fullandwet

Sweet! thanks, guys, for the links. These all seem really good (and I might look into a female version of the harness, that looked integuing).

Yes, but wearing it all day can be awkward at work, so sleeping with it in has the convenience factor. But then again, there are always weekends ;-) And it would be fun doing Saturday errands with a plug in! I have noticed that the lube I have, which came with my plug, tends to be absorbed by my body more quickly than I'd like. I'm thinking of going more old school in my lube - e.g. vaseline... would that be OK with a stainless steel plug? I'm thinking it would be OK... Also, although the plug is a great tool, I'm wondering if I should be adding something else, like a speculum, to hold my ass open. The plug is great, but I find the biggest challenge is my outer ring and I want to make sure I exercise it enough. A speculum sounds like a good idea, does anyone else use one in their training, or are plugs enough?

Thanks, guys. I have heard conflicting things about sleeping with the butt plug in, but it stands to reason that wearing it for a long time like that would have good results... I think I'll try it. Also, I will work up to a 1.5 in plug... currently my plug is 1.25 which is OK for now but not where I want to be. I do want to be able to take the cock easily, and I'm not there yet (obviously, he's very supportive of my efforst, although it's kinda been my idea). Thanks, paintballass, for the welcome to the forum :-) K

Hi, I'm a relative noobie (straight female). I have had long time interest in stretching myself anally. I wear a medium butt plug 3-4 hours a week (one of those cute rosebud jewel ones), but I feel like I want something much more. Am thinking about upgrading to a large.... my medium goes in with only a minute or so of sitting/lying on it and relaxing my body and my breathing. Once it's in, I'm easily able to move around. I love the feeling, and I'm developing some muscle control near my anal opening, which is really exciting because I'm using muscles I didn't know I had. I would love other people's tips on manageable ways I can learn to stretch my opening to accommodate more, and refine my muscle control a bit higher in my ass. I am realistic, I'm open to some discomfort (really, isn't it part of the process, LOL) but don't want to do too much too soon and hurt myself. My short term goal is to have enough of a gape that I can take a cock easily during sex without much prep, just a big squirt or two of lube. Long term of course I would like to have more of a gape and/or a descended anal opening. All input warmly welcomed! (pardon the pun).