First of all, I am glad I popped by at this section after long time: in the old glorious times we used to have plenty of discussions like that..
Well buddies welcome me at the club "yes i fiddle with my asshole but I am not gay one bit" I did tried often to explain to mysel how this is possible, plausible, shameful..how this can merge in one person like me. I never asked myself if I am normal nevertheless, because I don't give a shit about being normal. I am rather abnormal ..considering the norm, which is the mass, which is the mess, which is the boredom and endless dullness. Ok that said another question: why do we love it?[font="Impact"] I think there is an ensemble of reasons for it[/font]:
it's safe (as long you are not a nut)
* it does not require any going out to look for a partner which implies pretty much effort with little chance she will satisfy your thrills.
* It gives you a feeling of both parts (the penetrating and the penetrated), and we all know that all of us have a part of the other sex, it can be quite minimal, almost absent or pronounced, depends. I guess mine is quite minimal.
* Last but not least, it is a bit the fruit of our porn addiction in the way we enjoy the scene and we make it go the way we like it(humm bit criptic but try to get it)
[quote name='piromanyac' date='09 June 2013 - 04:16 AM' timestamp='1370747789' post='819315']
Yes it is normal for straight men to havea prolapsing asshole. I'm exactly the same, and my gf helps me too.
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[quote name='john doe' date='09 June 2013 - 12:18 PM' timestamp='1370776702' post='819533']
When I started going out with my girlfriend, I made a huge leap by telling her I was into this sort of thing.
I was really nervous that day and she could see that. In her mind she thought it would be something really bad like I had a bad drug addiction but after I told her I was into this sort of play, she started laughing and said 'Was that it? you were nervous all day to tell me that?'
In the end, she plays with my ass whenever I ask or whenever she wants to and loves to stretch me out
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Lucky guys you are! Or perhaps you searched well...
[quote name='Golfrog' date='01 July 2013 - 06:40 PM' timestamp='1372700440' post='834862']
Like all the previous posters here, I have played with my ass since I was 7 or 8, and 25 years later, have reached a point which would not impress on this forum, but pretty much everywhere else.
I define myself as heterosexual. Even though I can admire a nice male body and be somewhat excited by a stiff penis, I am much, much more excited by females. I never had any sexual experience with another man, and I am turned off by that thought. I had sexual experiences with women, and am very turned on by that thought.
Contrary to others, my fetish is purely private (except on this forum), nobody around me has a clue.
Liking things in the ass is very much different from being gay. But that's of course hard to explain to people who don't share this fetish (even to yourself, apparently. )
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Same here
And I think I am lucky: I can enjoy feelings and sensations others cant, without losing any of theirs.. ( I know, I m a terrible writer )
Cheers all and keep ramming it!
cb
