Jarred

I am wondering how/when you guys started liking anal stretching to the point you wanted to know how it feels for yourself. For me it began when I was like 15 years old or so. I was only watching lesbian or solo girl porn at that time and I really enjoyed watching videos from Sapphic Erotica which included lot's of girl/girl fisting videos. I came intrigued with the hole pussy stretching thing and that was my next thing to look for in porn. Because of that I also came across a lot of girls doing anal and I can still remember watching a girl doing anal in a video when she suddenly pulled out a baseball bat and inserting it in her ass, at that moment a whole new world opened for me. After that I only looked for lesbian anal fisting videos and I also wanted to know what these girls felt when doing anal so I started fingering myself in the shower which I really enjoyed and at point I immediately knew I also wanted my ass being fisted by a girls hand or my own.

I have heard/read about things that are supposed to be good for your anal hole. Aloe vera ,for example, helps "healing" your ass after a good stretching and coconut oil helps to keep your anal hole moist. What are your experiences with those things and what do you use to keep everything healthy up your hole?

Thank you for this. I am indeed looking to pump inside my hole, so a regular pump which is not so wide should be good to begin with? Do you know which company does make good ones? I certainly don't want to hurt myself, that's why I don't want to just try one.

I want to buy a penispump and use it on my hole to achieve a nice big rosebutt but I don’t really know which one I should buy or which specifications it needs to work well. I have seen some in multiple sizes, coming with a rubber sleeve around (which I guess I don’t need) and with multiple kinds of pump systems. I hope you guys can help me to achieve my goal of a big beautiful juicy rosebutt. Thanks in advance!

I have been stretching wide for years and I still can't get a prolapse but every body is different so I'd say, stretch away and see where it takes you

When I just started I also had a bit trouble with my tailbone being very sore afterwards but eventually that went away and now I can take a 4,5 inch diameter dildo or plug with ease and never have problems with my tailbone. I can also relate to the deep insertions, I don't want to take risks with going deep. I sometimes use a double ended dildo of about 1 Inch in diameter which goes in all the way but I don't really want to go wider.

I always use Mr.B Fist Extreme or Classic lube when I use my big toys, it's not cheap but it's safe (enough reason to spend a bit more money if you ask me), works very good for me and it's very easy to wash off afterwards. For just easy going play with "small" toys I always use waterbased lube. When I play with my glass toys (mostly under the shower) I use coconut oil or no lube at all, depending on how relaxed I am (I can take a wine bottle from the base easily without any lube).

My goal is to keep it fun and enjoyable, I love the full feeling and when I'm used to a certain size dildo/plug (don't feel that full anymore) I go a bit wider, I personally don't have a goal in size or anything like that.

Great tip! But if you like bigger things you can also try these glass balls they use for photography, these are solid glass balls so are safe to use and you can get them as big as 10cm, maybe even bigger.

I can take the super lance dildo which is 11cm (4.3inch) wide and I have had the American bombshell destroyer all the way in my butt a couple of times and that one is 11.5cm (4.5inch).