Does gaping and prolapsing cause incontinence?

[15yrprolapser]

hi guys, i've been introducing things in my ass since i was 14, now i'm 18 , i can shove things like cucumbers, not too big, i really enjoy it, i almost have prolapse, and i really want it but then i think in the consecuences, does somebody know if when im older i will have to wear diapers because i will have incontinence or problems like that :(?

[bliindsided]

It is a myth. wont happen

[kmoch333]

I wouldn't say it's a myth. It may happen and may not. Please allow me to share with you some of my thoughts on the subject.

I can only offer you my very personal experience as well as my friend's whom I used to fist. I have been stretching my ass since my very early teens. In total, about 15 years. Two years ago, I sort of hit a wall. I experienced some problems and it turned out I had developed an internal prolapse that causes some very unpleasant symptoms. I won't go into detail, but it's basically something that quite significantly lowers my quality of life and there's very little I can do to aleviate the situation on my own. Surgery awaits me one day, sooner or later.

So being almost 30 years old, I am not incontinent. But throughout the years of anal enjoyement, I have developed other problems. What might follow is beyond me. Now, thats my story.

 

My friend is turning 60 next year. He's been stretching his ass probably for two or three decades. He can sometimes take two fists. Yet he doesn't have problems I do, nor is he incontinent. So what do you make of this? I don't know. Personally I think that sometime along the way, I would have ended up with the same condition that I have. I may have just speeded things up a little (or perhaps a little more than little?). Well or not. I may have just been too rough in my teens and spoiled myself for good. There's no way to tell.

 

Having said that, I can't really answer your question and I would be really hesitant to do so compared to some people on this board (no offense please). You say you want a prolapse. Maybe get some more facts before you get into it. Read up on it and just know that once you get it, there's hardly any way to undo it. Unless you're willing to do surgery.

 

Go slow, go wise and think before plugging in xD

[meganuke40]

Think about other things relating to the body. If you're a new gymnast trying to do the splits and you get too aggressive about it, you'll pull a muscle, tear a muscle or ligament, etc. If you're a bodybuilder trying to lift more and more weight, you could have similar problems. Martial artists who try to do more than they're ready for sometimes break bones.

 

The point is, if you respect your body and monitor your limits, you'll probably be fine. If you let your pleasure and passion take precedent over caution, and you get aggressive and masochistic about what you're doing, then you might hurt yourself or cause changes to your bodily functions. 

[1337shiznit]

Prolapse can cause problems (And I don't really recommend it), but general stretching is fine, so long as you don't overdo your limits as meganuke40 said.

 

Simple rules:

 

No drugs while stretching

No sharp objects - this includes found objects from around the house with joins/seams - they may not feel that sharp but they can cut you, causing bleeding

No glass objects in your ass!!!!!

Don't leave anything large completely in your ass and forget about it. Ie apple sized objects and larger can move further in and get stuck. Butt plugs and dildos with balls are much safer. Ignore this and you may well up visiting the emergency department...

[afxacid]

I have been playing for 12 years now and i have never had any serous problems. Never even heard of someone having incontinence because of anal play. But it's a fear to a lot of people understandable. 

[skifreak]

Hey Jean JR, so what did you do to your self that you can't tell us here? When people post something and then can't tell what it is it makes me think that everything you are posting is fake. Why in the world would you not want to tell us of a medical problem which you indicate you brought on by ass play, which happens to be the main subject here. No one knows who you are in real life, so do us all a favor and let us know what you are experienceing.  

[Melvin]

i like to share my experience I have been doing dilation and pumping, for 10 years, now my rose is about 5 inch when prolapse (after pumping). normal squeezing (sitting on toilet prolapse does not come out naturally). I do more pumping  than dilatation. Til now i don't have the problem of fecal incontinent.

[kmoch333]

Hey Jean JR, so what did you do to your self that you can't tell us here? When people post something and then can't tell what it is it makes me think that everything you are posting is fake. Why in the world would you not want to tell us of a medical problem which you indicate you brought on by ass play, which happens to be the main subject here. No one knows who you are in real life, so do us all a favor and let us know what you are experienceing.  

Ok, stall the attitude please. I see where you are coming from, but it's really uncalled for. Did you maybe stop to think for a second that people are not overly excited to share embarassing aspects of their lives?

But fair enough. I stated that I had an internal prolapse. E.G. one that doesn't portrude out. This condition is usually acompanied by some or many symptoms, one of which is constipation. So yeah, my biggest problem is that I am always constipated. I've had to change my diet a lot and I also eat a lot less than I used to. I also have to eat some suplements to be able to even go in the morning. Does that satisfy you? I am sure that if you look up internal prolapse or internal intussusception (as it is mostly called) you can look up the symptoms. You could have done that yourself, you know.

 

Unsurprisingly, external prolapse (one that portrudes and one that people on this board are keen to have) can also cause constipation. Only not as much as the internal one. Because in this case, the rectum slides out of the body whereas in the case of the internal one, it stays in the body and effectively blocks the passage. You get the picture.

 

Like I said previously, I can't tell you if the condition I have was always going to come sooner or later, or if it's my doing. Oh and one more thing. People on this board seem to be very sensitive when somebody even remotely suggests they might have problems caused by their anal play. You know prolapse is a medical condition for gods sake and that should at least be taken into consideration. If you have a prolapse and have NO problems whatsoever, then I consider you lucky.

[Rosebutt]

Prolapse. No issues at all. Been playing for 15 years. 45 years old. I know my body (and ass) VERY well. If I had ANY inkling of a problem, I'd stop. I don't so I won't.

[asscunt42]

Answering to the friend,I have to tell ,that I am one of the older fisters here.I am fisting and stretching my hole, since my 15 years ,till now aged 62!! no problems ever appeared to me, or to my friends.If i had problems,I could stop stretching immediately.The sphincter of the anus,is very strong,maybe the strongest of the body.The only thing to avoid, is forcing and quick dialation,because it may damage the sphincter.In all my life, I did not met anyone, with a cut sphincter,even from accidental reasons.

So be happy and enjoy your ass,but dont force,for any reason.

[natricuzc]

Sorry for digging up this old subject (though still in topicality), but I have to say, 1) to "asscunt 42" : for me, he is a young one, I'm six years older fistee than him, and, 2) I sometimes do have small problems of sealing (nothing dramatic, but may be embarassing), as I do assplay since 14-15 yo, now ≠ two times a month (never more than once a week) with butt plug which is 10,8 cm diameter (34 cm circonférence), still trying to got my ultimate silicone one which is 36,3 cm circonférence (but I think it never will fit because hips bones and tailbone) and have after that a very big asscunt that I love so much. Furthermore, I do "Kegels" on regular basis, as often that I can (as now…)