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This is something that I really want to get some feedback on as I'm currently working on my rosebutt and I would like, as soon as possible, to be pushing out a full prolapse. But...

At the moment I would say that I'm not 100% committed to the idea. Having done all the research that I can on the subject (lots of medical information and whatever I can find on this site and fetlife etc) what seems to be the case is that, firstly, it's harder for men to prolapse than it is for women; and secondly, that once it's out, it's out. There is no recovery from full prolapse to the way it was before. This is due to the nature of the 'condition' which is a loosening of the connections between the rectum and the intestinal wall which eventually become so loose that the rectum slips out of the anus.

 

What I really want to know, from people who have achieved this (yes, I consider it to be an achievement!) is, is it worth it? Is it worth, 1) the effort that it took to get there; and 2) the experience of living with rectal prolapse? I recall an interview with Sheena Shaw in which she says, "I wish it still hurt, but it doesn't". This kind of stuck with me because of how totally opposite it is to how most people would view most things. Most people would wish that it didn't hurt, and then be glad when it stopped, but here is an anal porn actress and prolapse star who says that, for her at least, the reverse is true...

 

If I was to step up my routine from maybe once a week playing with toys and having a wee push afterwards to full-on every day, large toys/veg etc, pumping and so on, I believe, based on what I've read, that I will reach full external prolapse within maybe a month or two... My worry is that once I've made this permanent (corrective surgery aside) change to my body, that I will regret it; that it won't be worth it. What I am asking is, to those who have gone through this process: was it worth it?

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Clears throat. Bull shit bro u want it to hang out it will one day a week isn't gonna cut it unless u are letting Mike Tyson punch fist ya its all good. If u have mike punch it every day give me ya number i want in to :)

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It's all in your mind, or as they say "in the eye of the beholder". :)

 

I'm hetero male, but it happens that I had been with couple of female partners that had rectal prolapse to some extent. They say that they don't feel IT in any sexually stimulating way, it's more of a mind turn-on for one or both parties or just an inconvenience for that matter.

 

It is worth mentioning that I wasn't into THAT and it took me some time to "absorb" seeing IT and get use to. :) Non of them developed their prolapses on purpose, for one it happened a few years after childbirth and for others it was either natural predisposition combined with heavy anal play or simply "mileage" on that hole. :)

 

I should also say that having prolapse doesn't necessarily mean that you also have any negative downsides, like incontinence, difficult evacuating of frequent abdominal pain, but you certainly have a way more chances to acquire them then people without prolapse. Flatus incontinence and underwear spotting are probably the norm for many heavy players, but it also comes with the age. :)

 

I think that for most people enjoyment comes from "working on developing it" and "thinking about it", not having it, because once you are there... then what? How do you truly enjoy yours or your partner's rectal prolapse? Fondling it? Sucking on it? :crazy:  Perhaps some would, but for the rest of us it is just :yucky:

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it is truly a personal decision.

I enjoy anything that I can enjoy through play, sensations, visual and even some fantasy turned reality. I do have control when I am in the normal everyday world, feels like the stretching of the internal parts recovers and even becomes easy to control when I want something to happen. The day after a big prolapse play yes I have to be careful or I may end up hanging out at the work site outhouse, not fun, but you learn to feel how your body works and that is not really a problem. What it will bring in later years, not sure but willing to find out.

Also no leakage or skid marks in the shorts, flatulence (farting) is not much different than it ever was. I do believe the only way you are going to get a prolapse that you want is going to be through pumping, nothing else stretches flesh like a good pump. Of course this is also where you possible could over do it, but I think you will not like the inner sensations if you are pumping too hard.

Two cents form a twisted soul.

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Guest matthew.winterbottom

@Skifreak, thanks for the info! that's exactly what I was hoping for when I wrote the original post!

@Marcus, everything I do, I'm doing it for me; not for some random 'hetero male' dude who I've never even met!

 

@treb, I think you misunderstood my original post. I realise that once a week does not a blooming rosebutt make, the whole issue is about whether or not I decide to really commit to this and step it up to more regular and more intense play in order to the prolapse that I think I want...

 

hmm...food for thought though. must admit, the thought of it randomly flopping out at an inappropriate moment is a massive turn on!

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Let's see. I've got a prolapse. I never wanted one, I never pushed for it. Until last year passed I hadn't even known such thing existed. I have just been doing regular anal sex few times a week since I was 16 (with two breaks as long as half a year). Now 10 years later, here I am with a prolapse. It's not a big one, but it's there. Recently I've been thinking a lot about whether I like it or not. I do like seeing it porn. However, when it comes to me having it, not so sure anymore. I won't lie, it does provide me with some sort of "issues" (no, I don't shit myself :-)).

 

Having said that, I generally would not recommend it. I've seen a doctor about it, all they are willing to do is put you through surgery. Which is the last thing I want to do. You have to decide for yourself. Some people on this board have suggested that willingly acquired prolapse is different than one you get involuntarily (like in my case). I beg to differ. In the end of the day, it's the same health condition no matter how you got it.

 

Summary: I like seeing it, sometimes even mine turns me on, but eventually I come back to thinking that I'd rather if I didn't have it myself :-)

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@Marcus, everything I do, I'm doing it for me; not for some random 'hetero male' dude who I've never even met!

 

Wtf?! Did I offended you by stating that I'm a "hetero male"? Seriously? I said that so it would be clear that I don't have personal experience with prolapse, like with my own body (on the second thought, I could have even if I'm hetero, but it didn't occured to me that it could be offending to someone if I put it that way).

 

And where did I said/implied that you should do ANYTHING for me???

 

You, Sir, have some issues (beside wish to destroy your own ass). :crazy:

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Don't let anyone fool you, it is serious long-term body modification. It has long term consequences (eg it is permanent). If you want to do such for the sake of a fetish, fine, just understand what you are doing.

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Don't let anyone fool you, it is serious long-term body modification. It has long term consequences (eg it is permanent). If you want to do such for the sake of a fetish, fine, just understand what you are doing.

 

Well said.

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Don't let anyone fool you, it is serious long-term body modification. It has long term consequences (eg it is permanent). If you want to do such for the sake of a fetish, fine, just understand what you are doing.

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@Skifreak, thanks for the info! that's exactly what I was hoping for when I wrote the original post!

@Marcus, everything I do, I'm doing it for me; not for some random 'hetero male' dude who I've never even met!

 

@treb, I think you misunderstood my original post. I realise that once a week does not a blooming rosebutt make, the whole issue is about whether or not I decide to really commit to this and step it up to more regular and more intense play in order to the prolapse that I think I want...

 

hmm...food for thought though. must admit, the thought of it randomly flopping out at an inappropriate moment is a massive turn on!

 

My wife has been a helping hand in my enjoyment and still i don't have any thing poke out. So for u to make it happen will require your desire to make it happen. That is your choice 

 

For me if it happens well so be it but that's not my goal. Mt goal is just i like stuffing my butt

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I have been using anal toys for around 7 years. I used to stretch twice a week which for me was the minimum to be able to increase at the rate I was looking for. I hit a plateau in both width and depth about 3 years ago. I decided to just "maintain" by playing only once a week. 

 

Until joining this forum, I really did not know what a rosebutt was so I checked. I have one. I do not have a prolapse. I do not want a prolapse... to each their own. 

 

I am 60 yo and I have absolutely no issues. I think that going slow is good. It give your body a chance to adapt and strengthen.

 

Is it worth it? Yes. Again, no prolapse but a very nice rose, not permanent. I personally would not want anything permanent. I like that my anus goes totally back to normal within an hour or so.

 

Good luck.

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Wow. Lot of response! You guys rock. Thanks for sharing.

Part of what turns me on so much about anal prolapse is that it is, once it's happened, effectively a permanent body modification (if it was intentional) or a chronic medical condition (if it wasn't...)

I'm not there yet, but I've upped the regularity of my play sessions and I spend at least an hour a day with my asshole spread open, alternately pushing out and sucking back in. I can feel it moving up and down inside me and I absolutely love it. Will I still love it when I'm no longer able to control when it pops out? I don't know. But the very thought of it has me practically running to go play some more so I guess we'll find out sooner rather than later. I definitely don't want to go slow. I don't want a good looking rosebutt when I'm 60, I want a hanging prolapse by the time I'm 30 (which is in three months, so it's an ambitious timeline and one which I do not anticipate being able to stick to...)

 

I will definitely upload pictures and video (maybe not here, but I'm on a few sites) once I get something worth showing off to the world.

 

Thanks guys!

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i had my prolapse 6 years back, At that time I did not know what it was. I started doing insertion dilatation. And one day I feel very exciting (want to squeeze out) something coming down inside after dilation. I put my finger in and i can touch my prolapse, which is very good sensation by rubbing the tip of it. And i insert the penis pump and start pumping and it comes out. After this i regularly dong insertion and pumping and now it becomes the size about 5 inch when it comes out. But it goes back. I did not have the issue of soiling or incontinence. It becomes normal after you pump out.

 

I first thought it was one sided (only the owner of the prolapse) got excited. But i found out the active partner becomes very much excited too after seeing my prolapse and they can not wait putting their cock into my prolapse.

 

Even when people push so hard with their penis and sometimes prolapse goes inside, and i had ever experience the guy who told me to hold my prolapse out while he fuck.

If you want to see my prolapse you can search my name in this web side (picture section)

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I was surprised to see this thread resurrected after a long time.

 

Well it's been a while - about a year - since the last time I posted and I do not as yet have the hanging prolapse that I'm looking for. It's still an ongoing physical battle of wills between what I want and what my body is willing to give me. That has played somewhat on my mind and I have occasionally questioned whether it really is a good idea at all. Ultimately, I'm enjoying the journey and I'm playing with my rosebutt more or less every day. I can feel my prolapse wanting to come out, but it's just being stubborn at the moment.

 

One thing that did occur to me recently was that I always wanted a prolapse as soon as I saw one in a porno for the first time. When most people talk about them, it's in terms of horror or shock, but I always found it a massive turn-on. As far as progress, I think I've got as far as I can go without pumping the prolapse itself. I find the sensation of pumping the (w)hole area very pleasurable, but something more focused is going to be required if I'm going to get my prolapse to go properly external.
 

So yeah, that's my progress (or lack thereof). Sort of disappointing, but I'm working on it every day and I think it will definitely happen next year. When it does, you fine folks will be first to know!

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