QUOTE(kinkytrev and the mistress @ Jun 8 2007, 07:04 AM) [snapback]28644[/snapback] lonely i understand your shyness and concerns but why are you worried about your parents opening a package of toys? its your mail. if anyone opened my mail withut my prior permission i would go crazy. i dont know about there huni but here a lot of shops that sell lingerie also sell toys etc so it quite easy to go shopping for lingerie and just pick up a novalty or two. you talk of chafing, i used to feel uncomfortable but i found that if i showered and used talc to make sure i was totally dry after i didnt get any problems, its only when i find myself in situations were i feel hot and clammy that i feel uncomportable and tha is mostly in the hot weather. this may sound silly to some but if it is just the feeling for now then have you tried something that you have in the house, like carrots for instance? it will save you embarrasement as it is normal vegetable nd as long as you make sure you wash i thoroughly i wont hurt you and do be sure to throw it away after and not give it to your parents to eat after, lol mistress Well, considering I get about 3-5 things a month (bills and 1 magazine) a box would be rather out of place. Do you know if you can have UPS hold a package to pick up and notify via e-mail or cellphone? Closest one (that I know of) is a half hour away, I guess it is still a possibility... OK, I didn't know that. I'd have to go shopping for that, (not a lot of big raw vegetable eaters here) but I could do that. QUOTE(mxdil @ Jun 8 2007, 11:42 AM) [snapback]28689[/snapback]And for hiding your toys, surely you must be able to find a hiding space for as little as a few plugs/dildos? Many, many places could serve you: attach an 'envelope' to the back of a closet or the underside or backside of a drawer, behind some books on a shelf, hide them in another room than yours (basement, your sister's room , attic,...), make a hidden space in a pet toy...I'm not too worried about the hiding once I get it, though you did give me a few better ideas than where I was going to hide them. I'm more worried about hiding them if I get them via mail. Can a resident of a house that is not the primary resident put a hold on a single package and have them can via a phone number other than the house phone?