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Hi there (again)! I have a little free time now, and just dropped by to share my experiences with you (as I promised). Jee, it took me 15 minutes to figure out what my password was… Anyway, as I thought, we did it. Anal orgasms do exist, it’s not a myth, and the technique is very close to what I was thinking before. So thanks for all the advice; I’m going to tell my suggestions, for those who are interested. So we used a butt plug and that dildo first. I had to reinterpret the old cliché of “go very, very slowly”. I didn’t know stopping was a part of going slowly, but it is (at least for us). After you put something in, you have to just leave it there, leave it alone, find something else to play with in the meantime, then start again a couple minutes later. She said after some time she couldn't even feel what’s in her any more, and playing with her pussy (or anything) will make her loosen up a lot. So that was the key I guess. She already came when she had the dildo in for the second time, and yep, a perfect g spot orgasm. I’m sure there are thousands of ways to experience orgasms, gee, I hear all kinds of wild stories, and there must be many ways to achieve anal orgasms too, but it is possible to have an anal g spot orgasm, actually, I think it’s the easiest and the most intense way, if your girl can have g spot orgasms. I could see in the responses, that people who never experienced it have a hard time imagining it. If you have done it vaginally, you know that unlike the clitoris, rubbing and petting is not the way to go with the g spot, as it is more sensitive for movement. So she got comfortable with the dildo after some time, and as I thought, it was really easy to position it the right way. The best pose for her is on her knees, bending forward, forearms on the floor. You gotta rub the end of the dildo against her vaginal wall (where her g spot is of course, but you’ll know…). Movements can be a little gentler than when you’re doing it with your hands from inside the vagina, it’s more important to always try to apply constant pressure – small movements. It took us like a minute and a half, and she was coming. She didn’t turn “inside out”, but her butt stayed kinda open during the orgasm, and was a little loose for a couple seconds after it, but when it was over, everything went back to normal, and it made all my worries disappear. Another week of experimenting was enough to achieve it the more “natural” way, without dildos (well, the only thing left is the butt plug in the first stages…). Here’s the position that works for us: This was he has total control, your dick is in the best position, and everything, it’s just the easiest and most comfortable (I’m so lazy I don’t even hold myself up with my hands). Yep, she has to be very relaxed and in the mood, just as you said to me (I thougt everybody knows this about orgasms and sex in general after the age of like 16...), and yes, cleaning is a must, of course, and she has to kinda "learn" it just like the other ways. But after you introduce it to her successfully, you only have to enjoy the multiple pleasures of anal sex, your gf enjoying anal sex with you, and seeing her experience mindblowing g spot orgasms. So that’s it, this is the way that works for us, again, thanks for all the suggestions and input, I appreciate it a lot. QUOTE(curiousboy @ Apr 25 2007, 08:24 AM) [snapback]15189[/snapback] Told ya: the most powerful sexual organ is not in between the legs but between the ears.. (da brain) hihihi, ciao, cb Yep, very true. The brain is the biggest sex organ, but it’s very hard to physically stimulate, and there are more fun things to play with. QUOTE(Minx @ Apr 18 2007, 11:12 AM) [snapback]12281[/snapback] IMO you seem to want to skip the basics and go straight for the extreme, which in anal terms is just such a bad idea! If you do carry on down this route I'm incredibly glad you're not doing it to me and I hope tht I don't come across someone with the same ideas. x Nah, I don't know why everybody seems to believe this... We had anal sex I really enjoyed, and I wanted her to give her the best thing she can experience that way. Is that so bad? I mean... C'mon, relationships are not about "hey hon, I want to stick a baseball bat up your ass 'couse I think it looks damn good"... Or I dunno... Is an anal orgasm that extreme if you already have anal sex? Lemme tell you, it is not. As I see the performance issues with the site got resolved too, so happy rosebuttboarding, I’ll check back every now and then. Thanks, bye.

QUOTE(curiousboy @ Apr 18 2007, 12:59 AM) [snapback]12141[/snapback] Ok then, let`s get a bit more anatomically precise. In all that area there are pleasure receptors, on some spots there are more than in others and it is not the same for everybody (i think they can even grow with constant stimulation over the years). I doubt that you can rich the G-spot from the anus having the vagina in the between. If you have seen your gf experiencing g spot orgasm, and watch the video I'm talking about in my first posts in this topic, you'll see it's pretty sure the girl in the vid is having a g spot orgasm (if any, and not faking one very professionally). For us at least, squirting can't really happen any other way... QUOTE(Wikipedia @ en.wikipedia.org)But typically, stimulation of the G-spot through the wall shared between the vagina and the rectum, from a sex toy, finger or a penis, may bring about an orgasm. This is often greatly facilitated through additional manual stimulation of the clitoris... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm#Anal_orgasm QUOTE(curiousboy @ Apr 18 2007, 12:59 AM) [snapback]12141[/snapback] Bah I think I will leave it here... So will I. Thanks again for all the responses.

QUOTE(anllover @ Apr 17 2007, 03:23 PM) [snapback]11940[/snapback] i think the suggestion was to help get her down the road towards orgasmic pleasure. playing with the clit for alot of women will surely help get her more relaxed and into the mood. but i will agree with you that to go the entire way with clit stimulation you will be (most likely) missing the feeling you are hoping for. if clit play will help get the ball rolling this is good advice but after the sex (anal) is going on i would suggest she stop playing with her clit if she is comfortable and let the anal take her there. for me and my wife anal sex is really hit or miss. when she is "into it" and things go good she can cum THE HARDEST she has ever.... but is not nearly all the time. good luck and i am sorry if you havent gotten the responses you originally were hoping for. peace anllover When I opened this topic I started it to get to know the health risks extreme play can cause, so I absolutely did get the perfect answers, even first hand from a female. And I'm thankful for the suggestions for making anal more pleasurable with my gf - but believe me, we don't lack fantasy in sex, so we pretty much all went thought the stuff you guys suggested, and sure, there are thousands of ways to make it pleasurable I would like her to have an actual anal orgasm, because I hope that would combine her love of g spot orgasms and mine for anal. But from this point I think it's a matter of time - If it is physically possible, we'll get there, if she can't do it, no suggestion or technique will help. And as I said, I also don't want to be off-topic (I mean, "off-board"), so again, thanks for your input. Good bye.

QUOTE(curiousboy @ Apr 17 2007, 07:54 AM) [snapback]11807[/snapback] To make her love anal sex just put her on her knees and suggest her to stimulate her own clit while you are stimulating her anus.... My sweetie comes many times doing this... Just sharing my experience... Hugs mate! cb That's not exactly what I was looking for. Sure, you can make all kinds of activities pleasurable with clitoral play, but it still remains a clitoral orgasm, and my gf says anal doesn not enhance it any way for her, so it doesn't worth the hassle. What we are looking for (and getting closer to, night by night ) is a g spot orgasm with only anal simulation. Thank you for this suggestions tho, and thank you for everyones. Some people told me this board might not be the most perfect place for people who only want to discuss anal sex, just "a dick in ass", so I decided to stop importuning. Again, thanks for the honest answers, take care, and have a nice day. Bye.

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QUOTE(gninori @ Apr 14 2007, 03:02 AM) [snapback]11006[/snapback] about people not wearing diapers, two considerations - if someone is, i guess they are not very keen on talking about it. even too shy to talk here in this friendly board. what's the talk on extreme gays's boards? - it's too early, maybe? we don't have enough medical-statistical data on what happens after 40 years of absolute abuse of your anus and when you're aged 70 and more. because the extreme anal drift is not older than 25, 30 years i guess. apart from some "excessive" players, existed in every age, but then too socially punishable to get out of their closet and tell us their story. fuck, i can't forget what happened to oscar wilde, alan turing, etc.... go figure going about saying you take or took fists or bottles up your ass Good points. I'm still not sure though. People who say anal play even strengthens the muscles down there are right too. And rectal prolapse as elderly people's medical condition that requires surgery to fix is caused by "the weakness of the pelvic floor muscles". I don't know, I'm very confused. I think the hones answer for this question could clear it up a little: do people who engage in hard anal play "turn inside out" on the toilet also?

QUOTE(anllover @ Apr 13 2007, 04:46 PM) [snapback]10846[/snapback] ...if you do plan on using a dildo just be slow and keep aware of her reactions... That's exactly what we're going to do. Proceed very slowly. Thanks for the advice and good wishes. Well, just tried our new dildo in action - it turne out to be a little oversized. So we just used some anal beads, and did usual stuff. But she is also quite excited about this wole anal-orgasm thing, so I think sooner or later we'll get to it. Or we won't... Either way, I'm gonna tell the results.

QUOTE(anllover @ Apr 13 2007, 02:31 PM) [snapback]10797[/snapback] zooole, i have read the quote about Mila before but the problem is i dont beleive the source for that. i mean when on the net you need to know when you can put stock into something and look for something to back it up, and when to just throw it all in the trash. Like i said she was looked at by many as a freak and anyone could put anything on any number of websites..................... but that doesnt make it even close to the truth. and if it was the case 25% of the members of this board would also be in her same shoes and NOONE have said they have to wear diapers. i have judged for myself and still beleive she doesnt wear diapers. next time please quote your source. Good, it would be even better if you have read the message itself also. I said things like I didn't see valid info on this, and the article sounds like "a sensationalist exagguration" after the quote I even highlighted the author's own words that prove it's not some backed up truth... I have absolutely no idea why you wrote this message TO me.

QUOTE(prolaptotron @ Apr 13 2007, 11:46 AM) [snapback]10739[/snapback] share it in video format, with commentary by david attenborough, and don't forget to intersperse the good bits with james bond car chase music.

QUOTE(Minx @ Apr 13 2007, 10:51 AM) [snapback]10712[/snapback] Zoole - What can I say. It won't work. It wouldn't for me anyway! It is rare that you will hit her gspot from inside her ass, trust me on this. If you have problems getting it anyway the ass theory will NOT work. If you want her to enjoy it then going at it with a dildo will not work. There's far less feeling and to be honest if I'm getting fucked with a dildo it's annoying. She will only have an anal orgasm if she feels completely comfortable and particularly horny. It's very rare for women. IMO the best way forward is to get her to the edge of orgasm then while you take her (slowly) she rubs her own clit. Best position for comfort and ease is doggy or on her side. One of my earlier favourites was the guy on his side and me at right angles to him if that makes sense? That way there was still the intimacy, everything could still be reached but the woman is still in control. As for the prolapsing thing it's really not my scene either, but I've lost count of the number of times I've gone slightly mad and my arse is still fine thank you! With a lot of the fisting and stretching stuff you learn more muscle control than the average person, and you learn to stop when something doesn't feel right. It sounds like you have one hell of a girlfriend there, so go easy on her. It isn't everyone's scene, and the fact that she does it for your enjoyment as it is is good alone. Oh, and quick in and out movements often aren't that nice, she might get more from feeling full and stretched but with no in and out movement. Hope that helps. Oh, and if you ever do really go at it she can probably expect to be a bit farty later. Thank you very much for all the advice you gave me. As I said now she has both clitoral and g spot orgasms, but we never do clit together any more - she says it's not intense enough and doesn't last as long as the other. See, I really believe the girl on the video I mentioned has a g spot orgasm too - I assumed this because she seems to squirt, and for us squirting only happens that way. Even though the amount she quirted seemed a little too much, and I know that the pleasure of the women is fake in 98% of the porn movies, but to me it looked genuine. You know, it just would be great if she could come that way too - and I'm sure she could do it with me too later on, without the dildo. As I mentioned before, we couldn't do this g-spot thing either at first, then I could make her cum with my hands, and later she learned it, and now she can do it with just my dick in almost every position. And to tell you the truth her g spot orgasms are 80% technique. Even the most aroused, most trusting, most orgasmic girl won't be able to do it if you don't know the how. Gotta learn it like anything else. I know it's hard and rare, but if it's physically possible (for her), I think we'll be able to do it sooner or later. Well, it won't be the end of the world if we can't do it - I just want her to enjoy anal sex as much as I do. I love the feeling, I love the sight, but she says there's nothing special in it for her, so basically that's what I'm hoping to change. I bought an 8-inch rubber dildo not too long ago (along with many other things - gee, I spent a fortune there ). Gonna try it tonight, we'll see. I mean experimenting is not some sin or anything... I will share the news with you.

Thank you for all the responses, guys. QUOTE(prolaptotron @ Apr 12 2007, 10:35 PM) [snapback]10537[/snapback] but getting back to zooole's idea, blasting her in the ass whilst she simultaneously jams a righteous dildoid up her cooter sure is sounding like the way to go. I actaully menant simulating her g spot from her ass. Well, gonna try it today, I'm off to buy a dildo.

QUOTE(prolaptotron @ Apr 12 2007, 02:04 PM) [snapback]10433[/snapback] from the 'orgazmic' point of view check out puckerup.com, the anal advisor section, there's a whole bunch of factually based stuff right there about it. Yes, we atcually own Tristan's book. QUOTE(anllover @ Apr 12 2007, 02:27 PM) [snapback]10445[/snapback] if anal orgasm is what you are after just keep trying anal sex (regular). try diffferent possitions but most important is get her excited before you go for her ass. you will get much better results. from what you have said there is no reason for you to get any dildos for you goal. also i would suggest doggy style or standing doggy. Thanks for the advice - I know I seem to be a rookie (and I am in the field of extreme anal stuff), but I'm not some ass-ripper redneck (I hope). It's not even possible for me to penetrate painlessly if she is not arused. We tried dozens of positions, but none seem to help her reach orgasm anally. I was thinking about a dildo because it would be easier to stimulate the wall on the vaginal side with it (where her g spot is), I could move it around more freely and deeper. After she can reach the orgasm with that we can try to learn it the hader, more natural way too. We had the same with her vaginal orgasms too-- first she couldn't have any no matter what, then after I could do it with my hand, she learned the spot and the technique and the movements and now she can position herself in the way she can reach the orgasm. I'm still quite concerned tho. As I said, I wouldn't like her to prolapse (even if it's not that unhealthy). Her muscle contractions will turn her inside out I'm afraid if she is all loose down there (which she will if I do it right). Is Mila really wearing adult diapers? Just googled around a bit; I don't see many (at least seemingly) valid info about this. There is one site talking about it, but it sound more like a sensationalist exagguration. Here, judge it yourself: QUOTEThis Ukrainian-born slut [Mila] stands just over five feet tall, but has a demanding way about her that makes her seem like a whirling dervish of dirty movies. She's an anal queen of the first order and often resorts to guttural moans and groans when getting her sphincter stretched to ungodly extremes. In the past year, Mila capitalized on her prolapsed sphincter, making her, in our estimation, the first porn star to wear Depends diapers by the time she's 30. She's small boned with pert breasts and has spent most of her career getting crammed and poked in the most sensational and down and dirty, low budget sexvids. She's a porn star for your late night perv wet dreams. In movies like The Violation of Chandler, Mila shoots colored liquid from her distended bungus for a disgusting and riveting act of anal overindulgence. Mila is one of the more guilty pleasures of porn star lusting More..."...in our estimation..."

QUOTE(dunhill @ Apr 12 2007, 12:38 PM) [snapback]10397[/snapback] Maybe there is a difference in anatomy between man and woman? Yes, I think so. I'm no doctor, and these pictures are just illustrations, but it seems to me there is more "stuff in the way" for females. Do you think it's more dangerous for them because of that?

Thank you for the honest responses. astarott, your English is fine, I understood everything. Male anal play is very new to me. I get excited about this Kream thing because I love anal with my gf, but she doesn't like it that much, I think she kind of "lets me do it" instead of "asking me to do it"... She can't have anal orgasms (just yet ), I heard about it before, but it was like a myth to me. Her most intense orgasms are g spot orgasms, and those have nothing to do with my penis either (), so I'm thinking about getting a big dildo like in that movie, and try to simulate her g spot anally. I would love to see her come this way - I just wasn't sure if it's healthy. I don't think she should turn "inside out"... So my main interest in this topic has to do with the orgasms, I don't quite understand the reasons for extreme stretching, and huge insertions. But I would love to know why somebody does this. Is it just a turn-on for her partner or does she really enjoy the pain from the stretching? And what's so good about it if it doesn't end in an orgasm? I would also appreciate hearing the male perspective. I have heard about anal prostate simulation, never really tried it before, but what do you guys get from stretching and prolapsing?

I think this topic would fit much better in THIS forum, since it has nothihng to do with sex. Just a thought...

Clip from Amazing Ty's "Cumming out my ass" (with Extreme Missy) Preview from LatexAngel.com http://www.pornotube.com/media.php?m=65731 Mila's prolapse on PornoTube

First thanks for your answer. My first movie I have seen about this was this one: On this one it seems her rectum is pushed out by her orgasm contractions. But since I first saw this I have found guys who gave me other vids too (I will post them in the videos section), so my question is kind of general. Everybody keeps saying, "yeah, go slowly, be careful, be clean, use buckets of lube etc." but nobody has ever told me what it takes to be able to do that and how much time your body needs to recover, and things like that. I would like to know all the details. Is it uncomfortable to clean? How often can you do such things to your body? Don't you have problems holding your poop on the not-so-solid days? Just be honest please. Thanks. [Edit: image link fixed]

Hi there. Pretty new to the forum. My friend sent me a clip with Kream from brutaldildos.com, and it made me really curious and search a lot, that's how I got here. I would like to know what are the negative effects this kind of anal play causes. I mean, bowel movements must be messed up at least for a while, right? I don't even know what the proper questions are, so if you have any experience, please share it with me.