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My wife was extremely chilled about it when I first told her and reassured me that it wasn’t a problem. In the years since she has said she likes giving me anal play cos it makes me feel good and she enjoys being the one giving me said pleasures. Unfortunately, it’s been years since she’s been inside me. Whenever it comes up there seems to be a reason why it can’t happen but she assured me it’s not a problem. I’m getting a little frustrated by it to be honest but I’m determined not to push matters and cause problems

Just to be as wide and take it as deep as possible! To be double fisted by the wife would be amazing

I kept using long dildos, taking them as deep as possible, as often as possible, sometimes just sitting on them while I read a book or watched TV. Eventually my sigmoid accepted things through it easier, to the point that most days I can take a whole double dong almost straight away while playing.

Haha that’s great! Spot on too!!

I use a shower hose with a silicone nozzle attachment. The nozzle is about 9 inches or so long and only 3/4 inch thick, and I flush myself out while I shower most mornings. This isn’t for everyone though and I’ve read can disrupt electrolytes and good bacteria, and can lead to a dependence on the enema to have a BM as your not using your muscles if your doing it daily.

I went a while where I was deep cleaning almost daily and apart from feeling really lethargic some days I didn’t see any ill effects, but that’s me and my body! I found that if I done it every morning i wouldn’t need a really thorough clean as there wouldn’t be much in there. But if I went without it for a few days I would need to spend a while longer to get it all out. how I wish for that privacy again.....

I’ve neen playing with my hole for as long as I can remember, I’ve never really had any ultimate goals just chasing bigger and deeper! that said, I suppose my ultimate goal would be to train to take my wife’s arm as deep as it will go, and have her ream me with it on a regular basis. I can already take her fist, but haven’t had it in years to try and take it deep....

Same problem here, I’ve hit a wall so to speak at the same point. It’s frustrating cos like Black_or_die said you see guys take much wider toys! Ive asked this question somewhere previously and someone mentioned trying to stretch front to back rather than side to side, try and find something not so round but larger circumference to stretch your hole more. Other than that I’m the same as Black_or_die in that I’m starting to work more on advancing my depth play as I’m already up my descending colon to the bend of the transverse, just working on wider and deeper!

So after 10 odd years of extreme anal play I’m finally starting to prolapse! No pumping just pushing, anal enema and play as much as possible! When did you remember first feeling a prolapse and how did you get there?

Please forgive me if this has been covered here before, but I can’t find it. Is there anyone here who will admit to any (if they exist hehe) down sides to having a prolapsed hole? Like, does it pop out when you don’t want it to like at work or something? What does it do when your on the toilet? Does it only come out to play when your hole is stretched and warmed up, and stay inside normally? When I was playing the other day before work I realised I’ve got a generous rosebud happening lately and am very interested in progressing it further! Although I’m a little concerned my wife will be turned off by it and I don’t want my life to be defined by my prolapse as much as I want one! I look forward to your honest answers and thanks in advance! Keep up the good work everyone!

I used to take an enema almost every morning (6 out of 7 days). I noticed that I would get a bit tired afterwards some days, but that said I wasn’t taking anything to counter act what I was flushing out of my body, I may have been fine otherwise. i used a hose on the shower, warm water, and what has been said above makes sense because I had to pee a lot afterwards.

My wife says she likes playing with my ass, saying that she likes how good it makes me feel. But when I told my ex GF I have a stretched asshole (with her at the time before I met my wife of course) she told me she was ok with it as long as she didn’t have to be involved in it. Bit shit to hear at the time I must admit. Having said that, I reckon if I was dating again I would try to be upfront with my partners about it when the time came. Easier said than done I know, but may as well be honest, rather than get caught later sneaking around shoving things in your ass! You may even spark an interest and they may love our way of playing...

My daily training routine before my living arrangements changed and made it harder to do... ...was every morning I would enema my ass deep, use a double ender to open up deep then stretch around large water bottles of warm water while I showered. The warm bottle seemed to help my ass relax, and as the weeks went on I found I was quickly taking larger bottles. I got from only 2 inches diameter to just over 3 in a few weeks, and besides that it was just a fun daily shower routine!

My cock is almost always soft when I’m playing with big toys. I’ve read somewhere that large insertions limits blood flow to your cock, someone correct me if I’m wrong but it would make sense.

Thanks for the quick answers! i don’t do it anywhere near as often as I would like due to current living arrangements. I’m keen on that to change in the next few months so I can go back to daily enemas and dilating in the shower