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  1. 4 minutes ago, slidewide said:

    Progress report, I made some nice gains with my self elbow fisting.

    I now get a slightly over half way up my forearm, only small progress, but it's much easier now, and gotten lose enough that my hand now slips in and out of my inner sphincter without effort. The angle is good but feels like maybe I need more stretching on other side to go deeper.

    My best session was strangely when I was going for width, I sat on my 4" inch wide plug for an hour, then my 4.6" one in, rode it for a while until it could slip all the way in and out. I got pretty crazy and this started to feel easy in a hot way where it feels like it's so open you can't sqeeze at all, I wanted to cum so i plunged my arm in and was surprised how deep i went. This doesn't make sense because I didn't stretch deep, but I think the access really helps because there's no resistance from my outside cunt at all, it actually gaped around my arm the whole time which is really fucking hot in the mirror. Also maybe going for long stretch helps, resetting my cunt to 4 inch as minimum It cannot grip my arm even if i try. I also did do a very short double self fist after but needed the floor to help, so that was interesting, I would be nice to do that without the help of a surface too.

    What position do you self-fist in to get that deep? I struggle with getting more than a little ways past my wrist since I can't figure out how to contort my arm properly.

  2. 2 hours ago, Morgan_Nice said:

    For travelling I usually have a small bottle with xlube in powder, its great to transport lube this way! When I know that I ma goign to spend few nights in one place I sometimes just go to a sex shop the first evening to buy a toy to play the next days. I usually go for a relatively cheap one, this way if I don't like it I just throw it at the end of my trip...

    As for the wife at home I have the same problem.. well after being frustrated for a while I have decided to just tell her : ""Sorry love but my butt really need some playing, I am going to play with my toys". She usually just laugh and doesn't care much. So this works out pretty well even if I cannot do it as often as I would like to.

    I’ve thought about purchasing toys for trips but usually I’m not gone for long enough to justify it. And my wife knows I’m into butt stuff and has tried it a couple times with me, but I think there’s a difference between that and wanting to spend an entire night destroying your holes haha. I’m debating trying to have a guy come to the hotel this time to fuck me because I have always wanted to try a real cock, but that’s obviously crossing a line. 

  3. 6 hours ago, Rosebutt said:

    Good luck with THAT!

    I recognize it’s a bit of a tall order, but we have as handful of friends that have opened their relationships up over the past couple years, some more successfully than others, so it’s not a totally impossible thing to consider

  4. 37 minutes ago, lalobalo said:

    agree! especially if you don't live alone it makes such a difference being 100% by yourself. I occasionally travel and it's grat to go wild, knowing that no one is coming home early.

    I usually only have lube with me and go with bottles. The cool thing is, that often the bottles have different shapes than I can buy at home, so always a new experience.

    Exactly! My wife works from home nowadays so my opportunities to stretch and go wild are pretty much nonexistent. So having a whole room to myself where I know I’m all alone and also don’t have to worry too much about cleaning up is fantastic. Glad to see another bottle lover, when I’m on the road I also only usually travel with lube and maybe some poppers if I feel like it. The best thing about it is that work pays for it all! Haha

  5. 1 hour ago, Rosebutt said:

    Your attitude is spot on but your medical knowledge isn’t. Not everyone who tries to achieve a true prolapse will. Some of us just aren’t built that way. As I’ve said many times here- I’m soon to be 53. I’ve been fisting, plugging, pushing, toying, playing, etc since the mid ‘90’s. And while I have  a proper and respectable rose and huge anal lips, a true meat tube prolapse probably isn’t in the cards. It’s just how I’m constructed. But damn, if the journey isn’t a fucking blast. And that should be the whole point.

    this is an important point that is often overlooked on this board. it's easy to have your perception of what is possible skewed by the many prolapsing pornstars and online creators that have popped up over the years, but keep in mind that they are similar to top athletes in professional sports. for example, you can practice basketball all you want and get in great shape, but unless you were born to be 7'1", you will never be shaq. And that's okay, the important part is doing the best that you can rather than getting caught up in what you aren't able to do.

  6. I also love spraying piss everywhere when I destroy my hole!

    Last night I learned about the Rapid Desperation Method, and want to try it in combination with a play session. Usually the problem I run into is that I always pee while I'm cleaning out my ass, so by the time I start playing I'm mostly empty. My plan for the next day I'm free with some time alone is to attempt this, but do my clean out shortly before the "hold hour" outlined in the tutorial and then continue to drink water during warmup so by the time I'm ready to bounce on a toy I won't be able to stop myself from pissing all over the bathroom! I'll report back once I get a chance to try this.

  7. Check out Reddit - r/baddragon and r/fantasy toys are good places to start. Lots of collectors are putting used toys up for sale all the time so you should be able to find something. Just make sure the individual you’re purchasing from is taking care to properly clean the toys before shipping and is reputable so you don’t get scammed. 

  8. One unexpected side benefit of buying jojoba oil is that I started using it as a preshave oil for my face and it works better than anything else I've tried for that purpose.

    I've also found that my hole gets less sore after play sessions with semi-regular jojoba applications. I've been playing a lot more frequently as a result of that along with some other big changes to my stretching habits - primarily, I've started doing more short sessions (less than 1hr) where I just focus on my ass and don't worry about cumming. I've managed to get a lot more depth this way, I can get my fingers past the sigmoid bend now, although I think that's as deep as I can get my arm to twist. 

    Back to the original topic of this post:

    I like poppers a few times a year as an indulgence, they can be a lot of fun and I enjoy the feeling.

  9. 14 minutes ago, jorgon said:

    Hello.

    Sincerely, I don't think Jojoba oil has these effects here described.

    I think that if you receive a shot of an enema made of oilve oil you will feel the same effects.

    but please, let me know if I'm worng, I will be glad to red other experiences with the jojoba's oil. B)

    I mean, the concept holds up logically - jojoba oil is typically sold as a skincare product, often for places where drying/cracking is common like your cuticles. It has a tendency to make skin more supple, so it would make plenty of sense for it to help make a butthole stretchier. The Pjur lube is pretty well regarded as a lube for regular anal sex and that has jojoba in it. So a 15 minute jojoba infusion followed by stretching with proper fisting lube like XLube is at least conceptually believable. I don't know whether it's a 1:1 replacement for poppers since it sounds like they do slightly different things (plus if you enjoy the high from poppers you wouldn't get that with anything else).

  10. 9 hours ago, Clara said:

    this is the twitter thread: 

    some people mix it into their lube but others use it straight. I used it straight!! 

    I used an awkwardly short syringe to shoot a couple tablespoons inside me and then pushed it in deep with my hand and a toy, then let it sit for a while before resuming play

    I plan on getting some actual lube injectors and a big bottle of it before long so I can experiment with coating the depths of my hole even better, hehe

    this is the most of an actual prolapse I’ve ever gotten and I barely fucked myself to get it so I can’t imagine how fucked-up repeated use of the oil could get me, hehe 

    https://www.redgifs.com/watch/thoseambitiousfrigatebird#rel=user%3Aclarablow;order=new

     

    Have you noticed any incontinence problems like the guy in the thread is pointing out? I'm incredibly tempted to try this (especially in conjunction with poppers) but uh, I don't want to be shitting my pants all weekend lol

  11. Sexuality is broad and complicated, so everyone is going to have a different take on this. For me, there's definitely an aspect of the extremeness of it that plays into the appeal. But it also just feels very good - your ass has a lot of nerves and sensory receptors in it, much like how nipples are even though they also aren't technically sexual organs.

    My fiance still prefers vaginal, but she likes anal because sometimes her pussy is very sensitive, prone to bleeding, and doesn't always lubricate itself as well as we would like, and anal can feel more pleasurable during those times.

  12. 9 hours ago, Morgan_Nice said:

    Hahaha this topic brings back good memories for me...  Sorry for the long story!

    Few years ago I went for a work trip in Paris and took a pretty large dildo with me (not massive but 8 cm diameter x 30 cm). I only carried a carry-on size suit case but was planning to check it in anyway to avoid aving my bag scanned in front of security. ... Well finally I was late at the airport and had no choice than to take it as carry on. Of course when I got to security my bag was x-rayed and put aside. The security persons were two women, the one in front of the screen called the one checking bags because she had a doubt on the content of my bag, they talked quietly but I overheard the conversation "Lady 1: Hey check this, I am not sure what is it; security lady 2: I don't know, it has the shape of... a dildo? But that's too big to be one; Lady 1: I don't know, it's huge but it looks like one, I guess you have to check it, Lady 2: Ok I'll let you know". Then the lady 2 came and ask if she can check my bag. Since she has an idea of what it was she was nice to take me on the side and to not open it in front of everybody. She opens it find my dildo and says "whoa, ok... humm well I guess you cannot hurt anyone in the plane with this... well excepted maybe maybe yourself (with a wink)" I was feeling a bit bad but it was hot at the same time.. but anyway I have no idea why I responded "Do not worry for me, I can take much larger ones". She just laughed and let me pack up everything and go.

    It end-up being pretty hot and funny, but I can assure you that on my way back I was not late at the airport in order to check in my bag!

    Lol holy shit, if that happened to me I would instantly turn into a skeleton 

  13. 52 minutes ago, Rosebutt said:

    I dont travel for business but I’m right across the river from NYC. I’ll be thinking about at least one person other than myself who I know’ll be crushing their cunt nearby!

    If I wasn't a.) going to be pretty busy with work stuff for most of the time and b.) engaged, I would invite you up to the hotel room haha

  14. I am going to be doing some traveling for work pretty soon, starting next week in Manhattan, and I'm really looking forward to having a few nights in hotels by myself! Does anyone else here turn into an uncontrollable horny animal when they're traveling?

    I try to pack pretty light (usually sticking to a small carry on), so for my hotel sessions I prefer to just buy some fun-shaped bottles or vegetables from local stores instead of packing any toys - plus that allows me to be discreet on the occasions that I'm traveling with colleagues. Anyway. what does everyone else like to bring on the road for traveling sessions? Any special routines or good stories or tips?

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