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depends on why you're having stomach problems. A stomach flu, sure. But it could be something naturally wrong with your stomach due to diet (lack of fiber), it can be resolved in a couple days by eating more fiber - high fiber should be avoided IF you have a stomach bug. That being said, in either case stomach problems turn me off of anal play regardless of what is causing them - it just makes the entire experience uncomfortable to me. [quote name='ultimate gigalo' date='27 August 2013 - 10:09 AM' timestamp='1377623390' post='873321'] for that sorta thing, is it a good idea to take pepto? [/quote]

I would also add that it makes for an even more enjoyable (and cleaner) experience if you wait until after a good, solid, healthy bowel movement, followed by a couple good enemas for "extra confidence." I find that even if you use an enema before having properly gone to the bathroom, there is a chance that there is something "just around the corner," if you get my meaning. And the feeling of a properly emptied bowel also (IMO) makes for a more enjoyable experience. Key words being 'solid and healthy' - if I am having stomach issues, I opt out of anal play for the day. As Deimos said, going too far/too much with an enema will make you end up sitting on the pot forever - you'll be flushing stuff that wasn't ready to come out yet. Admittedly, I've made the mistake once, and it was a miserable experience. Think: stomach flu Another FYI: the intestines absorbs at a rate something like 200 times faster than the stomach. Too much water during an intense enema session (i.e. douching too far/too much) can actually leave you with water intoxication.

Ive used a wine bottle a couple of times. the sensation was pretty incredible, but I wasn't fond of the rigidness - it hurt my pelvic bone more than anything. So I opted to making a mold of the bottle, and casting it in silicone (minus the neck of the bottle) - it looks like an artillery shell. and now it has a little give as it goes in.

Personally, I enjoy the feeling of a plug inside me - the filling sensation is pretty incredible, and then the uncontrollable urge to eject it...leg-shaking experience when you take it to the limit. My last plug popped inside of me, but it didn't hurt at all- the plugs are made of dual-layered latex, which isn't that strong, and the double layers prevent "catastrophic failure," and it ends up being more of a slow leak. I've found that the inflatable plug from Doc Johnson (also sold at Adam & Eve) ( http://www.docjohnson.com/gapers-inflatable-plugs-latex-organic.html ) doesn't like too go beyond 30 pumps - after that, you jeopardize stretching it out too much and risking popping. An inflatable dildo that actually stretches the ring seems like the holy grail. But physics are the enemy: something that inflates easily will never have enough strength to stretch out your ring - it will just distort; to the contrary, something that is strong enough to open up your ring will be too hard to pump up, and when it does fail, it could definitely be "catastrophic," dangerous, and painful due to the extreme pressure. So I guess it depends on the sensation you're looking for - right now, the best bet seems to have a range of various-sized dildos, paired with a speculum to get both stretching and penetration sensations.

I understand exactly what you are looking for. I cannot get beyond 4" diameter myself with a rigid dildo for the exact same reason. However, a silicone dildo would deform a bit allowing you to take a bigger diameter than you'd think you could take. But, an oval shaped dildo would be perfectly doable. If interested, shoot me a private message, and we can talk it over. [quote name='P.A.Frenum' date='28 June 2013 - 07:15 AM' timestamp='1372428944' post='832777'] Hello there! Now, THIS sounds like a great Business idea- I hope you can make it work! A first suggestion from my side: I would love to have a big dildo with a non-circular diameter, meaning, the shaft should not be round, but shaped in an oval form, if seen as a slide. (Did I express myself clearly?) The point is, i feel i could stretch my ass way beyond my current limit of 4 inches diameter... but not with a round toy, but around a more oval shaped object. My hip-bones are in the way! There are virtually none of these on the market! I`m sure I wouldn`t be the only one interested in such a toy! [/quote]

I apologize in advance if this solicitation is deemed unacceptable by the mods. I didn't see anything against it in the rules. I have a background in molding and casting. I've been experimenting with making relatively affordable silicone anal dildos (for personal use currently)since I have been relatively unhappy with the quality and cost of things on the market. Right now, I am molding and modifying one from a casting of a wine bottle. I am interested to know if anyone might be interested in custom solid silicone dildos? If the board shows any interest, I'd be happy to tool up some molds, and material in mass for people for larger production. They would be significantly cheaper than what you can buy on shelves, sculpted to meet your own desires, and made-to-order.

A while ago, when I had just started with anal play, I purchased a vibrating butt plug - it was enjoyable, but not what I had expect or hoped for...I always wanted something more; something really powerful. Last week, while cleaning out my storage room, I cam across an old "magic wand" vibrating massager, which can be seen here: http://www.aliexpress.com/item/Retail-Hitachi-Magic-Wand-Massager-AV-Vibrator-Massager-Personal-Full-Body-Massager-HV-250R-Free-Shipping/724955321.html Sure, they make attachments for 'pleasure,' but they are small, and lose a lot of the power. I was in the mood for something big, and something powerful, so I tossed a condom on the entire thing, lubed it up, and eased it in... ...all i can say is: holy shit! needless to say, I was 'satisfied.' I'm sure I am not the first to use this device, but for those who haven't, or don't know what it is...well - you can thank me later. protip: for the first time, get it in first, then turn it on to get the entire sensation - a pleasantly intense sensation. After a bit, it was great to press it against the prostate, then slowly ease it out and back in again. You can feel it vibrating throughout your entire pelvis, even from outside!

I've been gaping for a while now, but never gone as far as rose butting. But I am very curious to know what the sensation is like. I was wondering if anyone out there who does it can tell me what the experience feels like? Also, perhaps you can describe how to actually perform it for the first time?

I've been gaping for a while now, but never gone as far as rose butting. But I am very curious to know what the sensation is like. I was wondering if anyone out there who does it can tell me what the experience feels like? Also, perhaps you can describe how to actually perform it for the first time?

[quote name='Rambone' date='26 April 2013 - 08:52 AM' timestamp='1366991574' post='789641'] I've used a few inflatables in my time. For actually stretching the ring they're not a lot of use. I find inflatable butt plugs (I've tried two and have one still) don't do much for me. Once in and inflated it just gets to the point for me where I need to push it out and although it does open the ass it doesn't stretch it in my experience, the balloon just shapes itself to pop out. I did once have the monster inflatable dildo (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=6639) and used to play with it a lot, but once you pumped it up so far the only bit that continued expanding was the bulb at the bottom. Currently I have the Giganticus Inflatable (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25465)which I bought so I could insert the whole thing, including bulb. Now that it an intense feeling as once it's all in each pump can be felt either expanding the bulb in the anus , or the sigmoid, or both. I wish someone could invent a toy that could be used to properly expand the asshole in a controlled manner. Speculums are close, but I bought the biggest one I could find and it's just not big enough! I guess that says more about my ass than the speculum though! LOL [/quote] You're in luck...might want to try out this bad boy horse speculum: http://www.extremerestraints.com/speculums_157/huge-equine-speculum_1107.html

What you are looking for is actually a speculum designed for horses - they are kinda pricey. But I definitely want one. You can order one from here: http://www.extremerestraints.com/speculums_157/huge-equine-speculum_1107.html

I don't believe that the myths of permanent damage/negative side effects are true...so long as you go slow, and exercise. For example, if you look at some of the well-known gapers on the net (hotkinkyjo being a personal favorite). you'll notice how tight her asshole looks before she starts...as if she's never even performed anal before. As above posters have mentioned, it is a muscle - but I think there is more to be said about it: Muscles can be trained - the 'ballet dancer' analogy is a good one - they are both extremely limber AND strong. They have dedicated several years to their craft. And the asshole can also be very limber and strong. I slowly stretch out - start off small each session, then work up to bigger objects, and increasing diameter maybe every month. and (this is key) do kegel exercises when I am not having fun. The great thing about kegels is that you can do them any time, anywhere: sitting at the dinner table, watching TV, working on the computer - you squeeze the muscles together like you are trying to keep yourself from pooping/peeing/farting; hold it for about 10 seconds, then release; repeat 10 times a session, 2 or 3 times a day. As a bonus side effect, this also helps improve orgasms and bladder control. I'd be MORE concerned with soft tissue damage from being too rough/not using enough lube.