RectalSonar

Sounds....complicated. I'd recommend just relaxing and getting into a daily stretching routine. It may not be as exciting as doing it with someone else but you'll appreciate the hard work you've put into stretching when you're together.

Wow...over $1000 for a single unit. $100 for a quality instrument would be a tough sell (at least for me), that's just unreal.

9 hours ago, l4zy said:

How about?

• "DILATE EXTREME MOVIES Amateur"
• "DILATE EXTREME MOVIES Professional"

Sounds great to me.

For lube I would recommend silicone-based lube, as it won't dry out. If you are going to be plugged constantly I'd at least recommend evaluating your lube situation a couple times a day until you have a good sense for how often you need to re-apply.

Last two Instagram posts were July 5th (some fun body paint) and June 21st (where she mentioned she and her significant other were in a car accident but okay). Her comments on her most recent post suggest she's still working on content for her website.

Hmm...interesting. You could put one of those anal hooks (like this: https://www.stockroom.com/steel-vaginal-anal-hook.html) and and some rope tied to a bed post, door handle, or something else that can provide some resistance to use that to help hold one side.

On 11/11/2016 at 6:31 AM, Rosebutt said:

This picture is at LEAST 10 years old if not older. Well before the time of 3D printing.

i believe it's made of wood and there was talk of the girl in the pic being a post-op tranny.

Although the light shining off the arms near the hinge doesn't look like wood, I suppose it could be painted wood. Which brings up something else...I can't put my finger on any particular reason, but the vagina looks photoshopped to me.

It's possible someone 3D-printed it and then coated the business end to smooth out the rough surface and edges.

I had a post here a while back (before I lost my PW and had to create a new account) talking about how and why certain materials and certain lubes are incompatible. It all comes down to what plastics are used to make each kind of toy...there's a lot of polymer science behind it, and it sounds complicated but it's not that bad:

-Silicone toys are incompatible with silicone-based lubricants.

-Latex toys are incompatible with oil-based lubricants (including coconut oil, vegetable shortening, lard, vegetable/olive oil, butter, etc.).

If you start to dissolve the toy with lube, it is conceivable that some of the other things in the toy - plasticizers, possibly filler materials - can leach out into your body. The concentrations won't be high and unless your body is particularly sensitive you should be fine, but the old rule applies: if you're not willing to put it in your mouth, would you really be willing to put it in any other hole? Some people are very particular and refuse to use, say, a toy made out of the "jelly" material because those tend to leak more plasticizers than other materials even if you don't expose the toy to the wrong kind of lube. I myself tend to stick with silicone or vinyl rubber and use water-based lube, although I have a jelly double dildo for when I want to do depth play...

Of course, the bigger practical concern with using the wrong lube is that you've melted your toy...which is fun for nobody. That is also why you shouldn't just worry about mixing the wrong lube with the wrong toy, but also be cognizant of how you store your toys (such as what happened to Mr. bliindsided). Sometimes the leakage of plasticizers from one will get on another and cause it to dissolve...that's how I lost a couple of my older plugs, because I was storing them in a smallish box together and didn't give them space (or use something as a barrier). Toys can get expensive, and if you clean them and take care of them they should last much longer than 3-4 weeks - especially if you bought a quality product in the first place.

I never really had a goal other than pleasure and the drive to keep pushing my boundaries. It started with fingers, then a tiny butt plug, and ever-larger toys after that. In the last couple of months I've gotten The Black Destroyer and The Keg and have had a lot of fun with both (including the first time ever getting all of The Keg in me just this past weekend!).

If I had to choose a goal, I suppose I'd say it's to be able to fist myself. I have fairly large hands (approximately 3.25" in diameter if my circumference measurement using string was accurate) and would love to be able to get one inside me some day. I've dabbled in suction play and developing a rose but I wouldn't say that's as important as taking my own fist inside me

Obviously, finding a special lady who would enjoy playing with me would be perfect but I'm with some of the rest of you....finding someone who is otherwise compatible is hard enough, finding someone who also enjoys extreme anal play is that much harder.

Safety of the drug itself aside, we have nerves with pain receptors for a reason. If it hurts a lot, you're probably going too fast and risking damage that takes time or possibly a trip to the hospital to heal....covering up those sensations with drugs (whether they're poppers or weed or just topical benzocaine) could end up with you tearing something that needs medical attention.

Just go slow and don't rush things.