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I don't have a recommendation for an inflatable but there aren't many large sized good ones so it'll run you 60-100 bucks for one that won't break or isn't big enough. In re pain, a sort of dull ache is okay, like the feeling of a bruise. push through that kind of pain at your own discretion but be careful. Sharp, stinging pain is the kind you want to discontinue play when you encounter. It usually indicates a tear in your skin bad enough to bleed, and if you keep aggravating it, it could split farther and scar you, and could also make anal piles or fistulas more probable in the future.

you want a combination of inflatables and an array of pushing and relaxing techniques and a lot of lube. In order to graduate in size safely, first, slowly work up your hole to where it's at a maximum stretch. it should feel tender and difficult, but not a lot of pain. Then birth the toy, and put it back. birth the toy, and put it back. do that several times until the most difficult thing you have is easy and kind of falls out of your ass. this will eventually happen. it takes 3-40 minutes. once that's done, use an inflatable to slowly pump to where it hurts a little bit again. birth it out. repeat. keep doing that over and over. Then, using lots of lube, take your 3 inch plug. squat on top of it for leverage. as you descend on it, push your ass out like you're going number 2. as you're pushing out, SLOWLY descend on the plug. when tension hits its apex, here's where a little finesse comes in. you're at a maximum "push out" and the plug is really resisting. At this point, relax your anus and descend with your body/gravity. you'll notice that your body will swallow a little bit more of the plug. ascend, and repeat the process. relube when needed. If you feel tearing or stinging pain or experience bleeding, just stop playing and try again in a couple of days. Rome wasn't built in a day. take your time and listen to your body. I hope this helps.

as I said to the original person, nobody is denying that excess bodyfat exists, nor is anyone denying that excess bodyfat can increase risk of several metabolic diseases. I'm not afraid of the word fat, and when used in a positive or neutral way, I really don't care. There is just a general trend where guys sort of have this cavalier entitlement to comment on women's bodies negatively. it's not the end of the world, but it's just not very nice and I think the world could do with less shaming others and more positivity. That was all I was ever really getting at.

lol this post is for entertainment purposes only.

my apologies. If I could get a second major in anything it would certainly be this

yeah not quite comparable to your flagrant fat shaming, Darthvin. I'm not putting a value on anything. I'm just sharing observations that I made back when I was younger, fucking a lot more, and training a lot more buttholes. I see a correlation between certain phenotypes and the way their anus/rectums seem to respond to training. I think that's quite a far cry from openly shaming a woman you don't know because she has more bodyfat than you think is acceptable. Rosebutt, you're right. I by no means claim that these observations are conclusive nor particularly scientific. It's just a pattern I noticed from my own life experience and observations of hundreds of anal performers. Take it with a grain of salt.

It isn't so much the smoothness or roughness(although it's good they were smooth), but the fact that they're unsterylized things you got from the dirt. I'm just really happy you didn't get very sick! I know someone who stuck a dirty baseball up their ass and had chronic pilonidal cyst for years

sorry to be a buzzkill, but please be careful with things like this as it can lead to bacterial infections, which can lead to pilonidal cyst, anal fistulas, even staph infections so please be careful when playing with objects like that!

Hey everyone. I was just reminiscing on my twenties when, believe it or not, I was desirable to women lol. Anyway, I spent a lot of that time looking for anal trainees, and my time in the field has given me some potential insight into the correlation between ethnicity and anal potential. In other words, I've noticed that some ethnicities have naturally looser assholes that respond to training very quickly, and others kind of stay pretty tight, don't gape easily, and don't prolapse, no matter what kind of torture you throw at them. You can observe some of this in porn as well I think. This fetish has become so important to me, that I use this data from my youth as a means of kind of pre-screening a girl in the hopes that, if she is into the same fetish, she will be the "anal phenotype" that lends itself to total destruction. Let me know if anyone else has observed this pattern. I find the number ONE ethnic type with an asshole that's basically ready to become loose and for a full prolapse to tumble out is Northern European, real peaches and cream pale white girls. Specifically, Scottish girls. One of my exes was scottish american and she had a remarkable morphological similarity to Ana De Ville, who is also Scottish American. I still find Anna De Ville to be timid and not "into it" enough on her own to really go the distance, but she could easily be a world champion if she privately had the fetish. Next up are still pink pale white women, but specifically Franco American/French Canadian. DGG is french Canadian, and I have an ex who was half french, and again, really fast progress with moderate training. She was taking a 3 inch butt plug within months. Both girls were epic gapers and both had major potential for prolapse. After that, scandanavian women tend to be very trainable, with less natural out of the box looseness. Siswet is incredible but looks like she worked hard to earn it and also doesn't prolapse naturally even after all that abuse. I once dated a tall midwestern submissive with swedish heritage. She was very trainable but not as naturally loose as the scottish, irish, english/french phenotypes. In the middle of the road, I find Mediterranean women, Greeks, ashkenazi jews, etc to be less naturally loose and trainable. South American women also fall into this moderate category. The tightest holes I've ever tried to train have been Asian girls and black girls. I've only had limited experience with both ethnicities, but man. even getting a medium plug in their asses was very difficult. Does anyone else share these field experiences? I'm 35 now and single. Dealing with some personal stuff. I hope to get out there again one day and find my forever anal addict. At this point, I'm specifically targeting Scottish/Irish/English/French and it doesn't have as much to do with attraction as it does my prior knowledge of these anal phenotypes. Wish me luck lol.

lol good man

lol you guys. It's body hair. It's not the end of the world. She's stunning. I like shaved and unshaved. Things to like about each.

yeah it's sasha. I'm afraid she may have had some surgery on her colon but I can't say for sure. If so I hope she's okay!

You're making a lot of assumptions. I buy content from performers I like whenever I can. I am the kind of dominant who likes women who actively like to dedegraded, but ONLY if they actively like it. There are ways to go about this fetish and this world ethically, and I think it's worth examining that, instead of maybe listening to what someone is telling you, you TRIPLE down and start to implicate my character. Sounds like you'll literally do anything but acknowledge that maybe you were a little needlessly cruel in bringing someone's physical appearance into this. It's easy if you try dude. I'm sure personal growth is a lot like being an assassin. It gets easier every time.

Just because you're pointing something out that may be a normative trend in how attractiveness is perceived, doubling down on this position is still hardcore body shaming. Why do you feel the need to say this and say it twice? There is no need to be so mean-spirited. I think it's fine to give constructive feedback and advice to someone in SolaG's position when trying to enter this community of all places, but reminding a human being that "on average, people don't find them attractive," it's just unkind. Maybe you might want to resist your impulse to express such things.

I don't think it's necessary to body shame or appearance shame anyone here. Everyone finds all different kinds of people attractive. I think a more constructive takeaway is, the reason this community dislikes SlolaG has nothing to do with her physical appearance.

Yes not to make you feel unwelcome here, but you have a bit of a reputation in this community for being hawkish and disingenuous. We are a community of fetishists and enthusiasts who genuinely find extreme anal body modification indescribably erotic. We can smell from a mile away a person whose sole interest is capitalizing on this niche. We aren't just faceless wallets to be exploited. We understand your prolapse is the result of a medical condition that you yourself don't find particularly erotic, but have decided to capitalize on. More power to you, but that's not what this community is about. As was pointed out earlier, your first ingratiation into this community is yet another attempt to hawk your wares. Plenty of prolapsing women have converted their prolapse into a money maker. That in and of itself isn't so bad, but basically, the more we can imagine the girl having the fetish on her own, who would be dutifully training and ruining her ass on her own in private because SHE likes is, the more interested we tend to be. Even the really heavy hitters, HotkinkyJo, Dirtygardengirl, Siswet, and even Clairet, aren't considered the highest grade performers, because as nice and enthusiastic as they all are, we can all kind of tell it's not THEIR private sexuality. It's usually a mix of general submission, masochistic submission, combined with a natural talent for anal training and probably the orbit of a dominant or two whose fetishes imprinted on them. The result is, while they're not "not" into it, we can tell it's not their own private fantasy. The highest grade performers in public life for those of us here are Vixenmoon, MercilessAnalAcrobat, Violet Buttercup, Sara Bell, and their ilk. To varying degrees, they are actually into it. They look at their ruined holes and you can see a twinkle in their eye. They work hard to ruin their asses because THEY want it. When it comes to your content, your only focus is on spamming people with cup-shaking appeals to sign up and give you money. You don't train your ass, you don't seem motivated to make gains, you don't treat this with any eroticism or passion. Don't get me wrong. I'm not anti-sex work. I'm a huge supporter. But some friendly advice(and maybe the community can back me up). Take some time to involve yourself in this community to at LEAST learn about it. Maybe join some conversations. Ask questions. Tell us about YOUR sexuality and what you actually find hot. I bet you anything you'd have more success making content that reflects who you are in terms of your sexual identity rather than trying to squeeze every penny you can out of a medical condition(which by the way, I hope doesn't cause you any discomfort). We welcome you to this community, but please respect that it's a COMMUNITY, not another platform for you to hawk your wares.

I get to her though hardanalcams. I think these cam sevices are some kind of weird aggregate so ymmv depending on which service you're using. I've never had a problem accessing her channel through hardanalcams.

she was just on last night

I haven't seen these particular images on here.

Life can be so unfair lol. Something so perfect exists yet it will never be accessible to me. I hope before I get too old that I find my prolapse soulmate. (I found these on Reddit. I would never share exclusive content from Clairet's cam sessions that aren't already online) https://ibb.co/Z1C2xz3 https://ibb.co/PcnG7Cd

She's in this community!

not to be a fly in your wine, but this is an extreme anal forum and this definitely borders on vanilla anal. I caution you to be aware of this because the forum could easily flood with vanilla anal stuff which would degrade this community's purpose.

yeah you need a much bigger and looser asshole to abuse it like that. If you take your time you can be really violent with it years down the road!

I'm sorry to hear that but that's the right thing to do. Try and negotiate opening the marriage so you can find people to play with who are into the same fetish. It's human sexuality and nobody should be threatened by it in my opinion.

there is a difference between reluctance and like, whittling someone down by hectoring them day in, day out. Depending on the personality, some people just give in to it because their polite signs of discomfort are ignored and steamrolled by a stronger personality. It's one thing to have a partner or spouse, confess a fetish, and attempt to convince her once or twice to "at least try." If she continues to show clear discomfort, I believe it becomes pretty unethical and borders on assault when you just IGNORE the clear boundaries of a more meek submissive person because you want to get off. I dunno. That's my take anyway.