Jarred

I think it depends on your age, as our body grows our bones do to of course. I think even when you have stopped growing your bones still can be stretched at a young age (below 40 or so). As you age your bones become less soft overtime so it gets close to impossible to still stretch your bones at an older age. For me I noticed the stretching when I got pain in my Ischial spines and tailbone, on the picture below you can see the 2 extracting pieces of bone (the below red line goes through them) which are the Ischial spines, when sitting down after a good stretching and went away in an hour or so. This went on for a dozen of times after a good stretching with a bigger toy. After some time the pain (actually it wasn't really a pain but more like a pressure you felt when sitting down) didn't return and at that point I was able to stretch with bigger toys then I could before so I believe both my Ischial spines and tailbone were pushed aside (sort of I guess) to make room for the big toys. Just to be clear, I'm not an expert or anything, this is just my experience and a bit of research I did on the internet.

Well, years back I wouldn't have thought it was possible because of my bone structure but apparently the bone structure can be altered little by little, at least for me it did. I'm now working on getting the XXL Meo 24/7 Anal Stretching Ring in which is a steel plug with a diameter of almost 10 centimeters, I can't get it in right now but I'm sure it will in the future.

They are indeed really hard, but great quality toys. I am one of the lucky ones that can get their biggest plug all the way in to the base. https://www.amazon.co.uk/Doc-Johnson-0270-37-AM-Bombshell-Destroyer/dp/B00I5WNWGE/ref=pd_aw_fbt_img_3/258-0563828-4567133?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B00I5WNWGE&pd_rd_r=6fbd5859-6e0f-4925-b15a-82ff824befc7&pd_rd_w=c2yjx&pd_rd_wg=xMC50&pf_rd_p=69730152-080e-4525-8462-038267964085&pf_rd_r=9DX1NV7WBTM7XHH5H982&psc=1&refRID=9DX1NV7WBTM7XHH5H982

I myself don’t have a prolapse but I try to work towards it so I can have one someday. I’m not scared of the possible consequences because I have read a lot of experiences from people who have a prolapse (the fetish kind) and 90% did not have any issues caused by their prolapse. The 10% that did took it way to far way to quick, so that is something you absolutely need to avoid.

Posted by Glasg0wR0se

What helped for me was standing in front of a wall or door with my hand in my ass and pushing my elbow against the wall or door, this made my hand slide in completely.

I have no idea, but what I do know is that these are my favorite toys. I own the widest one available and it feels fantastic every time. I'm used to way bigger toys so the stretch isn't that intense for me so I wish they would make even wider ones.

I want to wish everyone on this forum a great Christmas and a great new year! Make sure to treat your ass with some good stretching this Christmas so you have a good head start on achieving your goals for 2020.

When you’re fisting your ass you’re stretching the muscles, these muscles will get bigger because of that just like any other muscle, that is why your ass will get a donut shape. As for the pussy, I think it’s mainly the skin and the tissue that is being stretched, that’s why the pussy get’s longer instead of wider.

I’m 31 and I trained my ass to be capable of taking over 4 inch wide toys. I don’t play a lot with big toys, maybe once a month but allthough there is sometimes over a month time between plays with big toys I don’t have any problem with taking a toy of over 4 inch after that period of time so my ass is pretty much stretched to a point of no return. with that being said I have no problems with shit falling out or something like that. What I do find is that it is hard to wipe after taking a shit so like HKJ I take enemas whenever I feel I need to shit. What might help is the fact that I don’t do deep play with big toys but my anus itself is still strong enough to keep my shit in so I’m not sure if deep play like HKJ is more damaging in that way.

Today I used a penispump in my ass for the first time, I bought a fairly small one to start (6 cm diameter). I started lubing up, pushed it in my hole and started pumping, it grabbed my inner walls immediately and I felt them being sucked into the cylinder, this was such an amazing feeling! I pumped 3 times with more pressure every time. Afterwards I felt some kind of ball inside my hole, like a baby prolapse growing inside waiting to come out. I'm going to pump my ass on a daily basis from now on and trying to increase the pressure every time hoping to be the happy owner of a big prolapse overtime.

Mostly this is because your arm muscles aren’t strong enough to push your fist in, it should get easier when you do it more often. This is what worked for me when I started: Stand near a wall and put all your fingers in your ass, make sure your elbow is against the wall and push your body against your elbow.

That machine looks amazing but I'm living in Europe and from what I can see they only have 110 volt machines unfortunately. The Hismith looks interesting, I've seen some videos where they also use quite big dildo's with it so the power seems okay.

I'm looking to buy a fucking machine but I have no idea which one to get for my preferences. Most machines are made for "normal' people who enjoy a regular sized dildos but I'm looking for one I can use with big dildos (fist size and bigger) and still have enough power to fuck me good. If anyone has experience with fucking machines, please let me know which machine to buy as I have no idea.

Please don't take bigtoys420's advise to serious, with all due respect. Taking drugs is the worse thing you can do in my opinion because you need to be able to feel pain because when you feel a bit of pain you need to stop immediately for your own safety. When you have your arm in you should slowly start making in and out movements and making them longer and longer and faster and faster but when you feel only the lightest bit of pain, stop immediately, let your ass rest for a couple of days and then try again. It's all about patience and listening to each other. I hope you will be able to achieve your goals. Happy playtime

8 cm is a good step forward but you should not aim to get it in in a given period of time, if you're going to rush things it might end up very bad. I never rushed into these things myself I just bought a bigger toy and if it was too big I would train my ass some more on smaller toys and try again later.

I have never used it and never will because I'm not into drugs and I don't need it, I can work up to 11cm in diameter into my ass without using any form of relaxing

I always used this bottle when I was still living with my parents, I never experienced any blood so I guess I got lucky. It was a great feeling getting it past the widest part!

I’m looking for a comfortable buttplug to wear for long periods of time. I have the largest helmet head buttplug for some years now and that one I can wear during my sleep but during the day when doing every day stuff I feel it getting discomfortable really fast. I can also put in the helmet head plug without any lube as my ass produces a lot of mucus when I’m horny, that is why I prefer a glass plug for long time wear. I have tried plugs of other materials but as my ass dries out as the day goes by pulling it out is really painful. So, the plug needs to have smooth surface like glass or metal. The plug needs to be at least 7cm in diameter, anything smaller will just fall out, or worse, get lost while I’m asleep. And I also prefer the plug to have a fairly wide neck as I love my sphincter being stretched. Let me know if you guys know of any good plugs that meet my requirements or are very close to my requirements.

Vaseline is the way to go here if you ask me. When I still lived with my parents the only real private time I had was in the bathroom so I'm pretty experienced with playing under water. The toy I mostly used was the fist of adonis and together with the vaseline it slid in and out very easy under water.

Oh shit, I watched the video of the image link a while ago and it got deleted, it had one of the hottest anal licking I ever saw in a video. You might not happen to have a link to that video will ya? I have did some research to this girl and it turns out she is very populair, she even has a vlog channel on YouTube with over 45K subscribers. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DU2HEa6EQl4&has_verified=1 She also has many videos on manyvids, I haven't seen a deep fisting video passing by (might have overlooked in excitement) but she does fisting and deep toys for sure. Oh, and she has some free videos on Pornhub but nothing really extreme up there unfortunately.

It’s all about training. Don’t expect anything to go fast, it can take months or even years to get to 4 inch and above. What worked for me was getting from a soft toy to a hard toy in the same width, when I could easily handle the hard toy I moved to a bigger size soft toy and worked up to a hard toy in the same size from there.

I don't really take long, when I feel like stretching my hole I grab my Bed Knob Buddy XL and lower myself until it's completely in, I then move myself slowly up and down faster and faster and end up with the plug going completely in and out with every movement, this makes me cum very fast. Sometimes when I want more size I also take out my Super Lance dildo and ride that one until I cum. But all in my sessions are about 10 minutes long when using my big toys. I also sometimes just lay on my bed and grab a few toys and pound away but then it's more about depth training for me instead of going wide, these sessions can take over 30 minutes just enjoying the feeling without touching my dick to make myself cum.

Your hole looks awesome so it surely did positive things for your hole. Do you use pure aloe vera directly from a plant or do you use an aloe vera based crème? And what other creams/products do you use on/in your hole?

The bombshell destroyer is very sturdy and isn't good if your not used to that size, I can take such a size easily but the bombshell still doesn't go in me very easy. I have been using the Bed Knob Buddy XL from TSX for quite a while now and I still very much enjoy that one. I would say try to take that one first and than try the bombshell again.