Am I GAY or STRAIT! Need Help!!!!

[h4xorz]

hey guys, for many years since my childhood i have masturbated anally. I engage in lots of ass play and have gotten to the point where i can take fruit in the ass. I also like the feeling of riding a penis shaped dildo(obviously dildos are penis shaped) and this got me wondering. I love women(had a couple GF's none currently) and would never have sex with a guy but i love to play with male toys, am i still strait? help me figure this out please!! ty guys.

[anllover]

since you have no attraction to guys and sound like you would never have any type sex with guys I feel you are pretty straight. You just don't have the mental block for fun caused by social pressures most other people have. You know the ones. Those who refuse to try new stuff. To experiment.

[Tangerine]

If you're afraid of being gay don't be gay You look like many analy oriented straight members here, no problem pal, do your thing, gay or not (^^)

[curiousboy]

Welcome in the Club..

cheers,

cb

Edited:

Always be yourself because:
The people who mind don`t matter, the people who matter don`t mind!
Edited June 29, 2008 by curiousboy

[Earl Grey Tea]

hey guys, for many years since my childhood i have masturbated anally. I engage in lots of ass play and have gotten to the point where i can take fruit in the ass. I also like the feeling of riding a penis shaped dildo(obviously dildos are penis shaped) and this got me wondering. I love women(had a couple GF's none currently) and would never have sex with a guy but i love to play with male toys, am i still strait? help me figure this out please!! ty guys.

Hi There, I am only a few years older than you, but your story mimics mine in many ways. I wish to re-assure you that enjoying anal masturbation does not make you gay. First of all, it is a misconception that all gay men like having anal sex. Second, many men, both straight and gay, like masturbating with something in their ass. Continuing to do as you do, riding a penis shaped dildo, will not ever "make" you gay because sexuality is something that you are born with.

I would encourage you to continue playing as you do and not to feel guilty about it. You are still young so you will have lots of time to meet a wonderful girl friend who will like to do you in the butt, either with a strap-on or by using toys on you. I was only 4 years older than you when I met my wonderful girlfriend who will volunteer to use my collection of big toys on me.

I hope this has helped you. Please feel free to ask additional questions for the board.

I once saw a clip of a famous porn star (Peter North?) who was thoroughly enjoying himself while in a sling and getting fucked in the ass by a couple hot women. You may feel better watching it and seeing how a straight, "macho" guy can enjoy anal. If I can find it in my collection, I'll upload it to the board. Edited June 30, 2008 by Earl Grey Tea

[Ladyboy]

You seem to only be attracted to the sexual side of a gay relationship therefore I would say thet you are not gay but enjoy anal play...

I assume you have found your prostate ( male g spot ) and stimulation of this gland can lead to orgasm which is very healthy...

[Rosebutt]

Bro, I have been playing with/sticking things in/self-fisting my ass for YEARS (I'm 38) and I KNOW I am not gay. I just happen to love my asshole. HUUUUUUUUGE difference.

Being gay, I think, is more than just sex- its a lifestyle and its not something one chooses: it's chosen for them from birth.

Relax and continue enjoying your ass.

[SloppyAssMale]

Been a lurker on this site for a very long time and avoided posting untill now but I thought I would chime in.

I love anal play but I'm not gay. I've even gone as far as to meet up with a guy to have him fist me. But I'm not gay. The bottom line is that I just don't find guys attractive. If you use rubber toys I don't think you have to raise any questions about wether or not you have a sexual attraction to rubber. It's a tool at the end of the day. Something you use to enjoy yourself.

There's absolutley no conflict between enjoying anal play and your sexuality no matter what anyone else might happen to think. If girls enjoy anal play does that also make them gay? Of course not. So why should it be any differen't for guys?

[Tangerine]

Been a lurker on this site for a very long time and avoided posting untill now but I thought I would chime in.

I love anal play but I'm not gay. I've even gone as far as to meet up with a guy to have him fist me. But I'm not gay. The bottom line is that I just don't find guys attractive. If you use rubber toys I don't think you have to raise any questions about wether or not you have a sexual attraction to rubber. It's a tool at the end of the day. Something you use to enjoy yourself.

There's absolutley no conflict between enjoying anal play and your sexuality no matter what anyone else might happen to think. If girls enjoy anal play does that also make them gay? Of course not. So why should it be any differen't for guys?

Thanks, I'm glad you post now, omedeto and feel free to post more, your english is perfect (^ ^)

[anllover]

@ SloppyAssMale, very nice for finally posting and well done. what you say is down to earth!

[lbo4armrider]

i can see where it could seem strange, since so many ass toys are made to look phallic in some way. so you could choose just the toys that don't look like cocks. or you could rationalize that you'd like to fuck yourself, and it's a fill-in for your own. identity politics want to label everyone, but people fit more than one. you sound like a straight boy who like assplay....that's not nearly as uncommon as some might think....although, i'm kinda scared to imagine what the pride flag for that might look like...lol

[anllover]

cucumbers look like cocks, so therefore if you eat cucumbers......

I agree with El Beau. if you feel funny about putting a fake penis in your ass, get a rubber rocket, or a rubber hand grenade. rubber fist? just a undefined probe. but cock shape just happens to hit the right spots.

[minx]

but cock shape just happens to hit the right spots.

Hell yes!

Just wanted to say that the number of men who enjoy ass play far exceeds those who don't (unfortunately for me ) so it is completely irrelevant in terms of sexuality.

Just enjoy.

[anllover]

thanks for your insight minxy-poo. it seems you would be one of few that would really have a insiders perspective on the ass play ratio.

the trues words:

JUST ENJOY!!

[analboy]

Your gay

[anllover]

Your gay

WOW I would have never expected this type of lame answer from you. either you are joking or I really do not know a thing about you.

[curiousboy]

WOW I would have never expected this type of lame answer from you. either you are joking or I really do not know a thing about you.

He is just pulling the water to his mill...

cb

[mn2009]

lol, "He is just pulling the water to his mill..." good point CB.

anyways, like everyone has mostly said, this is a COMMON question.. and to be honest NO!? why would you be gay, do you think your gay? have you had a Homosexual relationship with another person of youre same sex? no?, thought so.

So you put things in your butt... Ask any member here if they do the same? Gay or Straight ill bet my last penny they do.

Why?, because we enjoy it!, does it makes us gay!?, well unless
getting out of bed in the morning is a sure sign your gay than no.

Being "Gay" Has been Manipulated by media and are parents before us to be looked at as something to fear and ward against. but think about it for a second...

Do you like other men, do you find them sexually attractive? if you answered no, than most obviously youre not, if you said yes, well then your may be bi-sexual.

and thats something you have to decided. is it a bad thing? you tell me, whats really wrong with what ever you do, as long as you do it safely.

and if youre Religious, and because of that you fear gay or being gay... i have to tell you something... that idea is spread only by Fanatical religious groups that gay/homosexual people are something bad.. this is why most of them also belong to other organizations which cannot be spoken of here.

and before then 1930's almost every society on the planet was a open sexual society, it wasnt till government stepped in and didnt understand it and feared it was something contagious and wrong.

So think about that, next time you ask youre self "Am i gay", and make sure other people get the same message.

[z3n0mal4]

Take a look at the ancient greek people They encouraged a male-male relation because it was much stronger than a male-female relation . Many of them were gay , but that was fine then there . Maybe somewhere else they would've been burned alive. Today is the same , some states are ok with gay people , some other are not . Some people accept gay , some don't . But i think that being gay is so much more than anal fucking . Many females have done it with a women sometime in their life ( i know some cases , and here in my country that's a wow ... ) , and they are straight . U are playing with some objects and wonder your status . I think you know it , but just wanted to be reassured

[brutos]

just liking analplay doesn't mean you're gay at all. there must be much more. gay men find other men attractive like straight men find woman attractive. they like their body, how the look, how the talk, how they behave, how they move, how the pose, how they smell... gay men want intimacy with other men. just like a straight man can't image (sexual) intimacy with an other man, gay man can't image (sexual) intimacy with females.

that's my point of view.

[SavageKen]

You can love anal play and still be straight!! Afew years back I had the same thoughts as you. My wife and I had a gay roomate and we brought him in...needless to say I could not even maintain an erection with another man in the room. Strech your ass and enjoy it, it is nothing to be ashmed of!!

Later
Ken

[sunbelly]

How about if you like and appreciate a nice cock and balls but not the other things about men's bodies ? Not gay, I think!

[Dr.Abtomat]

no i mean what about all the guys out there that have gfs who fist em or fuck em with strapons... to me thats being pretty open minded besides i see no reason why a girl wouldnt want a chance to do that with any of their boyfriends. id let my gf do that to if i had a fem who was into shit like that.