gmoyer

Hello, I am new to the site and do not have much experience with anal (I understand lots of lube, time, take it slow and whatnot). I was wondering how people usually relax the internal sphincter, what position you use for self play or with others to relax the most, do you use props to get a better position for relaxing, places you touch or ways you massage to get relaxed, and general tips for getting more comfortable with anal penetration in any form. I appreciate details in any replies to paint the best picture for myself and others I usually lay on my back flat and go in and out a little with one finger to start, focus on my breathing, and go in a circular motion around the walls of the rectum with my finger in about half way (which I think helps relax my inner sphincter). My gf and I tried her fingering me but I had a hard time relaxing and even one finger I felt tight (it wasn't uncomfortable, but I couldn't be pegged or take much other than her small finger). I hope one day I can be pegged and even fisted Thank you for any tips!