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RectalSonar

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  1. The days of hard-hitting news from Vice are long over, and even then it was really more about video documentaries than regular news reporting (the piece on North Korean laborers working in the logging industry in eastern Russia was fascinating).

  2. I'm in somewhat of a similar situation; I had lived on my own for several years but started living with others in late 2018. Although even before then I had gotten to be more irregular with my stretching times, it's been less regular and less frequent over the last year and a half or so. I get to open up my box of toys maybe every couple of months, which isn't enough to keep going and reach my goals but I've managed to not lose that much progress (my last session ended with a vigorous fucking from The Black Destroyer). One of the advantages I have is that my bedroom isn't shared and is far away from the other bedrooms in the house, so if I prepare carefully I can play there in peace; however, I usually prefer to stretch in the shower for easy cleanup and my bathroom is the most used one in the house.

    If everyone else is gone for a few hours I will bring a few toys up and have some fun, though this doesn't happen as often as I'd like. I suppose the chance of being caught heightens the experience but I just want more time and freedom to put the work in towards my goals...

  3. 5 hours ago, analpumper said:

    I have owned various types of speculums and retractors and have to say ,that I found them no use and to play with them to have full efficiency of them, it requires a partner as some if not all can beed difficult to use on your own. I got rid of all mine due to this.

    This is largely my experience as well. They look like a ton of fun on video but work best with a partner.

  4. I'd say it's a certainty that she'll never do porn again - as many surgeries as she likely needed to recover from the accident, she's going to have a lot of scars that would be hard to cover with makeup or strategically-placed clothing. Granted, I don't think many of us would mind but she was already trending away from extreme anal anyways and the accident was the final nail in the coffin.

    That's pretty much the same as what happened to Felicia Clover (not an extreme anal queen, a more traditional BBW adult model); she got in a bad car accident and needed a year or more just to get back to living normally. At this point, I'd be happy if Roxy is just able to avoid needing a wheelchair/walker/scooter to get around.

  5. No direct experience here and, no offense, nothing I even want to take a chance on in the first place. That being said, if you're potentially going to be exchanging bodily fluids with people who have a likelihood of HIV infection, I don't think there's really much doubt that it will be necessary to have safer sex. From reading up on Truvada, the most common side effects don't seem to be too bad (although the less common and more severe ones do look a little scary), something I am sure your doctor will cover in detail. The real sticking point is the cost - it's expensive and the approved generic version (which in Canada lists for about 1/2 to 1/3 the cost of the name brand version) isn't due to be released until next September. Even if the generic comes in about the same price as it goes for in Canada, it's about $400 a month...depending on how much may or may not be covered by insurance, that could be a significant financial commitment.

    As for transmission rates, one study says that those using Truvada as a preventative measure experienced a 51% reduction in transmission rates compared to the rest of the population - since that isn't 100%, I would still strongly recommend barrier methods in addition to the medication. I understand completely that it can be easy to forget condoms when you're in the heat of the moment but HIV is forever and even with all the treatments available today it's a deadly, incurable disease. A friend of mine has herpes and that's something that, while obviously less dangerous than HIV, is going to be with him forever...if you think it's hard to be HIV-negative in a place where there are a higher-than-average number of HIV-positive people, imagine how hard it would be to be HIV-positive literally anywhere.

    It should also go without saying that regular and, indeed, frequent STD testing is paramount, especially if you're not sticking with a single partner. HIV can be a nasty one that hides from tests, but it's also not the only disease to worry about. Anyone who hasn't been tested, doesn't want to be tested, or is hesitant to share their results is someone you probably don't want to be with anyway, HIV or otherwise.

  6. Whether from Amazon or anywhere else, I would strongly recommend sticking to silicone, glass, and metal. Other materials can be okay provided you are diligent about cleaning (I have a couple of PVC toys that get thoroughly scrubbed after each use); that being said, silicone/glass/metal toys are easier to keep safe because they can be sterilized rather than just sanitized (which, if you're not familiar with the terms, is an important distinction regarding safety).

    Also, not all silicones are created equally - in order to complete the curing process, a catalyst is required and the only one so far found to yield silicone that is stable long-term (meaning it doesn't degrade and possibly revert to potentially harmful component materials) is platinum. Platinum makes for expensive toys, of course, but means you can keep using them for years without worrying about anything leaching out of them and breaking down themselves or other toys in your box/drawer/shelf. "Medical grade" silicone is another term that indicates a material that is safe to use but if a product claims "medical grade silicone" and then has a warning "not for internal use" on the package, it would be wise to steer clear in favor of something else.

  7. It's worth saying that 3D printers have really improved in quality and price in the last few years, including some that have received quite good reviews at under $200-300. If this was your one project, then that's obviously not going to make financial sense, but if you've got other things you want to play with when it comes to 3D printing there are some very affordable (and private) options.

    It's also worth saying that 3D printing an insertable sex toy is probably not wise - even assuming that sharp edges and things could be remedied, porosity is definitely a concern with 3D printed objects and any surface porosity would be a great place for bacteria to live. Plus, I don't know that any of the common materials used in 3D printing are usually used in sex toys anyway.

  8. Like I said, it was a long-term goal...figured I'd get more comfortable at 3" and then get something else in between, while keeping the ultimate goal in mind. But then life got in the way and I'll have quite the job ahead of me to get back up to 3". In any case, the softness of the material is the thing that's most impressive - the Ace of Spades is rather hard and unforgiving, while Square Peg's supersoft silicone has quite a lot of give to it.

    As for the shape, I doubt anyone other than the true anal legends among us would go much past the first hump. Towards the base the diameter goes past 5.5" and that's gotta be HKJ or KirkJ levels of stretch, something I can't imagine ever working towards, especially with how quickly it flares out again.

  9. I got one in the original size as my new goal (as much as I have enjoyed the Ace of Spades plug from Doc Johnson's, it is a bit firm) but since getting it I've been pretty limited on opportunities for stretch play. It's of course something I'd like to get back in to if I had the time. The few times I've sat on it (with no intention of going all the way) it has been fun, as Square Peg's supersoft silicone is very nice.

     

    Given your "happy" size, the original Stretch will be something a bit bigger for you - almost 4" in diameter around the first hump. It should be great if you're looking to go to the next size level with a shape that is far superior to that of the Ass Servant. If you haven't read it already, the review posted in the description is pretty good. The smaller size is around 3.1" in diameter around the first hump, if you don't necessarily want to go up in size but still want to enjoy the shape.

  10. I've got that anal sucker....it is definitely a challenge to use solo but I find that the relatively narrow diameter works well for insertion (rather than pumping out your ass lips) and that the limited depth keeps you from going too far. The last time I used a full penis pump, I got excited, pumped a little too hard, and was sore for a week.

  11. 2 hours ago, Kept4Her said:

    I can take 4.3" diameter Ass Master without cover ( about 4-6 times so far) and 3.5-3.8" diameter on a regular basis. Love my Squarepeg Dino Stretch. Constantly trying to stretch me while on it, though I can only stand about 30 secs of so with my full weight. It is definitely my go to dildo for stretching. I also have the Exotic Erotic EMU Egg which I have inserted hundreds of times. Definitely opens me up!

    I got a Dino Stretch a while back and haven't been able to conquer it...then again, I've been out of practice for a while and need to find time to work my way back up to it.

  12. On 11/25/2018 at 11:02 AM, bass_man said:

    can you enhance on probotics for me, please?

    Probiotics is a term for foods with sources of "good" gut bacteria - fermented foods, yogurt, and the like - that aid in digestion and improve your overall gut health. Along with fiber, this will help keep your gastrointestinal tract in optimum shape (both in general and for fucking purposes).

  13. I have something that is almost identical to this:

    https://www.stockroom.com/inflatable-gargantula-dildo-black.html

    and have had a lot of fun with it. The one downside is its length - it can be hard to get in, especially when it doesn't have much resistance to bending. I think I've worn out the foam core inside from squatting down on it, so if you have a partner to help guide it in you may have more success.

  14. Hold on, let me get this straight. You're taking, in various dosages and at various times, all of the following:

    -coke

    -meth

    -poppers

    -alcohol

    -codeine

    -tranquilizers

    -ketamine

    -MDMA

     

    But not heroin....dude, how do you even see straight? I can't even begin to figure out what effect all of those things together would have on the human body in general (biology in freshman year of high school is many years behind me), never mind as they pertain to butt play. I feel like we need both a doctor and a biochemist in here to help figure this out. :)

  15. As long as your sessions are regular and frequent, go for it! Just don't go too long between sessions...I remember one time when I was forced to use up some rolled-over vacation at work and basically spent five days doing nothing but playing with my sex toys, I got to the point where I could take the Ace of Spades. Recently, though, with work and family and life being so busy I haven't had many play opportunities and the last time I did it kinda hurt to take in the dildo I formerly used as a starter. :/

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