Hello,
I hope someone in here can give me some advice. My wife and I often engage in anal play. She likes to receive a good hard buttfuck, while I receive prostate massage, toy play and rimming from her.
My problem is that a tear often occurs in my sphincter, "facing" the scrotum, so that it bleeds, sometimes quite much. The tear occurs typically during a rimming session. She starts using a plug to soften and widen my sphincter, then she pulls the plug out and starts penetrating with her toungue. At this point I don't care about anything else but getting her toungue as deep inside as possible while she spread my ass lips and I push the ass out trying to prolapse in her mouth. Yes, it becomes quite rough sometimes, but I just can't get myself to tell her to stop even though I know it will tear. Before we do this I always flush out using a douche (we're not into scat), and then I use some baby oil to lube and soften the sphincter inside and outside. Earlier in the day I use moisturising creams around the anus to make the skin soft, I may also use a plug to make the sphincter softer. Still it tears almost every time she gets too rough with her toungue, then we have to wait for it to grow before we try again.
Any advice how to make the sphincter and skin more elastic and flexible? Any "wondercreams" or training methods to use?
Thanks for any help :-)
Also, are there any pumps/penispumps that is specially designed for anus? I have thought about getting one to help me prolapse, my wife got a little inspired by a dirtygardengirl clip with prolapse sucking so she wants to try it on me. So far I have only managed to push it out a little bit, but then with wide spreading, and of course, the tear reappears... I think the pump will help prolapse without spreading that wide.
Thanks,
Kaw.
Btw, sorry if I write clumsy English, I'm overseas.