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One of my favorites was the ace of spades plug but I can't seem to find it any where any more.

I would also suggest that you wait to play until after you've naturally gone to the bathroom. That, in my opinion, helps more than anything.

 

Then a few squirts with a douche (could just be a water bottle).

 

I also think that doing one squirt of water + 1 or 2 squirts of air helps a lot. the air tends to help push everything out in one quick go...water can tend to not come all out at once

that didn't ruin it? i would be afraid that the thing would fall apart it I did that

I am not going to try to fool myself - sticking anything up your ass is "unusual," and it would be hard to argue that one foreign object is any  more unusual than another.

 

that being said, probably a shower lufa - if you haven't tried it, i highly recommend

so I just got the Titanmen tools ass servant 3.75" - the diameter is great, but it is too long. Anyone know of something of a similar diameter, but shorter? preferably by a reputable manufacturer?

So i just got the 3" diameter gum drop butt  plug from Adam and Eve, which is the biggest one they carry. It feels great and the shape is perfect, but isn't big enough. I see that Doc Johnson carries a 3.75" and 4.5" diameter Titanman plug, but they don't have any pricing info or order form on their site; when I look them up on Amazon, they're selling for $80 or more, which I think is ridiculous.

 

Anyone know where to find something similar for a more reasonable price?

site doesn't seem to work

the average 3D printer would not make good plugs/dildos - the material is very brittle, and it is formed in layers and prone to cracking. It is also completely rigid, which I am assuming would be less desirable for most people. Odds are pretty good that the thing will crack, and you'll end up with shards of little plastic bits poking into the walls of your ass/vagina, which would be no bueno

I think it is like anything that has been over stimulated - your body grows accustomed to it, and becomes less sensative.

 

I've never reached orgasm via anal play, but I thorouglhy enjoy the anal ''spasms" (for lack of a better word - the sensation of your subconscious muscles trying to push it out, and convulsing when it does come out) from inserting large objects, which tends to fade over time with regular play due to the fact that my body has become used to the size of the object, and is mroe stretched out than it used to be.

 

If you can abstain, I recommend you hold off for a while, and try again. I beleive it takes 8-12 weeks for the body to both acclimate and de-acclimate to various stimulations.

 

If that doesn't work, you'll have to try something that hits the spot in the same place, but in a new way...like something that vibrates

the stretch during...slowly taking it bigger and bigger

Thought you might be interested in this 'discovery' i made:

 

a shower lufa.

 

the sensation is amazing. especially one that has been used a while and is beginning to come apart. the texture makes for some pretty crazy sensations, and if the lufa is all stretched out, and you pull it out very very slowly by the string, it feels like it will take forever to come out, and causes a contraction that lasts for several seconds.

 

just got to make sure you use a 'gentle formula' body wash that doesn't irritate the 'sensitive regions'

When I do wide insertions, I tend to get an odd numbing sensation in my legs...more so in my left leg.

 

I was wondering if anyone else experiences this? Should I be concerned

 

I am hypothesizing that the insertion is pushing on some nerve or vessel

fisting isn't allowed on chaturbate, so I doubt you'll get a chance to see anything. if you "follow" them, and change your notices settings, you'll get emails telling you when they are online.

eggplants are definitely great for ass play - I remember also being surprised at how (relatively) easy it was to insert it. The shape definitely helps, but its slight softness and give also plays a huge role , i think

lube has nothing to do with one's ability to prolapse - prolapse is a result of the loosening of the sphincter muscles, either as a result of exhausting them from a long session and/or a result of large insertions. If you notice, some of the pros who prolapse (Amy Brooke, and others from the Everything Butt site) don't take very large items (relative to people like DGG, hotkinkyjo, etc.) instead, I suspect they prolapse because they do anal play for long sessions at a time.

as far as I am concerned, there is no such thing as too much lube for beginners or if you are trying something new, or working on larger insertions. Trying with something too dry and really scratching things up down there can make for a miserable experience.

But you will find that the better you get, the less lube you'll need.

Also be aware that there is a possibility that it won't occur at all.

[quote name='dirtyflower' date='17 September 2013 - 05:50 AM' timestamp='1379422218' post='893439']
MaryTV thanks for sharing your kinky obsession with my butthole

I am sometimes at a loss as to what to do next! After having hands/fists,feet, and tongue of course, what other body part now?

I have a live show request for later this week for food that i haven't already used , and seriously this is taking a lot of thought! I may have to resort to a can of beans or ravioli up my ass!
Food/veggies/fruit all being my first love, I have done hotdogs(weiners & buns)ice cream,whip cream, cake any/every fruit & vegetable Ican think of. Someday I'd like to try red wine up my ass and get really really drunk!

I've stuck phones, remote controls, computer mouse...

so yes always open for new ideas!


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I'd love to see you do a session with various size apples (or other produce, but apples seem to have the best size and shape variety) - start off small, and progressively get bigger and bigger and see how far you can take it.

probably the reason I never replied is because this website never bothers to tell me if I have a response to my posts.

regarding the irritation - it was the outer lips which would get red and swollen and burning despite using plenty of lube, and it became much more difficult to insert things

as a side note: sometimes I actually enjoy going a week or longer without anal play so that play feels a bit more intense again. Just an idea if the desire ever comes up

Every once in a while, anal play causes a bit of irritation for me (redness, swelling and burning), which makes the experience less enjoyable: seems to depend on how aggressive I am, the lube I am using and/or toy I am using, or some combination of all of the above. Does anyone have any tips/tricks to keeping irritation at bay during anal play?

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I wonder if anyone has ripped a magic wand apart to see what kind of motor it has.
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I just use magic wands - have made some custom silicone adapters for it

that's not nearly enough - even after 1 week without doing things, I notice it's harder for me. When I was doing it every day, I was making really great progress - I didn't have problems like the above poster; everyone responds differently

based on the look of those wrinkles on it, i'd say it looks like its got some sort of condom over it.

Have you ever thought of just contacting the company and see if you're lucky enough to get a response?

an expandable plug that actually dilates the ass and doesn't just conform, and doesn't pop after a few uses - love the feeling of dilation, and also of being filled at the same time, but I always take the inflatable plugs to their limits, and they just pop.

Also always thought it would be awesome if there was an expandable long dildo that would snake it's way up you, like one o those balloons for making balloon animals.

Finally, something that has REALLY REALLY Strong vibrations and a big fat head on it to fill you up - something so strong, it would make you cum just from the vibrations - like a magic wand on steroids.

[quote name='Rosebutt' date='29 January 2014 - 02:55 AM' timestamp='1390989304' post='1007807']
HJK and those like her have been training their guts for a LONG time to do what they do. It takes time to train our anuses/rectums to take some of the massive toys we do- it follows that it also takes time to train the deeper recesses of our anatomies.

Time + lube + patience= depth.
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That's all fully understood.

I guess I am more interested in learning about technicalities of making it work:

Does the body conform to the dildo, or will the dildo conform to my body? Is there really such a thing as a "second sphincter" that must be passed, or am I just hitting the bend in the sigmoid? For all I know, it won't matter how much time and effort I put into it if my technique is wrong - like a truck trying to turn a corner that's too tight.