Shalquoir

Some of you guys are really lucky...

Sadly, my girlfriend doesn't seems to be into anal play.

Hey guys (and girls). I need some advices.

It's been quite a long time I play with my anus, I can fist myself and take others things around the width of my fist, but I need advices on how to take bigger things.

Short explanation : I tried to take some bigger stuff this afternoon, but it seems that my tailbone block the way. The way between my prostate and my tailbone it's too small to let pass big things. Anyone can help me ?

Thanks for the help.

I'm not really confident about watch porn with my GF. I don't know, I imagine that it will result on a big akward moment.

I read some of this articles too. And I was surprises to read a lot of women who like anal. But, I imagine some of girls doesn't like anal at all. Maybe my GF is one of these.

I already tell her that what I want to do on she, she can do it on me first. No success.

I will try the vibrator in the upcoming months, but I doubt... 

Maybe I have to forgot about anal play.

Yeah, that was my first thought. "If she wants a finger, she will wants a cock."

But she recently tell me, when we was discussing about why she was so "closed" about some things in sex, that she doesn't really enjoy anal sex. Then, my mind = blowing. I don't know what to think. She want a finger but not a cock ? WTF ?

I don't think it's our generation which is too "close mind".

I know a few girls who enjoy anal.

I don't like to say that, but it seems that it's my GF who is close mind. At least, close mind about anal sex.

I've already try to just kiss. She likes to be kiss at this place, but doesn't seems to want to go deeper.

When we fuck in doggystyle, she wants a finger in her anus, but nothing more.

I'm a bit confused.

 

Your born -94 dude!

Girls in your age are a bit more aware than my generation (wife is 47). 

You have to talk to her... You cant stay with her if she cant stand your fetish. U need to be straped boy!

Yeah, that's what I used to think.

But my GF doesn't seems to be as aware as the others girls of our generation.

When I try to talk with her about my fantasm of being take by behind, by she, with a strapon, she was shocked. Then she says that she certainly never be able to do something like this.

I learn once a study that says that most of the girls of my generation will be tempted by a homosexual experience. When I show that study to my GF, she says "That's bullshit. I will never, NEVER, think about fuck with another girl".

So, I guess my GF are a closed mind about sex. Or she is very, very, very shy and she doesn't want to tell me about crazy fetish like mine. 

Yeah I guess I need to buy some alcohol... Maybe she will be more confident about anal play.

I can take my hand. Finally. After months of work.

And unfortunatly, I live with my GF, so I can't have huge dildos to play with.

If my GF discover that I fisted myself, I guess she'll become insane... :X

So, if you know some "tricks" or some everyday objects that I can use to play deeper than my hand (which my fingers touch that angle just before intestines), but soft enough, flexible enough to not hurt myself, that would be great.

I'm looking for amateur anal destruction/dilatation/stretching, and I'm curious to know what is your favorite or your best video of this.

Gay, lesbian, straight, man on female, female on man. Doesn't matter. :)

PS: If you have a great deep anal fisting video, it's good too.

Wine......and anything else that helps to avoid a painful experience for her......

It's not really pain who afraid her. But, I don't know. When I try to go anal, 99% of time, she refuse. But she never talk about some pain.

Yeah I guess it's a good idea. But my GF doens't really interesting by anal. We do it sometimes, but it's rare. An idea to make her want more anal ?

Nothing really unusual. At least, for now.

Definitely get a "jelly" double-dildo when you're ready. I really suggest this one, as it is soft and flexible and the both of you can use it to explore.

 

http://www.docjohnson.com/crystal-jellies-double-dong-18.html

Yeah, seems really good. And can be very useful to play with my GF... If you know what I mean. 

In the shower, like lot of people.

I was 14 or 15 when I started to put my interest on my ass. 

I guess it is because I always wanted to feel penetration as catcher, and as I did not have a vagina , I throw my heart on my ass.

I started with 1 or 2 fingers in the shower, and it's only couples of weeks ago that I really begun to play, with some things bigger than a finger.

Ho yeah, I see.

It's been more than 7 years we're together, and it seems that it's not gonna be tomorrow that we gona talk about fisting each other. Maybe because I don't feel she's ready for that, or maybe I don't find the "courage" to speak to her about this. Too afraid of her reaction maybe.

Seems pretty delicious. But anyway, I'm far for reaching this step yet. I'm still at the step of stretching. And i'm just at the beginning of that.

But I'm curious and impatient to reach this step and fell something really deep inside me.

It's been a long time since you were with when you begun to talk about fist ?

By consequences, I mean things like sort of "permanent dilatation" or something like that, Things like definitive change. I don't know if you see what I'm talking about.

And what the feeling, the sensation of taking something really deep ?

I've one question :

Does it dangerous to go deeper ?

I mean, are there any consequences of go really deep ?

nicopama : She tell me that she want to experiment everything about sex (except scato and others really trash things), like threesome, in public, vaginal fist (we've already "training" for that, and we're on the good way to pass the entire fist), and lot of other things that a man can dream about, but in bed, she seems more shy, more "closed" about that. So I don't really know what to think.

Stretch : How long does it take to put your GF into this ? Weeks ? Months ? Years ?

Ho god, fisting each other in 69 position is one of my dream. Fisting and licking for me, fisting and sucking for her. What a programm !

In fact, I would like fist her and be fist by her.

One of you two guys had the same experience ? I mean, you "convert" your GF to fist ?

Stretch, your advices are priceless.

She's already into vaginal fisting, we've already practicing it, but she does not look really enchanted with the idea of anal fisting.

But yeah, I guess with a bottle of wine, I can do some things to push it on that way.

50 Shades of Grey allowed us to speak more freely about some sex things, like strap on or threesome. I tell her that to imagine her sodomise me with a dildo highly excited me, but I'm afraid of speaking about fist.

Thanks Stretch for your advices.

If anyone else has experienced the same kind of experience or have other advice, I 'm interested

Yes, we already practiced anal sex, 3 ou 4 times, but I d'ont really know if she really enjoy it or if she accept it just for me.

She seems to be quiet open about sex, but I fear she thinks anal fist is really pervert, deviant.