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Hi Board, Rather than email the administrators I felt it would be a much better idea to make a new conversation topic and ask if there is an appropriate place on the forum to discuss errors occurring with rosebuttboard.com itself. Is there an appropriate message board for this? I had a quick look, and couldn't find one. Perhaps I am just blinded by my own stupidity and quick-thinking has led me to make an ill-advised forum post? By the way, the error I am currently experiencing is when clicking on the 'chat' link in the menu bar with "Forums", "Members", and "Chat" I am getting this error: An Error Occurred Sorry, an error occurred. If you are unsure on how to use a feature, or don't know why you got this error message, try looking through the help files for more information. [#CSTART-0] There was an error connecting with the chat room. Please notify an administrator. Its nice and big and red, so I suppose its forum-appropriate. But not being able to chat makes me all *sad-face* Is anyone else experiencing this error?

[quote name='Heero25' date='25 August 2011 - 06:36 AM' timestamp='1314218209' post='408015'] right now i have never been able to keep a plug in overnight working on it thats y i wanted to no how it feels after you take it out do you stay open for a few hours or do you close right up and how big was the plug you used [/quote] Is it because of irritation that you have to take the plug out? If its because of skin irritation then I would think you may need a different sort of lubricant more suitable for long-term wear, but if its because of a deep-seated muscular ache, then you may need a different sort of plug entirely if you want to try relaxing enough to go to sleep. The "Doc Johnson Classic" plug I used is some 15cm in length, insertable length ~13cm. The circumference of the bulb is 18cm at its widest point, and the circumference of the stem is 10cm. It said on the packaging "one size fits most" so apparently with some effort I fit into the category of "most". Immediately after removing the plug there was an extreme sensation of pain from the stretched tissues but as they recovered from the shock it faded to a dull ache which was actually provided some sense of relief from being stretched for such a long time. I don't think its possible to remain completely dilated and relaxed for more than a few minutes, even after a long session of stretching, pumping, fucking, fisting, giant dildos, etc. For further edification just go watch a few of [url="http://www.xvideos.com/video44029/hot_chick_takes_huge_dildo_up_the_ass"]Kream's videos[/url] on xvideos.com (http://www.xvideos.com/video44029/hot_chick_takes_huge_dildo_up_the_ass , pretty self-explanatory URL). She takes a fucking like I'd never seen, and squirts while being fisted in the ass and her pussy rubbed with the giant dildo. Holy wow. Then she contracts almost completely as the session ends, its all about muscle control. Its all a question of using willpower to override the impulses of your nervous systems, convert those high-amplitude painful sensory input to pleasure using a trick of the mind, then return to a pre-arousal state. Must be fucking witchcraft.

[quote name='gninori' date='25 August 2011 - 04:35 AM' timestamp='1314210906' post='407905'] you're so qwitty, nice to have you sharing with us . the board is full of chemically, surgically, mentally, physically altered and modified people so you're welcome and invited to share and open more, if and when you feel so [/quote] Thanks, there's not so many place where I fit in, so to speak! Its been really great to hear from people who have done similar things to what I described. I'm into sharing, it is after all, caring. If you're interested I can write about my experience yesterday with a similarly-sized, yet differently shaped plug. While its fresh in my memory I'll be able to go into lots of details. Although I won't write it in this comment reply field, I've lost too many posts that way. In Sparta, we open a text editor and write our lengthy documents in there. After we've finished playing point-and-click quests.

[quote name='afxacid01' date='25 August 2011 - 01:26 AM' timestamp='1314199580' post='407634'] Nice to have you here and thanks for the hot pic. Also to prevent pain you might want to work your ass open using your fingers before inserting the plug. Its best not to rush these things. [/quote] Thanks its nice to be here, I've been lurking around awhile. I just really wanted to write about what I'd done lately. The more words there are, the more difficult it becomes read all of them. I did try to go into great detail, but I left out all the juicy bits about poking around at distended relaxed muscle tissue with my fingers in trying to accurately describe the unusual sensations the toy was giving me.

[quote name='Heero25' date='24 August 2011 - 05:43 PM' timestamp='1314171816' post='407183'] and forgot very very nice picture of you and the plug [/quote] Aw thanks! I removed the Doc Johnson Classic plug the same way I inserted it. By being in a hot shower to relax all the extensor muscles of my back, relaxing my anus with heat and lubricant, then accepting the pain caused by stretching the skin, muscle and nerves over the massive doorknob-sized bulb and trying to transmute the pain into pleasure and thus condition myself to accept this extreme sensory input of having my ass stretched by masturbating furiously. It was fun, I came. Cool story? I can write a fiction story about something if you like, I'm just glad you enjoyed my descriptions. While I have your attention I'd like to ask, what is it about wearing a plug while sleeping that is a particular turn-on for you? Is it the relaxation and more lasting dilation?

[img]http://i.imgur.com/rYOB3.jpg[/img] Dear Rose Butt Board, You are lovely people one and all, and I'm sure that I'd love to have you all around to my house on a Sunday afternoon, people whose sexual fetish includes stretching their anal spinchters and the anuses of others must certainly be relatively interesting company. But you have ruined me. Completely, and utterly. I shall never be the same, and nor would I want to be. So now, because you must take some small credit in fostering the interests of this board in me, you must deal with (and I hope enjoy) me. I know this is a long post and contains many story elements, but the content is diarised, real events which occured so I'm posting it in general discussion. If mods decide this is in error, they can move the post or do whatever but I need to tell this to the community. For many years now I've skirted the worlds of kink in various cities of Australia and couple of other countries, but I've not really done more than dip my toe in, because I am a heavily physically modified person although I appear a fairly normal person to all but the most intent observers. I enjoy changing myself as I walk my particular path to wellness (I tread a threefold path which involves surgically, therapeutically, and pharmacological alterations), I can certainly say that life has never been dull. I have been interested in anal sex since I lost my virginity, which was itself a painful, abortive experiment with regular sex in a swimming pool. For many years after my first time, I was unable to bear the pain of a cock in my pussy so anal sex became a regular thing through a string of three boyfriends. Then I finished university and entered the workforce, and the boys who were willing to experiment with my ass either travelled to other countries, or got attached to other females I'll describe as "plain vanilla". I've since gone out drinking with one of these guys and managed to work up the courage to ask if he has anal sex with the woman who is now his wife, and he doesn't. I wonder why? Perhaps I was just an experiment, or maybe _I_ was the one who wanted to be butt-fucked, and was externalising my desires. Who knows? I've also had a girlfriend, but she just wasn't into having sex with me because she was secretly extremely straight, while pretending to be a lesbian in order to appear trendier. >_< I currently have no steady partner, and have been reading my way through RSBB with a sense of awe and wonder since I joined. I am just in awe of the men and women who can take their bodies to the extreme with something I find so difficult, but am now quite sure that I need. Some months ago before discovering RSBB, I went out to a nightclub and returned to a hotel with a cute guy who wore glasses. We had rough sex, which is okay with me as I am a big girl (not in the sense of BBW, I am just tall) and fairly strong, although I tire easily especially when I'm being fucked. After he'd screwed me up against a wall and made me plateau, when I started to ease my body against him instead of actively grinding my pelvis on his rod and my breasts on his chest, he lifted me off and stood me up. Grabbing one of my wrists he spun me around and walked me over to the bed. Keeping hold of my wrist he put his hand in the small of my back and pressed my face down onto the bed. I was so relaxed I couldn't resist, but the backs of my thighs burned from the unaccustomed stretch of the position. I was glad I was still wearing heels or it would have been worse. Suddenly in that bent over position on the bed, with him holding my wrist behind my back and rubbing the tip of his penis over the lips of my pussy I realised that he wanted me to submit to him more completely, and that exposing my anus was definitely a part of that desire. I suddenly wanted to show him I could and would do that if he would pleasure me and make me orgasm again in my softened, more submissive state. I shifted the position of my pelvis to tilt my genitals more towards him and arched my back like I was doing downward- facing dog yoga posture, partially naked and very, very ready. I felt his cock head twitch and suddenly it was nudging against my anus. I turned my head as much as I could to look at him and raised my free hand to my mouth. I tried to use as much facial expression as I could to say "Its okay!" as I smiled and started to suck and bite on my thumb. He got the hint, which was wonderful because I'm still not sure if I could have overcome the years of inhibition and embarassment and actually voiced my desire for him to fuck my asshole. That experience seemed to finally release me from years of not being anally aroused. I sometimes couldn't bite back my screams and cries of pleasure and squirted a bit when I came, he continually asked who and what I was while I writhed and moaned with my ass impaled to the root of his cock, his balls bouncing deliciously around my clit as he fucked me. I have a small anatomical peculiarity which I developed as a young child. A small, harmless anal polyp. Its not like a haemarrhoid as it is an entirely different skin malformation. It IS extremely sensitive, and when looked upon from above is like a small growth directly at the top of the exit to my anus, and he flicked it with his finger like a little anal clitoris as he pounded his cock into me with long strokes. I wish that was happening right now, I love toys but I also love the feel of a man's strong body bending me to his will, reducing me to a blubbering, orgasmic state where the lightest touch makes me shiver before honoring me with his orgasm and gifting me his cum like a present. This brings us to present times, where a a week ago after the intensity of my one-night-stand anal sex experience wore off I ordered several 'starter' butt plugs from various sex shops on the internet. I ordered a metal jeweled plug with a very small stem and two small glass plugs with thicker stems, one which I particularly enjoy is called the "Sunset Plug" and is extremely cute. Its pretty small so wearing it is no hassle. I'm not sure if I'm describing the plugs correctly but the bulbous part which is inserted first and rests in the rectum definitely seems like the 'bulb', and the part which sits nestled in the spinchter muscle seems like the 'stem' and the part which rests outside the anus keeping everything from disappearing inside is the 'flange'. If thats not correct I'd like some guidance here. I used those toys on and off for several days before deciding that all they were doing was frustrating me, I needed something more like the size of the penis which had last stretched my ass for it to feel really good and satiate my needs. I was overnighting at a friends place playing Global Agenda when I remembered there was an adult shop nearby. On the pretext of going to get take-out I went there and bought two more realistically sized plugs. A 4.5" soft red jelly plug, ostensibly for an anal warm-up, and then something I thought would be more challenging and that I'd never done before (I'm still pretty new to anal plugs and toys). This was a nude-colour, phthalate-free, anti-bacterial, silica-gel "one size fits most", Doc JOhnson Classic plug. After getting it out of the space-devil packaging and feeling it I knew I'd have to have the softer jelly plug in for awhile before attempting to wear it. The bulb is maybe five centimeters in diameter (which is probably really SMALL for most of you, I'm a n00b and unrepentant about it). While everyone was engaged with the activity of food I went to the bathroom to take care of my butt. Even the smell of the Doc Johnson plug made me want to feel it in my bum. While I was holding it in my hand and feeling its weight and quality, I thought I'd endorse their products in a heartbeat. But there was no way I could attempt getting that large bulb in on the first try. Even the metal plug on my anal jewelery was smaller than this, and although its far less flexible and giving its les of a challenge to fit it inside me. I wore the jelly plug for maybe a couple of hours before I was the only one awake, and with my butt sufficiently relaxed, ready to try the Doc Johnson Classic again. I began by taking a hot shower and discovered to my delight that my jelly plug DOES have a "suction cup" function by virtue of the base of the flange being slightly concave, the soft jelly of the plug enables you to press the concavity against the tile wall of a shower, where it sticks. Doing that and pulling away from the plug soon had made my anus popping back and forth over the largest part of the jelly plug's bulb, and the hot water of the shower on my back meant I just had to rub my clit and I came within 30 seconds! A shuddering, massive orgasm lasting God knows how long (but was probably only another 30 seconds), only made me feel more aroused given what I had just decided to do after it finished. When I could straighten up and feel steady on my feet again, I popped off the jelly plug and left it stuck to the wall of the shower and reached out of the shower to grab the Doc Johnson Classic. I was ready, and determined. I knew it would probably hurt a little, but when I was still relaxed after a nice orgasm in the shower was absolutely the best time to try to stretch my limits. Reaching behind my bum with both hands I pressed the lubricated tip of the plug into my butt. Oh wow, it was quite painful and really stretching me out far more than my one-night-stand! When I felt like I couldn't take it anymore, I felt with my fingers to see how much of the bulb had penetrated. Barely half-way. Fuck, this was a watershed moment. Either I turned back now and returned to the smaller plugs, abandoning my honest desire to stretch out my asshole and be submissively butt-fucked. *heh* I smiled to myself, set my jaw and backed to the shower wall again. I'm no stranger to pain; I once had my nipples pierced with 8-guage CBR's on a whim and overloading my sensorium with pain just makes my brain transmute the experience into pleasure, sometimes I orgasm but always I experience an endorphin high from such scenes. So I pressed back onto the plug with my hand between the plug and the wall I yelped and felt my hip bones contact the tiles. Oh the stretching was incredible, very, very slowly I could feel the entire muscle of my anus expanding out around the bulb. Until that moment, I'd lived in my body for over three decades and had no idea how large that muscle really was! Oww, it hurt, it hurt, and then just when I felt my eyes tearing up and my body bending downwards in reaction to the pain, I had to pull my body weight away from the wall, it happened. A sort of deliciously stretchy, popping sensation as the last few fibers of muscle stretched and pulled over the bulb of the plug, followed by a sharp jolt of fullness and pleasure. I was sort of locked in place in the shower, half bent but standing on my own two feet, open-mouthed at what I'd managed to do to myself. Doc Johnson's Classic Plug was one-size-fits-most finally fit me and it felt so good I never wanted to take it out. I was pretty glad I felt that way, because feeling around behind me the plug felt securely locked into place between my buns. Could I take it? Could I even take the plug out if I couldn't? A smattering of worry passed over me, but was soon replaced by renewed arousal as the fingers of my other hand found my pussy and worked gently on my button. Waves of pleasure emanated from the tissue stretched around the plug, I could pull on it as hard as I wanted and felt secure that it wasn't going to leave me before I wanted. Wow. Just wow, was all I had time to think before another orgasm washed over me, making the shower feel like a waterfall this time as my anus contracted rhythmically on the plug, squeezing it like you'd hug a long-lost friend in greeting. I sank to my knees in the shower, the fingers of one hand sunk deep into my vagina and my other hand still holding the plug. I had such gratitude extended to the universe at that moment, that I was capable of feeling this way, and had something new and exciting to explore in my sexual life. I started to actually get cleaned up and leave the bathroom. Before I did I daubed some vaseline on my finger, pulled the stem of the plug out of my anus and liberally greased both that part of the plug and the tissues all around it, as I was definitley going to leave it in as long as I could, and I didn't want to get what amounts to nappy rash (which I'd experienced playing with the hard unyielding metal plug). Even walking around was an enticing experience and I was so glad everyone was asleep because before I finally passed out on the couch I'd lost track of the number of times I'd put my hand into my pyjamas and jilled off just by rubbing the tip of my middle finger on my clitoris. This is WONDERFUL I thought, even as the 'bad' side effects started to creep into the experience. Bits of my lower spine cricked and cracked very pleasantly as my posture altered for the better around the plug. Feeling like I was standing much straighter, I burped and smelled silicone, and my sciatic nerves running either side of the plug really started to ache and stretch (which actually felt REALLY good after awhile, and I did a lot of yoga postures for an hour or so to help with that). The antibacterial nature of the plug was also making itself known, and my body was reacting and loving the effects. I felt totally secure, satiated, and 'pacified' and went to sleep completely contented. I slept wonderfully for almost 7.5 hours which for me is unusual, especially on a friend's couch. When I woke I felt freer in my body than I had in ages. Like something had been massaging a most important part of my all through my rest by simply being a low-amplitude nervous stimulus of presence that I could not ignore at a baser level. I assume my sleep hygeine and movement habits during sleep had all been altered around the plug, much to my benefit rather than detriment. This is brilliant, and proves beyond a shadow of doubt that this and other kinds of low-amplitude stimulus are definitely a pathway to better heatlth. If you enjoy it, butt plugs and anal sex are GOOD for you, so I decided then and there to deal with it simply by accepting that part of my sexuality as a part of me I'm prepared to celebrate. After going to sleep with one in me all night, I didn't want to be embarassed about my plug, and while I don't want to shout that I'm a convert who wears one from the rooftops, I'm definitely willing to talk about it with anyone who is interested, and I'd definitely show them if they wanted to see, because engaging in those presentation behaviours makes me feel sexy and desirable, and I'm okay with most ways of making myself feel good. Now, if anyone is interested I can certainly tell you all about what happened soon after I got up when for obvious biological reasons I had to remove the plug. That was an experience in itself, and reminded me of an erotic story I read linked to from RSBB in which an adolescent female has a large anal plug inserted by an adult man, and has to get her friend to remove it for her because it hurts too much to remove it without assistance, but first I have a few questions I'd like to have answered: 1. Does anyone know exactly how safe is it to wear a silicone plug long-term? I'm assuming the risks are comparably less than having silicone breast implants, but I'd like to hear an informed opinion from others who are into long-term wear. I feel like this is something I could go almost 24/7 with, as I enjoy the feeling plugs like the Doc Johnson range provide over the metal anal jewlery advertised for long-term wear. I have a feeling that as you get more advanced and better at accepting larger plugs for longer periods of wear the metal plugs will become much more stimulating rather than just painful because of the hard, sharp-edged metal they are inevitably made from. 2. I want to develop my desires, and that means being confident enough to seek anal sex with other people again before I die. I'm pretty shy and retiring, as well as sexually submissive so "putting myself out there" is difficult except on the internet. Any advice here would be much appreciated. 3. I want to see, in real life, a man or a woman doing anal flowering (rosebutts people!). I'd also like to do it myself. I'm not sure I'm brave enough to just go for it with a novelty-sized dildo without a more concrete understanding of what my body is capable of. I know I'm in the right place to ask about this, so any honest, knowlegeable advice will be gratefully received! Pic related. Its me the day after with the Doc Johnson Classic plug still in my bum, just before I went home and wrote this account of my adventures (EDIT: the weird looking stuff which looks like sperm dripping off me is really toothpaste on the mirror, sorry to disappoint). After having to take the classic plug out to ablute, I've been wearing the jelly one today to cool down, but the DJC is right next to the keyboard and I'll be putting it back in soon. I love wearing it and having my asshole stretched makes me feel physically and emotionally wonderful, like I'm more awake and aware than I ever could be while tightened up. TTFN lovely people.