can fit a 2" plug) I am in a dom sub relationship and my master wants me to comfortably take a 3" any advice on what toys I should get? I've tried googling but I seem to be in a weird in between size. I'm looser than a large, but by no means a "size queen"